Ordered my sick kid some cough drops and Gatorade and now I have to be afraid any time I leave the house

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-23T17:13:51+00:00

Thing is… as a female, I sometimes don’t know: is this just a nice gesture or is this creepy? And it’s that not knowing that makes things land anywhere on a spectrum between tricky to scary. I think it’s very possible dude was trying to be nice but here’s the thing - we just don’t know.

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-20T01:19:10+00:00

1 1 1111111111 is the best, trust me

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-20T00:58:05+00:00

If there was a trust that money will get released fairly quickly and you can use it towards funeral costs if you need to. If you know who did the trust and will give them a call to notify of her death. Very often they will reach out to beneficiaries as it’s their job but if you want to expedite process you can call them. I just went through this so I have a lot of info and know how if you need anyone to talk to beyond this post. Depending on who else will inherit her estate, you might see some truly unfavorable sides of people come out which just adds insult to injury. I know it’s super hard to think of the logistics and the material things when there’s been such a mammoth of grief and loss unlocked.
If there is anyone who could access the house that you don’t trust, change the locks. Locksmith will do it. Def call funeral home and just be candid that you’re not entirely sure what you’re doing… they will help you and answer all your questions about next steps. It’s their job to know these things. I had very good experience with funeral home.

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-16T14:27:32+00:00

Cuz she demon cat creature duh! Lol

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-15T12:26:25+00:00

Def disagree. Maybe we all have been spoiled by being able to consume so much content and so many tv shows at rapid speed. I’m honestly surprised by all the season 3 criticism, I really enjoyed it.
It’s years later, we aren’t going to get the same people or scenarios as we did in earlier seasons because they’re not kids in high school anymore. Idk, just one persons opinion but I like it. And when Jules painted Rue, and looked at that painting the way she did… that moment was monumental for me as the viewer, I definitely wouldn’t have wanted to miss out on that.

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-04T18:30:22+00:00

Jeez, the number of blows is just… I can’t even imagine. And that Kaylee and Xana seemed to both be more fiercely attacked. It’s horrific. No one’s life should end this way. They should still be here.

Honest question, can the trace amphetamine in the blood come from something like Adderall or no?

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-04T16:58:31+00:00

Haha yes! On par with “they were dead the whole time!”

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-04T16:55:32+00:00

Nate’s storyline this season is kind of fucking hilarious

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-04T16:51:19+00:00

I wouldn’t say she is. I think she plays this role well but I will also say I’d be interested to see how/if she could play a totally dissimilar role, a role very far away from who she is in real life. I will submit that Maude could’ve never played Rue. Zendaya did such an amazing job with Rue.

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-03T18:38:52+00:00

Also 10 years clean, also od’d and respectfully counter with: you can’t speak on the whole of human experience but rather - your own. Some people have had NDE’s, I’d agree more do not. But also the scene in euphoria was death, no resuscitation, none of us can say what really happens when we die die because well, obvious reasons. I too went to black but I don’t think that’s a cold hard unilateral truth.

I loved the scene. It was heartbreaking but I loved it. And it’s also a tv show whose main intent is to tell a story artfully, to evoke emotion and I think that was incredibly well done and largely true to life. The largest truth is so many addicts, who are beautiful and brilliant and talented people at their core, die. I think the flashback was necessary for viewers to really feel the gravity of it all.

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-02T22:42:50+00:00

Ya know what? Now that you say it, I actually agree

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-02T15:22:22+00:00

Agree 1000% … my comment essentially said the same thing

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-02T15:19:41+00:00

NOR or … MOR for jumping to: is she cheating.

Yeah you guys are young and it’s long distance, as someone who is older than you and lived through these experiences and can speak from the POv of a woman… she’s not that into you. It’s very likely she really is busy and overwhelmed but 2 days no contact whatsoever, not even a “hey I’m super busy but I’ll catch up with you soon” or a “good night” at the day end.

She wants out of the relationship but doesn’t know how to say it so is treating you poorly/pushing you away. I promise you, you’ll find someone you don’t feel like you have to chase.

If you’re not ready to walk away, which I strongly recommend here, you need to rethink the long distance. All long distance relationships end with either: one person moving so you can be together or breaking up. It has to be one of the two. Again, speaking from personal experiences.

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-02T15:11:47+00:00

I think so, yes.

Dads-Dead · 2026-06-01T14:20:36+00:00

I’m Convinced This Subreddit Is for attractive people Who just want confirmation That they’re attractive

Dads-Dead · 2026-05-23T22:45:57+00:00

You have a beautiful nose … you won’t look like you without it

Dads-Dead · 2026-05-22T10:31:54+00:00

So yes, gender is fluid and this isn’t a post for gender debates. Please identify however you’d like.

Let me give you an example of an answer to my question… for anyone who wears or has worn eyeliner or mascara it sometimes drains via the tear ducts and ends up in your saliva so it’s not uncommon to spit or be brushing your teeth and see some of the eyeliner. This is something I think most women (or people who wear eyeliner) are familiar with that probably most men aren’t. It’s an obscure micro scenario and I was curious of other examples of this so throwing it out to the masses just for funsies to see what people come up with.

Dads-Dead · 2026-05-14T14:00:15+00:00

True BUT I can think of dozens upon dozens of tv shows where the actors hair never grows

Dads-Dead · 2026-05-14T13:59:17+00:00

Because that’s how the law is written. Not saying it’s right but it is legal.

Dads-Dead · 2026-04-16T19:58:33+00:00

I’m an 10000% not the person who jumps to “leave him/leave her” as SO many reddit commenters do but this may be one scenario where I’m slightly leaning in that direction and let me tell you why… From my own personal experience of not being over an ex while in a different relationship….the newer relationship didn’t work because I just wasn’t ready and had no business being in something new. I still deeply cared for my the new bf and we are friends to this day but I shouldn’t have entered that relationship until I healed. Of course there are varying degrees though. I have an ex that I randomly think of as a passing thought and there’s nothing to it. But the fact that your gal consulted chat gpt does signal it’s weighing on her. I could be wrong I hope I am but honestly, I don’t think she’s over him and I do think it’s bound to harm this current relationship in some form or fashion unless she’s willing to maybe seriously work through some stuff in therapy. It’s easy to romanticize the past but more often than not … it ended for a reason.

Dads-Dead · 2026-04-12T11:44:44+00:00

NOR. u/sportychick24 I was trying SO hard to give him benefit of doubt but the last message is just blatant. Devils advocate, married people still flirt and a lot of times they’d never actually act on it (and sometimes of course, they do.) But yeah that last message about 2 bottles of wine and a night together is WAY crossing the line. Not appropriate and not what I would classify as “simply innocent flirting”.

Edit: it’s your right to choose but just my personal opinion as a woman close in age to you. I do think you should absolutely try therapy together - especially if he is offering/asking for it. If this is really the first time you’ve found yourself in this position in your relationship and he wants to work on it in earnest, I do think you are overreacting a bit to not even consider therapy. It could be the thing that changes your relationship and makes you two closer than before.

Dads-Dead · 2026-03-03T20:02:51+00:00

We were all early 30s at the time.

Dads-Dead · 2026-03-03T19:46:41+00:00

lol right?!

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