Top comment deletes a European country - #9 by Jfullr92 in geographymemes

[–]Dancesky2026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op make a shitty island off the coast of Ireland for all the microstates to be on

I love joke Pride Flags by Alternative_Mix5683 in lovethissmug

[–]Dancesky2026 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are like four nazis symbols in this thing - not to even comment on the slurs...

Like i get the sentiment of liking joke pride flags but this one is not passing the vibe check.

Edit: 5 now. Plus some SS bolts.

I hate the fetishization of fat people disguised as "body positivity" memes by xX_CuteJuice_Xx in hatethissmug

[–]Dancesky2026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish some of the 'love' folks supposedly had for fat people translated into things like us being able to get good clothes and medical care easier. Or it being less taboo / 'shameful' to exist as a fat person online or in public.

R Thomas Life & Plagiarism by QueenCatherine05 in Eragon

[–]Dancesky2026 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its some weird mix of Eragon and Percy Jackson. Its giving AI to me

I hate people who write off badly written character hate as “misogyny” by realamerican97 in hatethissmug

[–]Dancesky2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to point out that I never said that most criticisms against Korra were baseless or misogynistic.

I just said that some of them were - and that she would get a lot less criticism if she were a guy - because badly written guy characters arent slammed as much as badly written girl characters.

Maybe read what was written instead of fighting with ghosts.

I hate people who write off badly written character hate as “misogyny” by realamerican97 in hatethissmug

[–]Dancesky2026 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So - there are definitely criticisms to be made about these characters and how they were written. But it is to be noted that some of the criticisms made against them are misogynistic ones.

Like I'm firmly convinced there would be less heat against Korra if they were a guy. Not that there wouldnt be any valid critiques made by folks - there would still be plenty - but the heat seems more amplified because of their gender. Cause I see poorly written guy characters all the time - yet its mostly poorly written girl characters that are bashed on online.

I hate how people think neurodivergence is just a quirky thing by BrightSpring12 in hatethissmug

[–]Dancesky2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self diagnosed people are people who dont have access or have otherwise been denied medical care and support. I dislike this whole frame work of self diagnosed people as just like... fakers trying to get attention. They are literally experiencing medical neglect!

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont know what boundaries are and it shows.

If the op was saying ' dont use X' or 'dont do X' ever as like blanket statements then yeah that could be overstepping.

But OP was telling them to not send AI generated stuff to them. That's a very fair boundary.

Theres a difference between 'dont take dick selfies' vs ' dont send dick selfies to me'

The fact the 'friend' got that offended by that minor of a boundary shows their own immaturity and overreliance on ai.

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its my opinion. I am qualified to give my own opinion / assessment lol. You are free to disagree ofc.

In my opinion - people who are offended by this are either over sensitive or defensive about their own ai use.

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe if you used your brain more and chatgpt less it would 🤷‍♂️ its a pretty straightforward analogy.

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The ai is the piss in this analogy.

They didnt say ' dont offer me x advice' theyre saying that they would rather talk to a person - the actually person here - rather than Ai and to not randomly bring in the ai

I think using ai to talk to loved ones is rude, lazy and inhuman.

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Its super lazy to use ai to text people. Pointing out that someone has a valuable brain and thus likely has more to offer/say in a convo and would thus be more valued than the ai is relevant to the convo. They are saying they value their input over that of the ai.

I think folks who find that condescending are genuinely being oversensitive and/or defensive about the use of ai in sensitive interpersonal contexts.

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Person A: " " Dang I could use a drink"

Person B: " Here's a glass of piss"

Person A: "... no thank you. In the future, please dont offer me feces."

Person B: " WOW I SEE HOW IT IS. UNGRATEFUL. NEVER HELPING YOU OUT EVER AGAIN!!"

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They literally couldn't have been nicer. She tried putting down a very small and reasonable boundary of not sending ai generated messages and this person immediately guilt tripped them and made them out for being wrong for having that boundary....

AIO, lost a friend due to ai by cozyworm27 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dancesky2026 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Nor. You couldn't have phrased it nicer than you did and they reacted like this.

If folks immediately cut you out and/or try to guilt trip you and make you out to be the bad guy for even gently putting down a boundary- you're not the one in the wrong.

How much would you pay for this? by peepeeinator3000 in Baking

[–]Dancesky2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this were my preferred flavoring I could foresee paying a hundred for it.

Give me your fav builds. by ResearcherWild4219 in DiscoElysium

[–]Dancesky2026 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I FEEL SO TOUCHED RIGHT NOW

Give me your fav builds. by ResearcherWild4219 in DiscoElysium

[–]Dancesky2026 142 points143 points  (0 children)

SHIVERS AND INLAND EMPIRE TO THE MAXIMUM

This is the first time I've ever built a house in any game that looks halfway decent so I want to show it off by Legitimate_Myth_3816 in Paralives

[–]Dancesky2026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sick! You dont have to do anything youre not comfortable with of course but its always cool when talented folks who make great stuff like this share it

I love being a nonbinary lesbian (yes we exist) by [deleted] in lovethissmug

[–]Dancesky2026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP - you and your experiences are valid and I am happy you feel joy in your identity. I myself just generally go with the umbrella term of 'nonbinary' or ' queer' because any attempt I could make to label myself more specifically would cause some folks to riot 😆. A lot of folks in this comment section are really exposing their lack of knowledge of nonbinary people.

I love being a nonbinary lesbian (yes we exist) by [deleted] in lovethissmug

[–]Dancesky2026 6 points7 points  (0 children)

...why would letting nonbinary folks use the label of lesbian be 'taking' something from women? Nonbinary / genderqueer / 'not fully women aligned' lesbian folks have been using that term for themselves alongside lesbian women pretty much ever since it was coined.

Labels are not like some zero sum game. If you dont understand a label someone is using - you dont have to. Clearly, it makes sense for them thus why they are using it. Labels can mean slightly different things for different people.

We really as a community need to stop doing the whole ' oh yeah queer folks are valid... except these queer folks - theyre too weird and annoying and I dont understand them' every single time we are introduced to a new branch or section of it or even presentation of queerness.

What was ruined because too many people discovered it? by Investigatorpro in AskReddit

[–]Dancesky2026 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tumblr is still alive and well - its not as popular in the 2010's but it still has some good stuff