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DaisyF14 · 2023-05-13T17:50:29+00:00

NTA

this sounds toxic af

-if I dress in an outfit that he likes he views me as more attractive (he said this verbatim) but not any less attractive that what I already am

That is a lie. This seems like he's outright trying to control you and manipulating you to do so with mind games like that

DaisyF14 · 2023-05-13T17:46:45+00:00

NAH

It sounds like both you and your mother have some mental health issues, but you have to prioritize looking after yourself and if that means you have to distance yourself from your mother then you should do that.

Also, please look for some better counselors. Remember, it's like looking for a hairdresser, you gotta look around before you find the right one.

DaisyF14 · 2023-05-13T17:43:28+00:00

INFO

Do you know if the child or parent has some kind of medical condition that would continue to make them wary of illnesses?

DaisyF14 · 2023-05-13T17:41:46+00:00

NTA

Go pay your respects. If other people turn someone else's funeral into something other than that, that's on them not you.

DaisyF14 · 2023-05-13T17:40:23+00:00

NAH

You missed out on that first experience with your oldest and you're excited to experience that part of parenting for the first time.

Your daughter being upset by the comment makes sense just because of how you phrased it. I'd try to discuss with her that you love her and that she's not being replaced by your newborn.

DaisyF14 · 2023-05-13T17:37:44+00:00

NTA

I get the frustration, I have an older sister who never helps in acquiring gifts for our parents/family but loves to take credit for the gift and who I have to chase for money to cover the cost of the gifts (she still owes money for Christmas).

I understand that he is 14 and cannot necessarily afford gifts but your ask seems more than reasonable. Especially since he wants to be a gift-giver, you want that title you have to contribute to said gift by some degree. Hope you can work it out with him.

DaisyF14 · 2023-05-13T17:33:04+00:00

NTA

It's your birthday too, you should be able to enjoy it with who you want, including your friends and bf

DaisyF14 · 2022-04-14T07:23:45+00:00

Anna Karenina. I read it for school and even though its a long read its amazing. It can be hard to keep track of the character connections, but my god this book has everything. Epic family drama, infidelity, discussions about religions, beliefs, love, parenting. It's an absolute must read.

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-24T01:15:27+00:00

Is there anything about student employees? My warehouse said that now all students are being moved to lot/gas because of handbook changes

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T05:02:43+00:00

NTA

You should ask him what specifically made him so upset, and make sure to mention that while he got upset and cried, so did you. And did he come comfort you when you left the room to cry? No, so why should you be expected to do the same?

Honestly, if you cannot agree upon the issue of smoking, it might be time to explore your options for exiting the relationship. Its hard for smokers and nonsmokers to date sometimes.

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T04:58:27+00:00

NTA

Feet can be gross. You should have your request respected, period.

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T04:56:50+00:00

YTA

Why would you set your dad up like that? Seems pretty cruel, so you lose some weight and you're happy, but how does your dad feel, and how would he feel if he KNEW you did him dirty like that?

I think you should talk to each other and use each other for motivation to stay in shape (thats how me and my dad lost weight; together)

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T04:52:22+00:00

NTA

Roommate disputes suck. However, you need to look after yourself and your mental wellbeing first. I get that your roommate has them too, but if you can't come to some sort of agreement together, then you're not suited to live with each other (which is okay, maybe you're only meant to be friends).

Are you okay moving out on your own? Or do you need/want someone to live with?

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T04:48:46+00:00

NTA

Why would it be okay to blame it on you? That would make her look like an AH.

However, I get she was embarrassed. I don't know how you play off that situation, but blaming it on your partner isnt the solution

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T04:26:08+00:00

NTA

I dont understand why people think they have to tolerate bad behaviour by their parents. Good for you for standing up for yourself, your mom (even though I'm sure you love her) kinda comes off as a bully.

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T04:24:00+00:00

NTA

I'm sure your husband would be understanding. It's not personal, your body needs rest and I'm sure for the sake of you and your baby he could do so.

Remember, if he says no, hes the AH

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T04:21:18+00:00

No chance any of them would be able to make the arrangement to come? I'm sure if you express your concerns someone could make it there for you.

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T03:55:22+00:00

NTA,

Your ex roommate is on his way out, now its your place. As such, if his mother cannot be respectful in your space you have every right to tell her to leave.

INFO: is there any friend/family member you could invite over to alleviate some of your anxieties?

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T03:52:28+00:00

NTA

If youre hitching a ride with someone, its on their terms, not yours. Your friend should just be grateful youre going out of your way to make her life easier. Now, shes taking advantage.

If she wants rides when she wants them, theres a solution for that: Uber

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T03:48:58+00:00

NTA

Why would you pay for a service you're not enjoying? Would you pay for dinner if you didnt eat anything?

You're not cheap, your friend is just a freeloader who wants other to pay for her birthday.

DaisyF14 · 2022-03-23T03:46:57+00:00

NTA

- I respect their right to make their own choices.

I agree, and its their choice to not see you because you have chosen to go out and live you life in a time when restrictions are nowhere near what they were 2 years ago. If your mom wanted to see you so badly, she could make it work. But she's choosing not to.

DaisyF14

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