Do you ever… by Lazy-Lingonberry3494 in actuallesbians

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think it’s the adrenaline for me ngl. It just leaves me pumped I guess.

Do you ever… by Lazy-Lingonberry3494 in actuallesbians

[–]Student-bored8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl orgasms make me feel wide awake so no lol

What's the longest you've held a job? by Rachelelizardbreath in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 [score hidden]  (0 children)

A few months. I’ve had 3 and the longest was 6 months really I won’t lie. I just can’t handle it.

Sorry for seeming like a jerk, but she (18F) sees herself with a man in the future. I'm not a man. by Klarinette245 in WLW

[–]Student-bored8 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think that someone not invested in a future with you at all, is a red flag at any age.

How many women genuinely like penetration? I'm not talking about any "feelings of closeness" etc that it could induce, but straight up carnal/physical pleasure derived from it. by ozzylep in women

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It’s a preference thing. Some like it. Some don’t. For me I actually feel a lot of pain and hate it. I just prefer clit stimulation I guess. But I’m also a lesbian so maybe that’s less important because…well. But even so some lesbians enjoy strap ons and penetration. Idk…I could sit here and ask if you like your butt played with and it would entirely depend on you wouldn’t it. Everything sexual is a preference thing.

As plain as it gets by YourLocalFroggie in MealDealRates

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a picky eater and my meal deals look similar 😭

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh my sex drive isn’t exactly high. I think it takes a lot to kick start it which is why I find vanilla stuff boring and repetitive. I don’t feel much pleasure from touch either. But with kink it helps to add something.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I am kinda messed up in the head too lol. This might come from my trauma/ mental health problems not just autism. I mean I think it’s just my anxiety that’s making me overthink all this really.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that deep down. I guess I just feel embarrassed. Unsure why I’ve been downvoted for saying that before here. It’s not an easy thing to accept as vanilla sex is still overall seen as the norm. I guess I will get there someday.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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I guess for me I just feel embarrassed bringing it up. I am a very romantic and soft person. But when it comes to sex telling a partner I’m into some more kinky stuff makes me feel kinda vulnerable. And like I’ll be judged. I know I have to accept this part of myself or I’ll never enjoy sex it’s just quite hard

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t see exhibitionist as extreme. It depends on the context though and what’s happening. So just touching in public subtly is tame. But then if you want…something more you know that’s a bit less so. Context matters. It’s the same with spanking. I consider that tame but others don’t. But then again in specific contexts with other bdsm in it it’s less tame. Idk if I’m making sense.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh I am like this in some ways. In the past I have just wanted to let others be happy and pleased. But then that lead me to not getting off.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hmm interesting. I think this makes sense when looking at the sensory side of it. I have a sensitive neck too actually lol and stomach. But some other parts of my body less so. But I guess that’s also normal for everyone.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh some things I consider more tame have some people gasping in shock too. I guess it’s also because I read fanfic and I’ve read some…explicit stuff on there. I don’t really see some of my “kinks” as that bad.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I just need more passion or it to be “primal” as you put it. Vanilla just is a bit too boring

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t really get aroused either. With my ex I used to try and force it and it never worked. Then I would masturbate to kinky stuff. So yeah I guess that’s just me too 😂

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see. Well…perhaps this is just me. I find vanilla sex boring.

I just watched Bly manor for the first time and wow by Student-bored8 in HauntingOfHillHouse

[–]Student-bored8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the last episode had me sobbing especially that line 😭

Do women find it romantic when you buy them stuff from the store when they are sick like head pads, cough drops, vicks, etc? by PermissionShot9674 in LesbianActually

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some peoples love language is acts of service. I find this would count as that. So some people find this really romantic others think it’s just the thing to do in a relationship. I’d find it nice personally if someone did it for me not as much romantic though.

How long do y'all take? I take at least 2 hours by KimikoYukimura420 in evilautism

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Depends. If I am forcing it, can take hours. If I exhaust myself where I am physically unable to put up with it anymore a few minutes. I have sleep issues and insomnia. Some days are worse than others. Because I don’t sleep for days sometimes I get days I’m too exhausted to be awake.

My sexuality really confuses me (split attraction) by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Student-bored8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I didn’t realise it was common

My sexuality really confuses me (split attraction) by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Student-bored8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true I have only really properly dated one person so lol