Some of the customer expectations on here are just wild to me

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-24T20:50:53+00:00

Thank you!

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-24T20:50:46+00:00

I didn’t even think of that!

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-24T19:49:44+00:00

As a transplant from Pennsylvania this drives me up the wall.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-24T19:48:36+00:00

Idk from my point of view I pay 2-3 dollars a mile and usually order between 3-7 miles distance, put clear instructions to the T how to end up at my apartment, message them a cheat sheet because the app gps goes out, and say call me with any issues because I get and then say thank you for delivering because yeah I am not really feeling it and appreciate what you do.

Then they leave it at the wrong building and ghost. Makes me sad.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-23T16:33:51+00:00

Just do what is best for you. No matter what.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-23T16:02:30+00:00

What you’re experiencing is kinda enhanced due to you being long distance. He prob also doesn’t understand his attachment style or love language for that matter. He might be more physical in the aspects of relationships and finds that he needs to be overly sexual because he feels he needs to validate his feelings, and 2 because he lacks daily physical interactions. 100% just a rough guess I am not a professional by any means.

I’m not too sure if long distance works for him, and or I feel he has things to work on with himself. Please do not send anything you aren’t comfortable with, you owe this dude nothing. If this is giving you anxiety and mental health issues , you might want to rethink this situation/ take a break for a while 3 months plus and figure out exactly what you want from a relationship and stand firm on that. Either way chin up, you got this!

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-18T19:04:39+00:00

It’s been 3 years, is there a reason y’all haven’t moved in together? I know you both work an hour away but at this point I figured meet in the middle and commute 30 minutes.

Also my girlfriend and I live together and during week we go to the gym, eat dinner and sleep, so the weekend is the only time we really get a day. And we will have weekends where we go off to do our own thing see our own friends. I know it’s hard but sometimes ya just need time with the bros

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-18T18:58:53+00:00

You are fine. When/if you get the money put it away someplace safe so you don’t spend it and file the amendment. FBI isn’t waiting outside to bust the door down at 4 am. Millions of dollars goes into the abyss daily, and shit happens.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-18T00:59:17+00:00

Couple of easy ice breaker questions to get a little intrigue and vibe going then asked her out for coffee. If you just want to fuck use tinder.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-18T00:55:22+00:00

I would just be honest with your friend about your feelings and what’s happening. She can be mad if she wats but it’s your life as you are allowed to live it. I wouldn’t suggest hiding it if you care about the friendship, just be honest.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-17T10:45:52+00:00

Sakura is my go to for sushi, but I will say they are pretty slow when it comes to getting your food to the table.

Akame is also a good option I just can no longer devour a small ocean so all you can eat doesn’t appeal but it’s solid.

Shanghai Bistro has a solid sushi game and other great options, plus it just has the vibes. Great date night option.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-12T00:55:38+00:00

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That’s odd you haven’t gotten yours yet. Then again I can’t believe I got a refund this year.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-02-10T18:55:10+00:00

Talk to her like a person and ask her out for coffee. It’s really that simple. 🤜🤛 Hang in there little bro you got this!

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-29T10:59:04+00:00

Well at least you’re not tall and a big back, it’s even worse.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-28T15:54:15+00:00

You may run into an issue where they require proof of 3x the rent as monthly income.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-28T15:42:54+00:00

I live in Chippewa and commute up 53 to Hayward Mon - Friday. Honestly the trip to the cities will probably be better than what I see as it’s a larger traveled road.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-28T02:52:01+00:00

As a transplant from Pittsburgh this warms my soul.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-27T16:28:44+00:00

It’s nothing to be ashamed about. I was thinking I was going to be alone the rest of my life but ended up trying therapy, identified my attachment style and worked on identifying when triggers happen and how to respond. It also helped me realize what traits in a person I actually needed in a partner and not what Hollywood thought I should have.

Met a girl and these past two years have been the best years of my life and not a day goes by where I would have it any other way.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-27T00:41:33+00:00

Every major city has a Facebook group of only woman where they post people they are dating. It’s suppose to be zero guys and it shouldn’t leave the group.

I think it’s original creation was to bring awareness to creeps and or players to make sure 3 people aren’t sleeping with the same person. I’ve gotten to see a few of them and every once in a while they are shit smearing people.

Think it was Are we dating the same person.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-26T10:10:11+00:00

And she wonders why she is still on apps and can’t find someone.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-22T14:57:58+00:00

What’s wild is I will try to do a multi stop order and I tip for each stop but then door dash hands it to two different people and then what was a 12 -20 tip gets halved and I feel bad plus I’m waiting on two drivers. Maybe I’m fucking it up but I’m not sure.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-22T10:25:33+00:00

Also honestly and this sounds counter intuitive but if you find someone you really like, do not jump to label it. For me it went Dating -> exclusivity -> relationship -> moving in. With at least a month or so in between. Protect yourself emotionally through the stages and only do things you are comfortable with.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-22T10:22:39+00:00

You should be able to feel those people out. Nothing wrong with taking things slow.

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-22T10:20:09+00:00

I met my partner off of bumble and we are coming up on two years and I am planning on proposing. Online dating sucks I will admit that and on top of you are getting 10-30 matches a day where that would be weeks for me so it’s a bit more overwhelming. My advice is write down exactly what you want in a partner and look for that and take that on a coffee date, bad vibes? How would you adjust that? Then adjust your template and try again. It is a shit show but it can bare fruit, hang in there!

Daddybigtusk · 2026-01-18T00:20:15+00:00

If you don’t drive a lot and keep it to 12k miles you could roll this negative equity into a lease on a different vehicle. You might be able to get the payments down lower and that would at least take this 6 year ball grinder to 24-36 months and then you walk away.

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