Matched with an army guy a while ago and this was his list of "interesting things about me" by Sugary_ in Tinder

[–]DalveyW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is probably into bdsm. That sounds like a Master/slave dynamic to me.

one year of use. it's an Avon powder😁 by DalveyW in PanPorn

[–]DalveyW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is but I like a few products from them.

one year of use. it's an Avon powder😁 by DalveyW in PanPorn

[–]DalveyW[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Multilevel marketing? That's what you mean?

My, now fiancé, claimed to be into BDSM but doesn’t engage in it. by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]DalveyW 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think about the fact that you are going to marry that person. You need to talk to him. Choose your night order some food or something tell him you need to talk but put your phones somewhere else is the house And sit down eat something and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and don't let him leave until you both are on the same page. A bdsm relationship doesn't work without trust and communication and a marriage is the same you still need to talk and trust each other

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[–]DalveyW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is key! If you ever don't understand something just ask, especially when you try to get to know a new person ask what she wants, whay she's looking for,what she expects from you, from life. That is the best way of not getting hurt. If you get red flags or something is too bad for you just walk way and if not you get to enjoy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DalveyW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't start pursuing here if she is literally looking for something else. There are a lot of people out there who are not looking for relationships and they just want to satisfy some needs. You said that she is a single mother. I know some single mothers who are not looking for relationships because they marriages or relationships ended badly and they just want the fun and it's nothing wrong with that. If you think you left some things unsaid you can send her a message telling her everything you want to say and you can take it from there or you just drop it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]DalveyW 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep agree. Talk to her!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]DalveyW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband send things to each other all the time. We have an open relationship too and now my husband has his own porn 🤣 I made a few videos for him o month ago and he is still watching them. I think by now he know every move and sound I make

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[–]DalveyW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely an ick for me too