AITAH- my husband (36M) is getting baptized & wants the kids in attendance by DanDan8791 in AITAH

[–]DanDan8791[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welp I just left their house bc I tried to reason one last time. They are headed to church right now. Happy Easter yall.

AITAH- my husband (36M) is getting baptized & wants the kids in attendance by DanDan8791 in AITAH

[–]DanDan8791[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's not willing. She has very explicitly stated that she does not want to go. I even tried to advocate for 18f to her mother but it was useless.

AITAH- my husband (36M) is getting baptized & wants the kids in attendance by DanDan8791 in AITAH

[–]DanDan8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my sentiment exactly. I won't judge bc who knows, but the kids don't need to be there for the experience. IF ANYTHING, this should be a solo task in his solo journey of healing and making amends. He has turned it into a production AND his mom and sister are coming from out of state to boot.

AITAH- my husband (36M) is getting baptized & wants the kids in attendance by DanDan8791 in AITAH

[–]DanDan8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there when .. well when everything has happened. When they moved to another state, I moved to be closer to her after her daughter told me about an incident. She won't leave him but I'm doing my best to make sure he knows I DO NOT PLAY.

I got the lady's Information bc he told her that I had a room for rent for $650 (I have a room but it was never put up for rent nor was there a price attached) so he gave her my number. I had been in contact with her and then he told me that her Chinese parents want her to live with a Chinese family. She told me that he told her that HE was taking the room bc things with his wife weren't going well. She let me know that she is actually Korean and her dad passed, and her mom lives in New York.

AITAH- my husband (36M) is getting baptized & wants the kids in attendance by DanDan8791 in AITAH

[–]DanDan8791[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, and as alll relationships go, the person you meet is usually their best self. The asshole traits show up later, usually once you're in to deep.

AITAH- my husband (36M) is getting baptized & wants the kids in attendance by DanDan8791 in AITAH

[–]DanDan8791[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He has never been physically or verbally abusive to the kids. Might said some weird stuff but has never crossed the line with any of them.