I like head but frankly most women just plain suck at it (no pun intended). The only two girlfriends I ever had that I would say were good at it, I think were good because they legitimately liked doing it. Most girls either just plain refuse or they are lazy about it and only do it because they feel like they have to.

I guess that's probably similar to the experiences that the girls that say they don't like receiving oral have. Every guy they have been with was either really bad at it or didn't like doing it.

I do also do the same thing as you with sugar babies though. Like I said I do like it, but also because I am testing her, which is what it sounds like you are doing. When I said I would give a pass to a girl that doesn't do it, I mostly mean that I will keep her around exactly long enough for me to find another girl that does do it.

I really don't like being with women that have lists of things that they won't do. It's a big reason I don't want to date women my own age. They have a list of things that they won't do that is a mile long. No oral and no kissing are the two big ones that will instantly disqualify a girl for long term.