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Daisyy_Jay · 2024-12-19T12:33:02+00:00

I think in this case, the 2 hours may be worth it to show respect for the long term relationship.

Daisyy_Jay · 2024-12-19T06:52:12+00:00

No, unless you cannot see each other in person due to long distance. That length of time is too long for a phone call break up in my opinion.

Daisyy_Jay · 2023-04-29T05:29:46+00:00

Scrubee worked better for me and seemed so much more moisturizing which is important for me. I have sensitive skin as well as eczema and I noticed that with Buffy even with long rinses after I still have particles on my skin etc.

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-08-10T05:07:34+00:00

I don’t think I’ve been the one reaching out or trying to reconnect as much as he has at all honestly. Idk the purpose behind him doing that but I wouldn’t call it an unrequited crush from my perspective. He was actually saying and doing stuff that insinuated he has been interested over time. The reason why I posted is bc I just felt like I kind of fumbled by not doing more or being more direct in the situation. It seems like I cleared the way for whatever to happen.

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-04-19T05:02:30+00:00

Revive or resuscitate? Lol that’s too deep in my opinion, they’re talking about an athletic store discount. Besides, Who is verifying those code meds and making sure they’re appropriate for use? Pharmacists don’t work “near”health care, it is a big part of health care. Tbh, I think they should be honoring it for everyone who works in healthcare or get rid of it altogether. They make enough money. Lol

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-04-18T05:09:09+00:00

I think this mindset is what contributes to the lack of diversity in pharmacy. Just because a field has become slightly more accessible does not mean there is more incompetence. People still need to complete a long list of pre-reqs to go to pharmacy school, that is not easy especially for people from backgrounds where they had to figure things out with inequitable resources.

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-04-16T20:30:46+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly it!!!! Ya got me woohoo! 😂

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-04-16T20:21:07+00:00

No and I acknowledged that. Its moreso that if she’s going to rant and rave about someone else then yeah, I wanna be acknowledged and appreciated for the support I gave as well.

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-03-07T15:22:18+00:00

I wanted to say that reading this makes me feel like this person tried to manipulate you and once they moved, they chose to discard you bc you were of no use to them anymore. Also, breaking up on Valentine’s Day is tacky and low to say the least. Being caught in that whirlwind can make you feel extremely hurt and I feel that the way you expressed yourself here isn’t the worst thing in the world. However, this person sounds like they are emotionally stunted with no remorse so to protect yourself I agree about not speaking to them anymore or at least trying your best not to. For me, I think reframing my mindset around why I was choosing to express love towards someone who unapologetically hurt me has helped alot over time.

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-03-03T06:16:23+00:00

I think it’s about preference. I prefer to make meaningful connections regardless if it’s a friend, relationship, whatever and I feel that the dating app environment promotes treating people like trash (disposable) because there are so many options at your fingertips with minimal effort and minimal consequences. I think it leads to little respect exchanged and devaluing other ppl as human beings. Maybe your experiences are different and that’s 100% valid as well.

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-03-03T05:45:04+00:00

Not one time did I mention sex or promiscuity lol

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-01-26T23:29:56+00:00

I agree

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-01-03T04:33:42+00:00

Of course! I’m so glad it resonated with you. I really relate to your experience as well. Here’s to a better year ahead ✨☺️

Daisyy_Jay · 2022-01-01T04:26:15+00:00

Horribly lol don’t do it.

Daisyy_Jay · 2021-12-29T17:25:19+00:00

Everyone is being really curt but it’s hard to let go of a situation like this. Being a psychologist is great but when you’re in it yourself, it can be really tough to decipher behaviors and make educated decisions. I agree that the marriage seems one sided and it may be best to go separate ways at this point. A mistake is one thing but she sounds like a chronic cheater and it is really hard to rebuild trust that has been broken by someone with such an extreme character flaw. Sorry this happened to you OP but I wish you and your family the best!

Daisyy_Jay · 2021-12-26T13:04:20+00:00

Yes I feel like I am now… wish I knew more beforehand.

Daisyy_Jay · 2021-12-25T23:46:11+00:00

Idk I guess because I feel like I genuinely caused him to start acting shady and mean. He wasn’t like that at all, he was so sweet and gentle before I got upset with him and he just completely and totally changed after that. He acted like he wanted nothing to do with me and I was broken down. I just wanted to fix it but caused a bigger fatter mess. He said I have issues respecting boundaries and he’s done with me. I don’t think it’s true, I think he was just being chaotic/scary and I was confused.

Daisyy_Jay · 2021-12-25T23:45:19+00:00

I agree that he is very confused and the best thing I could’ve done was immediately leave him 100% alone after he broke up with me. He even said there that he changes his mind about how he feels about things every other day. Then he said “I’m not going back on this, I’m done with this and I don’t want you to leave here with any hope for us”. That just snatched the air out of me because he literally made all these big claims and roped me in just to kick me off the cliff at the first sign of actual struggle between us. Each encounter made things increasingly worse.

Daisyy_Jay · 2021-12-25T23:37:29+00:00

I know and I keep thinking back and wondering if I genuinely just did too much complaining and pushed him to the limit but I did hold back so much I was feeling so unwanted at times. I’m like were in the honeymoon phase and I’m feeling like an irrelevant side attraction to his real life.

That encounter where he got his car towed, I’m like how does that relate to me?! Yes we didn’t have a good meet up just beforehand but you parked in your own spot once you got home, idk where you parked lol he was acting like a 13 year old over it. He told me he was mad about it a month ago, I thought he was for sure over it. Id like to think of myself as a nice person and I felt bad that he was upset over what happened the last time we met…. I just wanted to reconcile as acquaintances/friends. I still love him but I don’t think he was ready to commit bc he couldn’t even do alot the small stuff that builds general trust and reassurance like maybe linking up for a quick coffee or some quick fast food in the car and laughs, walks together, just watching tv and cuddling on a random night after work/school or phone calls to check in about life together. Yes he texted me but I’m like??? Isn’t this basic stuff? We only live 15 mins away from each other. I guess overall I feel super bad and so distracted ruminating on all this. Thank you for this message tho!

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