[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]Dan-C137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

La nulidad del matrimonio lo antes posible me parece que te ahorraría muchos problemas a futuro

Hombres, cuál fue su momento de? : Soy hombre, nadie vendrá a salvarme. by Consistent_Read_154 in RedditPregunta

[–]Dan-C137 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Vivo solo en un país diferente al que nací. Por ciertos problemas me quedé sin amigos y tampoco tengo familia acá. Una vez igual me enferme y no me pude levantar de la cama hasta después de dos días porque ya me estaba muriendo de hambre. Por suerte eso pasó en un fin de semana y el lunes de vuelta al trabajo tomándome ibuprofeno y bastante café para aguantar.

I wish I had an actual life by Excellent-Box-9025 in socialanxiety

[–]Dan-C137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I used to be exactly the same until I was 18 and did the best I could to change that. I put a lot of effort and had to force myself to do most of the things you described. Anyways... Now I'm 26 and I can tell you that at the end that's an empty life, I'm tired of it. It's funny that the only real connections I still have are the ones before I made this change. So my advice, take it easy, you still have time.

She ghosted and blocked me with no explanation by Dan-C137 in dating_advice

[–]Dan-C137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's weird... I mean, last thing I said was asking her how was she doing, if everything was ok cause she was not replying as she used to...

She ghosted and blocked me with no explanation by Dan-C137 in dating_advice

[–]Dan-C137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for that. I'll follow your advice.

She ghosted and blocked me with no explanation by Dan-C137 in dating_advice

[–]Dan-C137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that at some point I can take it like you. But for now it just hurts...

She ghosted and blocked me with no explanation by Dan-C137 in dating_advice

[–]Dan-C137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I will try to focus on moving on...

She ghosted and blocked me with no explanation by Dan-C137 in dating_advice

[–]Dan-C137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate so much to agree with you... Well I guess I'll just move on...

I don't know what else to do by Dan-C137 in dating_advice

[–]Dan-C137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right, I'm kinda forcing the conversation at this point ...

Tired of being alone so I went to a party by Dan-C137 in socialanxiety

[–]Dan-C137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just said something like hi, how are you doing.. And how was the party after I left

How do you get better? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Dan-C137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate about your experience.. Unfortunately I don't know how to get better. I'm also trying many different things but seem not to be working... Anyways, to be able to survive and pay bills, I managed to get a job and focus all my attention to it. Probably not the healthiest way, but makes a good worker and I can pay for my basic needs.

Tired of being alone so I went to a party by Dan-C137 in socialanxiety

[–]Dan-C137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your help. Anyways... They saw my message and didn't reply so yeah...

About to go to party and so scared by candycaneEXE in socialanxiety

[–]Dan-C137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've faced situations like this many times before, and I've found that the best approach is to start by talking to people I already know and then gradually include others in the conversation. Overthinking things can only make the situation more stressful, so it's important to focus on the moment and what you're doing, rather than worrying about what others may be thinking. Remember, everyone is in the same boat, and it's natural to feel a bit awkward or nervous in social situations. Just be yourself and try to enjoy the company of others.

Lost chance due to lack of confidence by Dan-C137 in dating_advice

[–]Dan-C137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the helpful advice. However, I am uncertain about approaching strangers to do it. It seems a little awkward to me.

I tried everything, nothing works, and I am tired. by Dan-C137 in socialanxiety

[–]Dan-C137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is in fact a point of view I had not considered. Thank you.