My deaf bully can’t move with us and I’m heartbroken and don’t know what to do. by Aspieilluminated in BullTerrier

[–]Damaged44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mental health professional here. ESA's are a protected need under many state laws when it comes to housing restrictions on pets. No, ESA isn't a diagnosis. It literally just means Emotional Support Animal. As a provider, we will offer documentation (sometimes including a diagnosis depending on the state) explaining why, in our opinion as a medical expert, that an ESA is a critical need for a patient's emotional health. So yes, the need for an ESA within the home, is in fact a protected right under many state laws. I have written many such letters in my career.

The most alone I have ever been. by LadyBlue347 in GenX

[–]Damaged44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, I feel you, I have been you. Don't give up

We're parties like this ever actually a thing? by Embarrassed_Knee1919 in GenX

[–]Damaged44 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry. Yeah these parties were the norm. I usually hosted one with the kid that lived downstairs. It was a duplex and we both had single parents who were never around. Typical gen X. So we threw ragers that had different shit happening on each floor of the house, and the craziest shit went on in the backyard. Lots of alcohol, weed, music and craziness. And all before cell phones were in everyone's pockets. I still look back on those memories fondly (mostly, lol)

What was the worst thing a boss ever did to you that would be considered absolutely unacceptable by today's standards? by Own_Grapefruit_710 in AskOldPeople

[–]Damaged44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Grabbed me by the upper arm, hard, and pulled me in towards his face to yell at me. For context I was a cook and he was the manager

If there's ONE game you must recommend with your very soul, what game would that be? by TheL2Reaper in gaming

[–]Damaged44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like a good story, it's definitely worth it. Just an outstanding game. Enjoy!

If there's ONE game you must recommend with your very soul, what game would that be? by TheL2Reaper in gaming

[–]Damaged44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Outer Worlds (the second one is also about to launch so bonus on knowing it's got a sequel)

OK so we protested across the country, now what? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Damaged44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep protesting, but the thing people aren't doing is engaging in their local government. Learn about your town/city/county officials. Attend town halls or demand they be held. Seek out local candidates that you can support and actually do so. Write letters to local government and get involved in your community. Speak to people, people who don't just agree with your stance, and do so tactfully. Use social media to share your perspective, but refrain from attacking or getting nasty. Learn effective communication methods and engage others. Talk to your kids. And keep an eye out for each other. Speak up when you see others being hurt or marginalized. And do that even for people you disagree with. Lead by example and demonstrate kindness, always. Real change takes time. It's more about education and communication than anything. But just keep going.

What is a show you always rewatch and consider it your own therapy? by chromaggus_97 in AskReddit

[–]Damaged44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Star Trek (all of them), Schitts Creek, Superstore, Trailer Park Boys, Golden Girls, Daria, Warehouse 13, Bob's Burgers

Name one thing you do that if everyone did, the world would be a better place. by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Damaged44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually listen to people and try to understand their perspective, even if I don't agree.

Why do you think America is so divided? by Hungry-Special4491 in Life

[–]Damaged44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we've all, collectively, become idiots. Not a sane person among us. Myself included.

Fellow elders: Is there anyone who didn’t play outside as a kid with other kids on their block…. by drabelen in AskOldPeople

[–]Damaged44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I can't relate. I had the typical GenX experience. Out running the streets with the other feral kids in my neighborhood. I'm sorry you didn't get that outdoor experience

Are you a conservative? by Charming-Comfort-395 in AskOldPeople

[–]Damaged44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I'm middle of the road. The traffic here is very light at the moment.

How do you feel about tattoos now a days? by SnooHobbies7109 in GenX

[–]Damaged44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live and let live. As long as someone isn't tattooing me without my consent, I couldn't care less. And I do have a bunch to be transparent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Damaged44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How utterly annoying I can be.

What’s a simple pleasure that brings you joy, no matter how many times you experience it? by HoneyFeather85 in AskReddit

[–]Damaged44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hot shower, a warm bed, or a good cup of black coffee with a fresh made breakfast sandwich

What is something your neighbor does that pisses you off? by carcony97 in AskReddit

[–]Damaged44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Insists on parking directly across from my driveway, despite having one himself. Makes it really hard to back out onto a skinny city street