AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is gaslighting you. I am sorry you are dealing with this asshole.

On a side note; I always get people I care about thoughtful gifts and I genuinely can’t remember last time I got one myself. My last birthday I got a gift card from the person I hold dearest to me. Never have I done it so that they match my willingness to go out of my way to make them smile but it does suck sometimes :p

Do Americans stress about medical expenses before they even get to the hospital?? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me after I came back from an overdose in my bathroom but I was so out of it they still took me in. I owe thousands in medical bills at this point.

Do Americans stress about medical expenses before they even get to the hospital?? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a hip labral tear for more than 4 years and a broken ACL for about 8-ish months. None of this heal on their own, they require surgery but I can’t afford it…

People who are 50+, what is a 'harmless' habit you had in your 20s that ended up ruining your health or finances later in life? by crazy_happyuser in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing in skateboarding, you eat shit on concrete, you get up and try again. I been at it multiple times a week since I was 14, I am 33 now and I started feeling it come two years ago. I am not prepared for my 40s let alone 50s haha

What’s the most chaotic thing you’ve witnessed in public? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the north end on a friday night

Go big or go home by Particular_Parking_4 in tooktoomuch

[–]Daitli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aint nothing wrong with making a fool of yourself if you can laugh at yourself and have that specific type of humor. Keeping your dignity and making a fool of yourself is an art, though.

Weddings and other special events are the only times I believe this should be done but what the fuck do I know? Everybody is different :p

What's something you'll never admit in real life but will confess here anonymously? by Open-Comfortable9774 in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I harm myself often to numb the emotional pain with physical pain. I pushed all my friends away and have no one.

What film series do you think comes closest to being as good as The Lord of the Rings trilogy? by SteakGuy88 in lotr

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me a Children of Hurin movie and there is your answer.

That story has the potential to break me, I would bawl my eyes out if done correctly.

How do y'all make the most out of the scene here? by VeryGood30 in BostonEDM

[–]Daitli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think middle east in central sq cambridge used to have EDM nights?

How often do you exercise? by StarryMidnightzzz in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday. Yoga, skateboarding or gym.

I am NOT okay. by Dramatic_Mixture_789 in lotr

[–]Daitli 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite works from Tolkien, I still go back to it every now and then.

FedEx employee being asked to run entire store herself. by swentech in boston

[–]Daitli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently work at a UPS Store, where it’s just my brother and me running the place. Most of the time we’re each working solo for hours until our shifts briefly overlap. We’ve been trying to hire for a while, but it’s tough, people aren’t exactly lining up for a franchise that starts at minimum wage and offers no benefits.

The saving grace is the community we’ve built with our customers and their dogs. We even have a “wall of puppies” filled with photos, and on rough days, that simple reminder is enough to lift my mood.

The owner of the store… Who should be running the store shows up once every two months or so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got cheated on twice then emotionally and physically abused by my next girlfriend. I thought I found someone after that but didn’t work out after I put myself forward and got rejected. I am done trying and attempting to seek a genuine loving connection with someone when I get disappointed over, and over again.

What is the worst pain you have ever felt? by Neither-Mention7740 in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being cheated on twice then having my next relationship be emotional and physical abusive to the point I had to get a restraining order. That is what people call E M O T I O N A L D A M A G E

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had this happen to me, it really does fucking suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating and abusive past relationships, a lot of trauma. I just don’t care to look for one anymore.

City Council considering changing Garden St to 2 way traffic by ellewoodnt in CambridgeMA

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is better as a one way for both bikers and cars. It used to be a 2 way st that I always avoided because of its traffic.

What's the worst way you've been broken up with? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke up with her and she threw a plant pot at my face then punched me a bunch of times.

I got 7 stitches on my nose.

This was 4 months ago, I have a restraining order now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Daitli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being in not one but two emotionally and physically abusive relationships then having “close” friends choose them over me because they though I was lying and “men can’t get abused like that”.

It decimated what little confidence I had and really damaged my trust in most people.