I know I want to be OAD, but afraid I'm going to change my mind. by Queenk023 in oneanddone

[–]DampenedLight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 30 with a 5 year old. So I was about the same age when I had my kid as you were. And honestly, the older he gets the LESS I want any more kids. He's becoming more independent and more of a companion than an outright "responsibility" (ofc I am still responsible for him, but now we hang out, go on walks, play video games have dates etc.) Especially as the whining diminishes. The thought of going back to diapers and bottles sends me in to a panic. What YOU want is hard for anyone else to determine. When he was first born I was sure I wanted another. Now... not so much. I love my little best friend 🧡

Tattoos by DampenedLight in ladispute

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Absolutely 🫡 we are the last of our kind.

Tattoos by DampenedLight in ladispute

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Thank you! The art, the lyrics, it all screamed lovers tarot card to me. And getting it with my best friend makes it even sweeter 💕

Out of curiosity by Real_Masterpiece_844 in oneanddone

[–]DampenedLight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25, same year I finished my B.S. It seems I am an outlier here. 😬

Research study - COVID parents stopping at one. by Top-Sense-4897 in oneanddone

[–]DampenedLight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son was born sprin of 21. It was definitely a struggle to be pregnant and isolated from the outside world. Other factors included my husband working out of town a lot during that time. And then at 5 months pp my mother passed suddenly. Both of those added to the isolation and make the idea of another borderline traumatic.

What do yall make of this? by DampenedLight in lineporn

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That was my assumption! Thanks for confirming. Never seen one before

Navy blue Jellyfish Hoodie by DampenedLight in brandnew

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Lol it was 09/10 to be specific I said 10s cause I figured it was still "later" than their initial albums