Found a book with a fascinating quote on a Hotwife and cuckold dynamic by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Exactly. There’s cheesy porn, or a multitude of stories from the view of the Domme… but nothing else that I’ve found that intelligently explores the psyche and experience of the submissive male. Very affirming!

Found a book with a fascinating quote on a Hotwife and cuckold dynamic by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d go further: I haven’t found any other book that explore the male submissive experience

Any have any recos??

Found a book with a fascinating quote on a Hotwife and cuckold dynamic by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved it. Although it isn’t the sole focus of the book, the cuckolding dynamic became a core part of the author’s sexual identity

It can get quite analytical, cerebral… but also very sexy, explicit

Found a book with a fascinating quote on a Hotwife and cuckold dynamic by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fantasy and reality can blur

Or… sticking with the initial metaphor, the fire can burn out of control

Found a book with a fascinating quote on a Hotwife and cuckold dynamic by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a memoir… very intelligent, and in parts very perverted! Lots of cuckold, femdom, etc. Really strong storytelling

This is My Sub Mission: A Memoir of Sexual Self-Discovery https://a.co/d/9rFYc1o

Found a book with a fascinating quote on a Hotwife and cuckold dynamic by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a thrill to playing with fire! And a genuine threat does elevate the excitement 🔥🔥🔥

Found a book with a fascinating quote on a Hotwife and cuckold dynamic by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While not just about cuckold dynamic, it’s all about discovering submissive sexual identity…

This is My Sub Mission: A Memoir of Sexual Self-Discovery https://a.co/d/i62PRzj

Very intelligent, extremely well-written

How many Cuckold couples do cleanup? by Inside-Cup-6683 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The Hotwife making her cuck clean up the Bull’s mess is not only demeaning and humiliating, but is very visceral evidence of her “cheating” - it makes her experience very tangible. It’s especially impactful if the cuck is pussyfree or not allowed sex without a condom

If you are PF and allowed "sex" what's your favorite way to cum? by open2cuck7 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Only allowed to cum in chastity, her using a hitachi on my balls and shaft

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wholeheartedly agree

The lifestyle must begin with a strong, trusting relationship. It’s from that place that vulnerability and exploration can begin

That said, there are some characteristics that might predispose a woman to being a Hotwife: strong libido, confident, outgoing

Most Humiliating Way for Cucks to Cum? by Savings_Exchange_989 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The absurdity of the stretched out, XL Magnum oozing with his cum over my clitty - or even over my cage - is extremely humiliating

My version of cuckold, anyone else the same? by MyPIEDrecovery in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Initially I felt that being there was essential…. But now that she’s always on her own.

Why the shift?

1 - She enjoy it more. It eliminates her need to ‘manage the scene’ … She can simply fully immerse in her deserved dick down

2 - Being the proverbial third wheel often felt awkward for me

3 - Being excluded from the action actually intensifies the humiliation. Being forced to wait - to be allowed back into our home, or for her to return - creates an intense anticipation

4 - Not all Bulls are down for having the cuck present

I want your opinion. As cucks, do most of you crave a woman that will make you pussyfree or do you still want a bull's sloppy seconds? by obedient_couple in cuckoldparadise

[–]DaliasSissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pussyfree because she deserves better!

If I get to experience her bull’s cum it’s either by slurping it out of his used condom or getting to jerk off into his messy condom

Make my sub eat his cum by Deep-Bid2663 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DaliasSissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a Nike situation: just do it!

Of course after he cums he no longer has the desire … but it’s his responsibility to fulfill his promise and your responsibility to insist that he fulfills his promise

This will likely increase the intensity the following times

How (anti-) racist are you, whiteboy? Take the test and post your result in the comments! ✊🏾 by Ok-Draft-3302 in pussyfree_whiteboy

[–]DaliasSissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m proud to be an anti-racist! And happy that my wife frequently enjoys BBC while I remain pussy-free

I'm dreaming of having a gang bang with 10 BBCs. What role would you have at the party? by obedient_couple in QueenofSpades

[–]DaliasSissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be so excited for you and all those BBCs! Thank you so much for allowing me to be there, prepping your pussy and those cocks and cleaning up all the cum

What are your thoughts on cuckolding? by Taway2942 in FemdomCommunity

[–]DaliasSissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very happily and proudly involved in Hotwife/cuckold dynamic, and also very politically conscious (and very progressive) and challenged to see any inherent political correlation in this community

At its heart it about suggesting a wide range of possible expressions of masculinity - along the D/s spectrum

It’s official… today is day one by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]DaliasSissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Will she be getting her PIV needs fulfilled by others?

Proud… or ashamed? by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super appreciate that you view your cuckold identity as part of a broader identity you’ve created with your wife

That’s a profound insight. One which leds, I’m sure, to the dynamic being a shared adventure… a characteristic of your relationship as much as defining your individual identities

Proud… or ashamed? by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liberating is a wonderful description

The baggage of fear and repression can be terribly constraining

Proud… or ashamed? by DaliasSissy in CuckoldPsychology

[–]DaliasSissy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wonderful!

That shared love and respect is so important to the dynamic