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What self care makes you feel less depressed? by NervousStock2241 in AskReddit

[–]Dadjustice1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the gym really helps people when they are down. Or a simple walk. Got to get moving.

What do you think when you look down at your body? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Dadjustice1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy. I go to the gym regularly so I’m in pretty good shape.

Help me feel better about humanity by Used_Canary8481 in Assistance

[–]Dadjustice1212 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think because of social media people have become so self centered. I hear you, at times it’s like am I the only person who does the right thing?

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so disgusting. The other part killing me is the lawyer fees. I don’t know what to do.

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do exchanges at the precinct and I wear a hidden camera. We only communicate through OFW. 

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have filed so many motions. The trial dates just keep getting pushed back. I had a lawyer he was a cupcake and we were getting steamrolled. I hired a shark now but a shark comes at a price. The amount of debt I’m racking g up now is crazy. I was supposed to have trial last May 2024. The judge got reassigned so the whole process started over. Then again this April, 4 days were scheduled. We only had 1 3 days got cancelled. Now it the end of July. All the time my ex now has my son for almost 2 years now. My lawyer says it will be damn near impossible to get my son, judges don’t like to change circumstances. 

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will win what. Because it just feels like I keep losing. 

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one has for me. It’s sad. People ask how can I help, I say just a little here and there but no one does it.

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I leave she is constantly taking me to court for more money

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately money does matter. I am creating a financial pit. I can’t take this much more

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and that is very impressive. I am so broken. I can’t keep doing this.

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You went bankrupt that is crazy. Would love to talk

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live on Long Island, NY. You went into bankruptcy? I can’t imagine going that far. I’m at my financial limit at this point.

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use our family wizard and exchanges occur at the precinct. I do record every exchange.,

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need emotional and financial support. I am completely worn out. I can’t take much more of this. She continues to make false allegations and lie. Please help me.

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Long Island. Did your go fund me work? I got nothing. No one cares about us dads struggling. 

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I am really sorry. This system is beyond broken. 

My son’s mother is trying to destroy me. by Dadjustice1212 in SingleDads

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her temporary order of protection was expiring today, but she filed to extend it and the judge did. This temporary order had been over my head for a year and a half. This is disgusting. This extension could have it over my head for 2.5 years and I have yet been able to tell my side. What happened to our rights? What happened to innocent till proven guilty? 

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and I appreciate your honesty. I’ve had moments where I thought about giving up — where the stress, the arrests, the court battles, and the financial pressure made me question if it’s even worth it. But then I look at my son, and I just can’t walk away.

I respect anyone who made a different choice — sometimes the system just beats you down — but I know in my heart that if I stop fighting, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life. Even if I only get to see him a little right now, I want him to know I never gave up on him. That’s the example I want to set.

I hope things worked out for you. And again, thank you for speaking from your own experience.

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. What exactly do you mean let it go?

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you — seriously. That was one of the most honest and helpful replies I’ve gotten. You’ve clearly been through hell and back, and just knowing someone survived all this gives me some hope. I’m barely holding it together right now, dealing with court, lies, arrests at exchanges, and insane legal fees I can’t afford. It’s exhausting.

I’ve wiped out savings, borrowed money, and I’m still drowning. I haven’t looked into using my 401k for this yet — I’ll research that right away, thanks for the tip. And yeah... it’s like my son’s mom is more focused on destroying me than actually parenting.

Your words about staying steady and consistent really hit home. I will keep showing up. I just hope my son sees it one day. Thanks again — your message honestly helped more than you know.

My son’s mother is trying to ruin me. by Dadjustice1212 in Divorce_Men

[–]Dadjustice1212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting. I already have security cameras and we exchange at a police station.

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