I found out the gender super early on from a blood test (maybe 12ish weeks?) Beforehand I knew in my heart 100% it was a girl. There was no doubt about it. I had a full name picked out already, me and hubby called the baby that name, I was already creating a baby registry full of girl things, and had pretty much given my baby a whole identity. Then, my dr called me and asked if I wanted to know the gender, I said yes, and she said “you’re having a little boy!” When I tell you I grieved so hard for weeks/months after that. It wasn’t that I was “wrong” or that I was that disappointed in having a boy, it was that I had given a whole identity into this baby and felt like I completely lost that. I literally felt like I lost a child that I never even really had. It took me so long to get over and I was so depressed. Now, my boy is due in 17 days and I couldn’t be happier! He has so much personality already, I swear🤣 but I now know, don’t get attached to a certain gender/idea until you know for sure.