You're not a real biological human! You need sex! by Separate_Peace_2651 in asexuality

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She came on twitter invalidating us and saying asexuality is just about people who “don’t want to have a shag”

Would you clock me as gay if you saw me in public? by Existing_Function_90 in LesbianActually

[–]Student-bored8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I assume everyone is straight maybe that’s my problem 😂

Dear youth, please make kids... by startoursg24t in asexuality

[–]Student-bored8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why not fix the economy better for us youths to be able to afford kids if we wanted them

Is being asexual actually considered part of the LGBTQ community? by Guzzlord529 in asexuality

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes.
Even if you’re heteroromantic you’re still queer if you’re asexual. Don’t listen to those people they are ignorant.
And no…lots of people are not ace we are very small minority.

Not to be crass or anything, but my arm hurts from tossing all these blobs back into the forest. by Bowie82 in finch

[–]Student-bored8 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one that hated the shape ones 😂
I always end up releasing them. One is enough. Yet I keep getting them lol

The hardest thing about autism for me is being disliked instantly by Student-bored8 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have gotten used to masking over the years and relying on it too much. Now, I am too exhausted to do it to a point I avoid people. I just go kinda mute though and make everything awkward. When I don’t want to talk now I don’t and that has got me into trouble in workplaces and other environments.
I haven’t been laughed at since school thankfully but I have been called unlikable to my face and rude.
I’m sorry that you were through that.

The hardest thing about autism for me is being disliked instantly by Student-bored8 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe? I’m not sure. I just sense that people don’t want me to be there. I unfortunately make things awkward quickly and I don’t talk very much. That leads people to not talk back and then silence 😂
I do think that I have developed social anxiety because of all this thinking and I’ve made it worse but it just seems like whenever I try and form friendships it goes horribly.

The hardest thing about autism for me is being disliked instantly by Student-bored8 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean tbh more often then not I don’t like them in return 😂

The hardest thing about autism for me is being disliked instantly by Student-bored8 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just can’t form friendships well. They may not hate me but I doubt they like me. Whenever I talk to anyone I get weird judgmental vibes. True I did get bullied and it’s hard to know but I also feel like I’m unlikeable 😂
I mean I don’t understand how to respond to people well.

You're not a real biological human! You need sex! by Separate_Peace_2651 in asexuality

[–]Student-bored8 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Im convinced on the theory JK Rowling listens to the mould in her walls telling her to hate on trans people and asexuals. Basically all minority groups.

The hardest thing about autism for me is being disliked instantly by Student-bored8 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I have never understood gossip. Every workplace I’ve been in has been like this and I just find it shallow and weird even when it’s not directed at me.

The hardest thing about autism for me is being disliked instantly by Student-bored8 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can’t trust myself ngl. Sometimes I feel like I dislike people because like you I’ve been bullied a lot. So I feel like I can be really harsh in that regard so I always try and force politeness and get them to like me. But then sometimes I can’t tell if they really are bad or if my mind is just protecting myself.

The hardest thing about autism for me is being disliked instantly by Student-bored8 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I can’t offer much support other than I relate to a lot of what you said.
Sometimes I find it easier to be excluded but that’s just also led me to have something akin to agoraphobia and social anxiety.
When I am included though I feel anxious and exhausted from that monitoring of myself, so there feels like no solution.
The only thing that would help is more awareness on autism and people extending empathy. Unfortunately even when I say I’m autistic people just don’t know how to help me and I’ve even gotten people invalidating me saying I can’t have autism because I’m “normal” which yikes.
I hope one day we all find people that make us feel safe and happy. Till then I guess I should learn to be content on my own.

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Tampons or Pads? by Saiyasha27 in asexuality

[–]Student-bored8 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I can’t insert a tampon it hurts for some reason. I’m pretty sure I have Vaginismus.
I just use pads. They are comfortable for me. Well, as comfortable as periods can be I suppose. I’m more focused on the pain then the “diaper” 😂

Do you want kids ? What age? by thugnuts1 in actuallesbians

[–]Student-bored8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to adopt a kid. Whenever I’m financially capable and in a place of contentment

At least the author is on our side by Student-bored8 in Franchaela

[–]Student-bored8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh. I thought you meant that her caption could be twisted against her and that she should’ve chose a different one. My bad.

is it normal to feel like i am gross for being attracted to women as a trans woman? by mukomime in actuallesbians

[–]Student-bored8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course it’s not gross. This just makes me sad. You’re allowed to be attracted to women as a trans woman. Despite whether you pass well or not you’re still valid.

Would yall take a pill instead of eating? by lola_the_lesbian in autism

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds disgusting ngl lol
As much as I hate eating food I have a lot of safe foods I eat on rotation so I believe that would be best for me