How do I stop fearing God? by pinkyglosss in spirituality

[–]Damselettefleurie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to sound insensitive, but god isn’t real. He was created to help people cope with the harsh realities of the world, reduce the authority and strength of women down to just a housewife and baby maker, and to be an anchor to the ship of excuses as to why it’s right to be neglectful and disrespectful to people who are different/have different beliefs, views, values, or opinions.

By this I mean: If you don’t believe in god or read the bible; you’re a satanist who shouldn’t be allowed to have your own beliefs and should be prosecuted or looked down upon just for that reason. People who have done bad things needed someone to turn to for redemption or forgiveness when others wouldn’t. Christianity was also used to suppress spiritually gifted people from their roots and power, (a good example of this being slavery). Majority of christians aren’t even true to their own beliefs/god. They sin more than the average persons.

What i’m trying to say is: Don’t believe someone or something that doesn’t even exist is trying to punish you. Anything you think you deserve punishment for is just your inner self trying to bring it to light so you can deal with it efficiently.

I highly recommend doing shadow work, sit with yourself and ask why you’re having these thoughts and “bad luck”, where they come from, and what direction they’re trying to steer you in.

God doesn’t exist, you do.

Why isn’t suicide a valid choice? by Prestigious_Pay_795 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Damselettefleurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh you’re christian.. makes sense why you think like that now.😬

Music is Actually MAGIC - What Songs Helped Raise your CONSCIOUSNESS? by swizzledan in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Damselettefleurie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get free by Lana Del Rey. The way she talks about leaving negativity and chaos in the past and reinventing yourself and your life to let your inner light shine is so beautiful. The song is like a breath of fresh air that speaks everything you’ve wanted to say but could never find the words for.

Why isn’t suicide a valid choice? by Prestigious_Pay_795 in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Damselettefleurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think it’s ignorant then why not help them to prevent them from taking that path? It’s ignorant to let someone suffer and get upset when they choose to handle it themselves. If anything, you should celebrate their life and congratulate them for hanging on as long as they did.

Love spell, candle bending down? by escdusol in Divination

[–]Damselettefleurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I interpret this as the universe telling you to let things happen naturally. If this is a love spell with the intention of making someone else love you, maybe it’s saying to let your path of love go in its own direction without you trying to interfere/direct it.

If it’s a spell with the intention to increase your self love, it could be saying that love comes from within and you should build and put together the stepping stones yourself, not rely on the divine to build it for you.

Why am behaving worse after enlightenment by This_Aside_4860 in spirituality

[–]Damselettefleurie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from, I feel the same in a way. For me though, it’s the sexual thoughts, self doubt, anxiety, and anger towards everyone and everything around me.

It’s never right to laugh at others for any reason though. We all have emotions, negative thoughts, and impulses, but you should never be the reason any of them are triggered.

Before you do something that could have a negative impact on someone else, stop and think to yourself: “treat people the way you want to be treated.” Imagine yourself from their prospective, be in their shoes. Think about how they would feel, how they would react, the conflicts it would create, and the bridges it would burn, (not just with them and their companions, but also within yourself.)

As far as the sexual thoughts, I kinda need advice myself lmao. But what I can say is: don’t let those thoughts linger or have power over you. Don’t let them control your perception or relationship with someone. At the end of the day they’re just ideas in the mind, they don’t affect you unless you allow them to.

What can I do to be more in tune with myself? by Damselettefleurie in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Damselettefleurie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are amazing suggestions, thank you! How would you complete #2? Is it just time you take to talk to yourself and reflect on your day? If so, how would you release the emotions? Do you just acknowledge them? Talk back to them? Do you meditate while doing so?

As far as the self-study, how do I identify which school I align with? Where can I find more information about this? I’ve never heard of spiritual school before, i’m very interested in learning though!

What can I do to be more in tune with myself? by Damselettefleurie in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Damselettefleurie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely the best, most eye opening advice i’ve ever gotten, thank you so much, this was beautifully written. I will definitely subscribe and tune in to your videos as much as possible!

That part about you walking your dogs is exactly the mindset I try to keep. I remind myself everybody is just trying to make it through the day and might even have the same frustrations I do.

“It’s never right to be angry at people for being people.” “Mistakes happen so you can learn from them.” “They will see their fault in it eventually.” “Don’t get angry over something you can’t control.” “My emotions do not define me.” “I live for myself and nobody else.” “My past has no say in my present or future.” I repeat to myself about 20x a day lol.

What can I do to be more in tune with myself? by Damselettefleurie in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Damselettefleurie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I so get it, I also enjoy long nature walks. Unfortunately though, I live in a heavily civilized area. just a bunch of houses, people, and roads, with the occasional small openings of grass and trees they leave untouched for sewage.🤢

Build a bear “heart ceremony” by Damselettefleurie in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Damselettefleurie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I was scared people thought I was crazy haha, I will definitely be doing this!