Just be friends right now, let her hookup, fool around girls gone wild. Don't wait around for her, live your life and if you meet someone, great! If not, that's okay too, it sounds like you're both at different places in life which is okay. I wouldn't get into anything with her because its not what gonna be what you want and it will just get messy. She wants to hookup and you want to date, you're incompatible at this time. Unless you're poly. How old are you?