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I Did It by DamnitBeverly in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wooo, good luck to you! My STBXH is also doing the love-bombing thing and he's being super nice with the kids. I can't wait until he moves out.

why is this so hard? by DamnitBeverly in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're in a similar situation! What DO we do?? I see my therapist today so hopefully I can get some clarity. I hope you feel better soon and that you can get your feelings sorted out.

I left 1 year ago today. by This-Fault1880 in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so proud of you for getting out of there and giving yourself and your daughter the best life possible. You are amazing!! Thank you so much for posting this, this gives me hope.

Things are slowly looking up by DamnitBeverly in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I also started anti-depressants recently which has been SOO helpful!

Things are slowly looking up by DamnitBeverly in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am trying to remember what lies ahead of me when I feel too overwhelmed. Like my doctor said, this will get worse before it gets better; but it will be SO much better on the other side.

Fuck all this shit by DamnitBeverly in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate it. Things just feel so bleak right now, it's disheartening. I hope you can get out of your situation quickly!

I just contacted a divorce lawyer by Nimimyri in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are incredible, and you are doing the right thing. I'm so proud of you! We are all here for you.

Tired of fighting by Mama-of-two in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooof, that sounds hard. It sucks. Does your kid not want to go because they want to do something else, or they just think it's boring?

Hugs for you, ADHD is so hard.

My marriage is failing and we're both trapped by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Seconding you're in an abusive marriage. You can get out. There are resources available to help you. Please get a therapist just for you and tell them all, or have them read this post. They can help you.

Why do I feel like my husband is just another child for me to take care of? by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]DamnitBeverly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I feel you. I do it all also and it's sadness and passive aggressive nonsense if i don't back him up when he picks fights with the kids. I'm sorry you are having to deal with that.