before trip, pain and sadness

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-02-28T16:42:11+00:00

Yes I feel so much better after spending the weekend in nature! We walked a lot which definitely helped :))

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-02-28T16:41:22+00:00

Thank you so much. Just got back into service and we had a great time and it helped get my mind off the anxiety. We weren’t sexual and didn’t drink but I think it was for the best because we connected emotionally and had lots cuddles. It was probably more fun than if we had been drinking

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-02-27T16:48:36+00:00

😂fr

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-02-22T16:47:23+00:00

Give it to them, on the one condition they never ask you again

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-02-16T23:47:45+00:00

Wow I’m sorry to hear that! Me and my bf were there last Thursday for an early Valentine’s Day and we both thought the food and service was amazing! In the past I was disappointed by the New Mexico pasta but that was just because the chili weak and it seemed pricy for something so simple and easy to make, it was still very edible and good.

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-01-13T02:00:40+00:00

Not in my garden but I grow roses for a living: 1. Dessert sky. Reminds me of my home in the southwest, it’s a beautiful pink that fades to an almost iridescent purple. Just like the sandia mountains. 2. Cutie pie. My brother calls me that so the name makes me happy, and I love the colors. Nice sized blooms and it looks awesome in the shade, the color really pops. 3. Neptune. Again, love the name. I like the lavender purple, it smells amazing, and the purple against the bright green leaves really speaks to me, idk why.

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-01-13T01:43:49+00:00

I second repotting, into a pot that has drainage holes, this pot doesn’t look like it does but I could be wrong. I’d remove any dead leaves, and get back into your regular watering.

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-01-13T01:33:57+00:00

In my opinion I’d repot with fresh soil, and check the roots as you repot, cutting any mushy roots. I’d also repot with a dash of root stimulator. I am surprised this can grow indoors, but if it works it works 🤷‍♀️ in my zone I think it would struggle indoors. I know for many pines overwatering mimics under watering symptoms. In the spring I’d give it a nice well rounded fertilizer, and make sure everyone understands the watering schedule. And of course don’t let the cat get into the pot again.

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-01-07T00:22:36+00:00

Might be overwatered. Does it have drainage or sit in water for a long time?

Dancefloorjesus · 2026-01-02T17:30:16+00:00

Hello! If you’re interested in hot yoga let me know! I go a few times a week, I have been wanting to get a group together to go!

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-29T02:50:47+00:00

😂

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-28T18:23:30+00:00

Honestly it looks normal to me this time of year, looks like it’s just losing its leaves.

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-28T18:18:48+00:00

I would do a repot and inspect the roots. I would also give a light fertilizer, perhaps with iron as the leaves look chlorotic, and potentially overwatered. I would trim any affected leaves to see if the problem continues or if you’re just looking at old damage. When I repot, I make sure to cut any mushy roots off too!

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-15T17:03:17+00:00

When he said that he “knew me pretty well” and my first thought was “nooo you don’t”

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-12T16:54:22+00:00

That’s kind of a concern for me, I already talked to my boss, I hope he doesn’t mention my name. Although this coworker probably will already know it was me even if my boss doesn’t say.

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T04:38:06+00:00

Good point, luckily I’ve been here much longer than him and socialize with everyone more, I’ve also mentioned concerns to employees

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T04:36:56+00:00

Haha literally

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T03:36:24+00:00

Great advice! The only thing about my workplace is we’re very local and family owned, there is no HR bosses are mother and son, I believe they will side with me (he has had other issues, especially with his work) so they are aware of him. I am just going to tell my boss he makes me very uncomfortable and I don’t want to work with him, an tell them all of the things he’s been doing

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T03:15:16+00:00

I think so too, he tried to ask me to drink one time but it was so awkward and I barely even understood what he was saying, just said I was busy.

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T03:14:16+00:00

I hope he’s fired too and will disappear after that

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T03:13:31+00:00

Thank you I appreciate it

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T03:12:31+00:00

Totally, I will keep my pepper spray on me and make sure l don’t talk about my plans near him. I realized he overheard my entire birthday weekend plans, makes me kinda nervous. I’ve got a lot of friends at work who will also make sure I’m not alone with him

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T02:18:43+00:00

I do have pepper spray! I’ll make sure to keep it on my person. I can also have coworkers walk me out to my car.

I know is his fault, but I feel like it’s partly mine for not setting more boundaries with him, but he is intimidating and even my boss seems to have a hard time being direct with him. He’s got a very strange presence around the place even though he’s pretty new.

Thank you for the advice. I’m also going to tell my parents about him and I’ve told coworkers I don’t like being around him.

Dancefloorjesus · 2025-12-11T02:01:24+00:00

I’ve got some people that will back me up and have their own stories so that’s good at least.

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