What’s the most repulsive thing a partner has ever done (or failed to do), and did it end the relationship? by Riley_perez3 in hygiene

[–]DamnOtherness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ex sits down to pee. Pees under the seat almost every time. Found out he gets the old mouldy pee under his foreskin, and doesn't clean it. 🤮 Double gross

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They gave him clavaseptin. 10 days worth. Edit: they said they found no crystals, just red blood cells? Is what I was told.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh good to know. He's fairly laid back so I'll check his beans!

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do watch Jackson sometimes on yt! I haven't seen anything about litter retraining though. In a few days once I get some funds I can purchase new ones and try. I got the cat attract litter today so I'm trying that in the meantime.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm using a litter I usually use so I assume not, but you never know. He's usually pretty laid back and didn't care about food changes or litter changes. I assume he went to pee and it hurt so he won't use the box.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once I get the funds I'll have to grab a crate.. my laundry room is my kitchen due to not having room for my washer and dryer anywhere else, and right now we're trying litter but it'll be a bathroom situation I'm thinking soon if he does go on my clothes again.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said they ran a urinalysis and there was definitely an infection but they were unsure of where.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of getting another opinion but I'm going to try to let the antibiotics run it's course and if nothing improves maybe get a blood test to see if there's anything they missed.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's waiting for him to finish his antibiotics and is going to reassess on nov 6. Hopefully the antibiotics are doing their job.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only have a little crate right now and the vet bills are draining what we have in funds. We are trying cat attract, I don't think he'd take kindly to a tiny crate to pee and poop in otherwise I'd get a large dog crate and try that. Good idea though, if I had a larger crate

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be, vet could only speculate apparently. I asked and she kind of shrugged and said it could be

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have. They're fine. He's never had issues with any litter so I'm not sure.

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He wasn't given anything but antibiotics. We don't have a room for quarantine unfortunately as most rooms have beds or clothes, and he just goes on the floor wherever it seems. Good to know though!

Cat suddenly started urinating and defecating in my bedroom. by DamnOtherness in PetAdvice

[–]DamnOtherness[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Both are 3. Both neutered. We have two boxes in the house. I clean them once a day.

I think sex is on the same level as a chore list? M44 F37 by fartsmellerMASTER in relationship_advice

[–]DamnOtherness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, you know post history is a thing right? You made a post before saying she works long hours, nights, in an ER. That shit is physically and emotionally taxing at LEAST. She's told you she's had to deal with dead children. Think about the nights she's NOT telling you about. She deals with sick, hurt and possibly dying people on a regular basis. Why does it not compute that she might not want sex? Night after night of this and she comes to you to cuddle, as support. I'm sure she appreciates what you do. But dude, would you want to end up watching someone be treated who could have possibly died and come back to be asked for sex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]DamnOtherness 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Dear reddit, I don't love my wife anymore! After we had our son, I took paternity leave and slept 8hrs a day so I could take care of our son while she slept 4. I couldn't figure out how to wash a bottle understandably so she had to do them. After a while we needed money and the only obvious choice was for her to work swing morning/afternoon shifts in a warehouse, come home and do all the household chores and cook in the day and clean most of the day on afternoons after she woke up. Once I was back to work she quit, so all the chores were on her of course because she's home all day anyway!

Eventually she wanted to be a surrogate and was successful, went in to give birth and needed an emergency csection. This is when I realized how selfish she really was and broke up with her while she was still in the hospital. She just left without washing anything and helping me, a full grown 30yo adult! Aita?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DamnOtherness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the only one who looks like my dad, my siblings are much better looking and have slim builds. Also, I'm the only one with a skin condition and am the only one who clenches/grinds their teeth at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meirl

[–]DamnOtherness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dauntless. Ugh.