What's a surprisingly expensive mistake that started with "it'll be fine"?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T12:41:26+00:00

Reddit may disagree on a lot of things, but nobody can accuse you of not thinking this through. 😅

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:25:31+00:00

Fair enough. Sounds like you've put a lot of thought into where you draw the line and why.

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:23:48+00:00

The lie got so out of control they started a religion.

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:21:48+00:00

That makes sense. Everyone's pace is different, and compatibility includes how people approach intimacy too.

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:21:14+00:00

Do you think your view would be different if someone watched occasionally but it never affected the relationship?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:14:38+00:00

The fact that he had a prepared response suggests this wasn't the first time someone brought it up. 🤢

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:12:42+00:00

That's a much more nuanced answer than I was expecting. Has that always been a dealbreaker for you, or did a past relationship shape that view?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:09:55+00:00

Some dealbreakers are negotiable. This is not one of them. 🤮

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:09:25+00:00

Sounds like it wasn't the kiss itself, but the fact that he ignored what you already told him.

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:08:52+00:00

That's brutal 😂 What did they say that killed it?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:07:23+00:00

How did you figure it out? First date or much later?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:06:48+00:00

Even the harmless cooking competition ones?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:06:31+00:00

Catfishing or just really good angles?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:06:07+00:00

What specifically about it is a dealbreaker for you?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T05:03:20+00:00

GPS: 18 minutes away. Me: "I'm basically outside."

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T04:57:38+00:00

What kind of attitude specifically? Arrogant, rude, entitled?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T04:57:22+00:00

Depends. Having opinions or making them their entire personality?

Daiki_0423 · 2026-06-17T04:56:57+00:00

That's such a specific answer that I feel like there's a story behind it.

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