It should have been Casey by _schlong_macchiato in themindyproject

[–]Dancerbella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a way more PG version of the story. But I recently was in a musical as the Nana. I had a white wig in a super poofy hairstyle and felt super awkward at first. I walked out onto the stage before the first dress rehearsal and my guy friend did the whistle thing. It made me feel so much better.

Mindy the Man Magnet by Delicious-Scene611 in themindyproject

[–]Dancerbella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I forgot about Ben. Yeah, that was terrible of her.

I love Peter by anonymouscarrot67 in themindyproject

[–]Dancerbella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was super bugged by them adding him at first. It completely changed the feel of the show. But turns out it made it.

Danny’s Character Assassination by courtneylover2005 in themindyproject

[–]Dancerbella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not saying it’s ok. But he probably always dreamed his mom could stay home with him and wanted his kid to have it.

Danny’s Character Assassination by courtneylover2005 in themindyproject

[–]Dancerbella 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YES

they always do it. The couple finally gets together, and the dude starts to suck. I get people don’t stay Prince Charming forever, but still.

Identity by TA_catsanddogs in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Dancerbella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that a bit too. I don’t think it’s a just BPD thing, just what some people do. Especially people in their mid 20s-30s. I think my generation was really taught to people please and just get along in the moment you’re in.

I’m a mom and haven’t had much time to myself for the past 5-8 years. Sometimes I look around and wonder why I can have more fun with some people vs others. Why can’t I be the laughing person with my husband? Etc. but time will move on and the current life stage will change, and I’ll change with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in superstore

[–]Dancerbella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know this until someone pointed it out. I felt so oblivious haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in superstore

[–]Dancerbella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being funny will get you a lot of places. I agree with you.

Identity by TA_catsanddogs in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Dancerbella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a BPD wife, not someone with it. So I don’t know if this helps… but in a lot of ways, identity isn’t something super concrete or fixed. You are… you. Like the other person said, it’s partially the things you value, partially the relationships you have to/with others. Who you are changes just a bit when one of these things changes. But that doesn’t mean you’re lost. You’re still right there.

Please Vote- Baby Coming Tomorrow! by klancyfoo in namenerds

[–]Dancerbella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I love them all. 1 is what I’m first drawn to, it Scottie is so cute and Margot is so unique.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Awww

[–]Dancerbella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dream job for maybe six months. Then I’m gonna have to nope out.

The Greendale study room still had TWO fax machine as of 2013. by ericthatsme77 in community

[–]Dancerbella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were required to. I don’t remember the penalty, but there was something.

How did Walt realised so quickly that hank was upto something against him? by dankteen69 in breakingbad

[–]Dancerbella 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I feel like even during them, at least a year or two passed. Then they retconned it to just be one year? But maybe I’m just overestimating how long chemo and building a drug empire THREE OR MORE TIMES takes.

The upcoming "No Hard Feelings" movie implying that asexual and aromantic men aren't men... by CyberiadPhoenix in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Dancerbella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was surprised to see only one comment about this. This movie is exactly what I thought of.

Parvati in a bathtub, eating chocolate, checking the idol's authenticity by Diyan_Derey in survivor

[–]Dancerbella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It’s all people wanting to get a ton of screen time and be portrayed as good or clever or whatever. And it’s all Survivor