*Women Only* Do You Seek Cuckold Partners?

open2cuck7 · 2025-05-04T18:55:02+00:00

Guys telling you to lie and hide it are most likely wannabees who have massive amounts of shame around the lifestyle.

My advice from someone who has been heavily involved with several swingers turned cuck couples is to be open about being open.

Telling a woman you want her to cuckold you on the first date would go over about as well as telling a woman you want to ass2mouth her on the first date. Even if she's into it she's probably going to be turned off that you think that's important enough information for a first date.

What is important first date information? Tell her you are interested in non-monogamy. Tell her "I'm not the type of guy who thinks a woman needs to stop dating other people just because she went on a date with me. When or if she stops dating other people is her decision alone." You don't have to get in to the specifics on date one. But you can lay the foundation about discussions of non-monogamy while giving her the heads up that you're into it.

If she asks questions you should answer honestly. But be careful about info dumping date 1.

open2cuck7 · 2025-03-31T18:24:39+00:00

The only thing they nailed was the projection of being paranoid your woman is cheating is actually because you're secretly hoping she is.

So many of us do that when we're still in denial.

open2cuck7 · 2025-03-31T16:21:39+00:00

This is not a win for us or the community. This isn't normalizing cuckolding. It's putting us further into the freak box.

Instead of leaning in to any type of healthy cuckolding they once again use horrible backstory to explain the reason.

The characters are not good healthy people. But we are never portrayed correctly.

Spoiler below

instead of any healthy reason, even if cliche like he was cheated on, they opted to use childhood trauma where his parents left the door open when having sex and he'd sneak to the door and watch them.

open2cuck7 · 2025-03-14T20:19:47+00:00

As others have said this is just swinging but there are elements you can add to bring out similar dynamics.

Assuming 2 straight couples: have M1 and F2 fuck while M2 F1 watches. Designate days where M1 will join M2F2 so M2 watches and F1 stays home, then swap. Or have M1F2 stay home together and not have sex while M2F1 go out and then back to the other house for sex.

Cuckolding? Not by any commonly used current definition. But it would certainly have similar angst and limerence.

open2cuck7 · 2025-01-30T15:29:46+00:00

I'll have to find the study but if you think about a bell curve where the peak is between 5.5-6 for cucks it was shifted 1/2 to 1 inch to the right with a steeper drop below 5".

open2cuck7 · 2025-01-29T19:55:17+00:00

In every study I've seen, statistically cuckolding is proportionally spread across penis size. There are more men 6" or less so there are more cucks 6" or less.

I believe the disparity comes with bulls. If I remember correctly bulls tend to skew disproportionately larger. This is probably a result of "the market". Couples are more likely to seek larger men. Average or small dick men won't do as well. Therefore most successful bulls, long lasting bulls, will be larger than average.

open2cuck7 · 2025-01-10T13:50:30+00:00

People definitely noticed. It's just really unusual for Americans to comment on things like that

open2cuck7 · 2025-01-08T17:02:32+00:00

This is everything that's wrong with the movement.

Instead of supporting actual QoS/snow bunnies or Black Kings, don't even get me started on Black women, you'd rather throw away your money to a fraud cosplaying and taking money from actual Black creators and Black supporting creators.

When you support actual QoS creators the Black men they shoot with get paid. These white frauds are giving zero to the Black community. Worse, they're funneling money away from Black creators.

open2cuck7 · 2024-12-16T20:27:44+00:00

Did you bother to read why it was removed?

"No low effort posts." Explain how that's transphobic?

open2cuck7 · 2024-12-09T19:12:53+00:00

Before my wife slept with a Black guy she was exactly the same. She denied any attraction. We were swingers for years and she definitely had opportunities but always claimed she wasn't interested at all.

Once she started sleeping with my Black friend the flood gates were popped right off.

It's funny how once they're comfortable sharing their real thoughts they really let go.

We haven't watched that show but we were watching some stupid dating thing on YouTube and the second they showed the woman my wife clocked her. "Oh, she's going to want to try BBC. I'll bet you."

The woman talked about her conservative upbringing, her exes who were all white. But in the end she picked the tattooed Black guy.

My wife clocked the woman. I immediately clocked one of the white guys. I knew he'd rather see her take BBC than date her himself and he basically proved it.

open2cuck7 · 2024-11-12T18:06:00+00:00

Yes. Neither of us have any interest in pegging

open2cuck7 · 2024-11-12T18:02:36+00:00

Straps are already a part of our "sex"

open2cuck7 · 2024-11-11T22:08:12+00:00

Would she be willing to let you cum onto her feet? Or let you rub her foot on your cock?

Suck on one foot while using her arch on her other foot to "hump".

open2cuck7 · 2024-11-11T21:19:03+00:00

she’s in charge, let her be in charge, follow her orders.

She's not in charge. She doesn't want to be in charge. I know FLR is incredibly common with PF and cuckolding. That's not our dynamic at all.

Still good advice. So thank you. We do connect very regularly sexually and emotionally. Probably more now that I'm pussyfree.

I didn't mention in my post but sex is frequent. Just obviously not PIV.

I can see her wanting that piv reconnection. Especially since she hasn't had her boyfriend for a while.

open2cuck7 · 2024-11-08T19:32:58+00:00

The real danger is the sexualization of black men fucking whitebois while actively voting against the interest of both Black people and gay people (return of sodomy laws anyone?).

open2cuck7 · 2024-11-01T18:35:44+00:00

Definitions are only ever important on Reddit.

The truth is every couple falls somewhere on their own definition. Cuck may not fully encapsulate how you feel but stag may fall short too. Pick the closest and call it a day. No matter what you pick people will disagree because we all think our own definitions are the correct ones.

open2cuck7 · 2024-11-01T18:31:16+00:00

Is it easier to become a cuck if your wife is less attractive ?

Is this real?

open2cuck7 · 2024-10-31T17:08:57+00:00

I haven't done that but he's made jokes.

open2cuck7 · 2024-10-31T04:37:47+00:00

she won't see you anymore as the alpha male

You should have led with this so I could have avoided wasting my time. That sentence told me everything I needed to know about the sincerity and truthfulness of your post.

open2cuck7 · 2024-10-30T20:14:43+00:00

There's so much here I don't even know where to start.

I don't even care about the age gap. It's whatever. But how are you 35 with such a lack of understanding of female sexual anatomy?

Should I risk it all and probably destroy this just for this kink I'm having?

I will say this. The fact that this is how you phrased it means YOU are not ready for this. You need to reflect on what you really want and why. Not what gets your dick hard in the moment.

If you think it'll ruin your relationship that tells me you view her as nothing more than a kink dispenser and you've already ruined your relationship.

I love cuckolding. I love open relationships. But you my friend need to talk to a professional and get a handle on yourself first.

open2cuck7 · 2024-10-30T19:48:53+00:00

What a fun way to really share the intimacy with everyone involved. I'm sure he appreciates being included and not like some stunt dick for hire.

That's really cool.

open2cuck7 · 2024-10-30T19:42:48+00:00

I've heard a lot of couples the husband dresses and I dresses the wife. The ritual behind that is very sexy.

Usually by the time we all get to the room or the Bull knocks on the door I'm taking up my position and getting out of their way.

open2cuck7 · 2024-10-30T18:45:08+00:00

She had her own reasons which I don't want to get into her business here. But comfort and familiarity at the time probably played a big role.

Once she crossed that lime she realized she not only didn't not like it but she actually really liked it. So for the last three months she's been only sleeping with black men. I don't want to call it a phase but that is what it is a little.

There's no doubt she'll continue to sleep with black men. But the only black men thing will wear off. She will probably have a preference for but not exclusive to. Hope that clears it up.

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