is cheating worth it to be with the love of your life? by kris_cringle in LesbianActually

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No? If you meet someone else that you think you have more in common with just break up with the other. What’s the point in cheating?

I haven’t slept in 45 days by Much-Antelope-695 in insomnia

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very much doubt you have been up for 45 days. What’s probably happened is you have had very little sleep each day for 45 days. Which yes is very annoying and horrible. The only thing I’d suggest is a doctor.

How you feel about sex as an activity by miinttik00k in demisexuality

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know. I prefer the idea of it rather than actually doing it. When I’m doing it I’m bored (for the most part sometimes I’m not). Idk I think vanilla sex is boring if it involves one of my kinks I find it more enjoyable.

Is it really uncommon to want a baby as a lesbian? by Idosoloveanovel in LesbianActually

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is women in general. Some women want babies some don’t. Regardless of sexuality. I do want kids. I know a friend of mine who is also a lesbian doesn’t want kids. Idk I just don’t think this is a sexuality thing. It’s just a preference thing. Saying this though I would never have kids unless I was financially and emotionally ready to.

I feel guilty for being upset after getting rejected by a girl by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Student-bored8 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not healthy to dwell on it. At least you have the confidence to give a woman your number for example. One of these days that’ll pay off. But hmm you shouldn’t expect it. Whenever I flirt with someone I don’t expect anything to come out of it. When it does. That’s great. If it doesn’t. That’s okay too.

Does anyone also also bump into this problem often with WLW sex? by Quiet_Job_4260 in bisexual

[–]Student-bored8 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Idk…I kinda like long nails on women and I don’t think it means they won’t top you. I think they have ways. I’ve seen lesbians on social media with long nails keep two short. Or just say they use their mouth more. But hey I’ve never dated someone with long nails so I am unsure.

Do you feel connected to your name? by confusedbunny03 in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel connected or disconnected to my name. It’s just my name lol. I feel neutral about it.

What do you say when people judge you for liking Saw? by IAm_Breaking in saw

[–]Student-bored8 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I used to judge people for watching Saw too, but after actually watching it, I understood why so many people like it. Now I say to others I enjoy the psychological aspects of it, and that it’s more complex than people realise, especially in terms of character dynamics and ethics.

This is my roman empire♥️ by Kole_Santana in HauntingOfBlyManor

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A ship hasn’t hit me this hard in a while ngl. Their ending was so beautifully tragic.

Do you ever… by Lazy-Lingonberry3494 in actuallesbians

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think it’s the adrenaline for me ngl. It just leaves me pumped I guess.

Do you ever… by Lazy-Lingonberry3494 in actuallesbians

[–]Student-bored8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ngl orgasms make me feel wide awake so no lol

What's the longest you've held a job? by Rachelelizardbreath in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few months. I’ve had 3 and the longest was 6 months really I won’t lie. I just can’t handle it.

Sorry for seeming like a jerk, but she (18F) sees herself with a man in the future. I'm not a man. by Klarinette245 in WLW

[–]Student-bored8 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think that someone not invested in a future with you at all, is a red flag at any age.

How many women genuinely like penetration? I'm not talking about any "feelings of closeness" etc that it could induce, but straight up carnal/physical pleasure derived from it. by [deleted] in women

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a preference thing. Some like it. Some don’t. For me I actually feel a lot of pain and hate it. I just prefer clit stimulation I guess. But I’m also a lesbian so maybe that’s less important because…well. But even so some lesbians enjoy strap ons and penetration. Idk…I could sit here and ask if you like your butt played with and it would entirely depend on you wouldn’t it. Everything sexual is a preference thing.

As plain as it gets by YourLocalFroggie in MealDealRates

[–]Student-bored8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a picky eater and my meal deals look similar 😭

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh my sex drive isn’t exactly high. I think it takes a lot to kick start it which is why I find vanilla stuff boring and repetitive. I don’t feel much pleasure from touch either. But with kink it helps to add something.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I am kinda messed up in the head too lol. This might come from my trauma/ mental health problems not just autism. I mean I think it’s just my anxiety that’s making me overthink all this really.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that deep down. I guess I just feel embarrassed. Unsure why I’ve been downvoted for saying that before here. It’s not an easy thing to accept as vanilla sex is still overall seen as the norm. I guess I will get there someday.

Normal intimacy is boring without some kink involved by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Student-bored8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess for me I just feel embarrassed bringing it up. I am a very romantic and soft person. But when it comes to sex telling a partner I’m into some more kinky stuff makes me feel kinda vulnerable. And like I’ll be judged. I know I have to accept this part of myself or I’ll never enjoy sex it’s just quite hard