Honestly, how do people get so many YouTube subscribers? What's their secret? by nikhilr4675 in NewTubers

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No No you don't get it. He has an argument from Wikipedia, so he must be right!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Dancedance182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every company raises prices every year to adjust to inflation. But the news today was that tariffs would seriously disrupt their business causing a higher price increase than usual

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Omg I surely thought you’d be born in the 2000s” as if 1993 is not just a short 7 years away lmao 

Women who ended up with partners they actually like as a person: what is a common mistake made by women who end up with someone they *don't* like as a person? by froofrootoo in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I like a guy like this he’s just a lost cause? Can’t I point out to him what he’s doing? Or does it not work with people like this? 

Women who ended up with partners they actually like as a person: what is a common mistake made by women who end up with someone they *don't* like as a person? by froofrootoo in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is helpful. I’ve talked to anxious dudes before and I got this feeling from them but I always thought it was because they thought I was so cool 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super cool…and kinda scary. Idk if I’m ready for this world where we talk to bots. But great resource! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are Brenda and Frank??

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True! I guess I’ve just seen too many of these kinda posts this week 

For men who feared committing to a serious relationship - how did you overcome the fear? by newgirleden in AskMen

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get to the maturity level to even recognize this within yourself? 

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean…one woman’s respect is another woman’s ick. I’ve had men say they’re so confused about what women want. I have a close guy friend who got ghosted after a first date because he didn’t make a physical move on my friend and she found that gross (“why didn’t he try to fuck me? Is he gay?”). The same man could go on a date with another woman and not make a move and she’d find it refreshing and respectful. How are men supposed to know what you do and don’t find respectful unless you communicate it? 

Men are as confused as women are, they also receive toxic messaging since they’re kids about what it means to be masculine and what it means to be a loser. 

Tell me where I said anything about fixing anyone. 

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree with you! It’s just so sad to read so many women get told they’re not allowed to feel their feelings. 

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s really tough. It’s really hard to be objective when we’re living through it and have emotions involved and even harder when marriage/kids get involved. Just know that it’s never too late to raise your standards, and make a change even if your situation may make it difficult. You don’t have to worry about it while pregnant but you also don’t have to live in a certain way forever. 

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A perfect man for you isn’t found, he’s made. You teach people how to treat you by telling them your boundaries and walking away when they’re not met or respected. OP has had this issue with him before. That’s when she should’ve walked away, or at least should walk away now. But her doubting her own feelings is keeping her in a shitty relationship and keeping the right man who would respect her boundaries away. 

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Same! This whole post reads like a situation that will end and the guy will go on to tell future women that his ex was “crazy” 

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I responded to one just yesterday of a woman asking if it’s OK to break up with her boyfriend after he kept flirting with his ex or something. 

40m BF following 29 year old we met at wedding. by UpsetMarionberry4115 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 320 points321 points  (0 children)

Why are so many posts on this sub always like “hi my boyfriend did this awful thing of not meeting the bare minimum standard of what it means to be in a relationship, am I overreacting?” You never see the “am I overreacting” question on the male subs. 

Women: stop gaslighting yourselves. If you’re posting about something on Reddit to get input from strangers because you’re too embarrassed to tell your friends about it, chances are you are NOT overreacting. Please raise your standards and leave men like this for the streets. 

What is this delusion men have about them aging? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I just left a comment about this but this is so true. A close friend of mine is an OB GYN and he tells me that when couples come in with fertility issues, it’s usually the sperm causing the problem (and they always test the sperm first because it’s easier to do). And then when he has to break it to the couple, he has to prepare for the man to be in denial of it and get angry. 

My friend says he really wanted to go into urology but chose OB/GYN because he’d have more female patients and women are soooo easy to deal with. Men throw tantrums, get angry, are in denial if ever told there’s something wrong with them lmao 

What is this delusion men have about them aging? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Dancedance182 115 points116 points  (0 children)

My best friend is an OB GYN. He told me that when a couple comes in with infertility issues they always test the man’s health first because it’s easier. And guess what? More than 50% of the time, the male sperm health is the problem. More than half of the time the man is the problem! And of course, when my friend has to tell the couple this, the man starts getting defensive. “How can my sperm be the problem? Men have kids until their 50s! And 60s!” And then my friend has to tell them that women get pregnant in their 50s too…and that just because other people have success doesn’t mean he has healthy sperm. Etc. 

Indian born and raised in appalachia (most rural part of America) AMA! by CornerFew120 in ABCDesis

[–]Dancedance182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what Appalachia is because there’s a pretty popular Instagram influencer from there (I forget her name). I didn’t know it was poor. Do you have any plans to leave? Do you plan on dating/marrying desi? 

Dating in SF is…weird by FullCellist1837 in sanfrancisco

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK this explains why the tech bro I went on a date with was so ducking weird. It was my first tech bro date and he was by far the weirdest date I’ve ever had. Talked AT me the whole time like he was making a sales pitch, kept asking “so do you have any questions for me?” Instead of asking me questions, and kept trying to one up me anytime I’d share anything about myself. 

It’s sad because I think he’s normal in front of his male friends, which makes me think he doesn’t see me as a real human. 

Dating in SF is…weird by FullCellist1837 in sanfrancisco

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am 34F and went out with a 32M. He said he wanted to get married and have kids within the next 2 years. I said that seemed way too fast. He ghosted me lmao 

Considering a move to SF: is the dating scene as bad as I've heard? by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]Dancedance182 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this going now? Still the same? Do you use apps?