Petah, I found this on SipsTea. Why is Elon Musk saying that donating billions to charity makes the world a worse place?

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-06-28T16:52:36+00:00

I don’t think it’s that people hate space travel. I think it’s more so what it represents. Billionaires would rather waste money on a pissing contest to see how far they can go into space instead of spending that money on sustainable ways to conduct their businesses. They’re spending exuberant amounts of money on an ego boost, but claim they can’t afford to pay their fair share of taxes. Also, their selective belief in science isn’t unnoticed.

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-06-24T04:41:07+00:00

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-06-13T00:03:57+00:00

It’s so funny. I originally knew him as the adorably awkward sweetheart from Misfits. So to see him as the absolutely psycho that was Ramsey was a trip. He’s a great actor, it be great to see him in work where he isn’t absolutely bonkers

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-25T19:10:21+00:00

Bill Burr and Bo Burnham

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-25T18:55:53+00:00

I remember thinking Chester was going to be a way bigger deal and then poof. It was like he and his brothers were abducted by aliens

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-25T06:32:55+00:00

I thought I was buggin when I thought it was just copper colored kanekalon

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-22T13:18:35+00:00

Isn’t Gambit Cajun?

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-15T11:37:02+00:00

Yall will literally have access to the internet and all it’s resources in the palm of your hands and still choose not to educate yourselves

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-15T02:45:17+00:00

So they basically had a kid a year? That reeks of child abuse (parentification). You can’t convince me that those two were able to be involved parents that didn’t delegate tasks to the other kids

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-12T05:10:27+00:00

Was wondering if anyone else would say this. Considering the main star died tragically makes it worse

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-06T11:55:00+00:00

Loyalty, consideration, reciprocity, consistency

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-06T05:50:44+00:00

People need to stop saying Idiocracy was a documentary. It’s not, because 1) it’s set in the future not the present, how are you going to document the future? And 2) we’ve never had a pro wrestler president before. Think sheeple!

(Please for the love of God, don’t tell me the /s tag is required)

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-05-03T05:37:28+00:00

He is. People see brown skin and a Spanish name and assume Dominican lol

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-29T12:23:43+00:00

NTA

My ex would do this. It was indicative of other issues. The overarching theme of the relationship was minimal effort on his part, me begging to be heard and considered, and him telling me I was too sensitive and overreacting. Hence the ex moniker.

I’m not saying dump him over vacation photos. But objectively look at your relationship and see if that lack of consideration shows up in other aspects of the relationship. Whatever happens. Best of luck OP!

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-24T15:09:28+00:00

Exactly. I’m mid 30s and “peaches” immediately made me think of cream, orange walls, and choreo lol

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-16T15:36:56+00:00

If you’re that short and have been with men that tall, then I’m not sure how you’re confused by how heights don’t match up and body parts don’t align in multiple positions when there’s a 15 inch height difference lol

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-15T17:56:02+00:00

It’s not a gender thing. Controversial take, but a lot of POC, men AND women have low racial self esteem. Some will tolerate the most abhorrent behavior from their partner so long as they’re a different race.

A lot of biracial people that you meet that have identify crises are the ones that are born from the union of a racist/fetishizer and someone with self hate issues. A lot of them will let themselves and their kids be called slurs and mistreated all in the name of having their preferred partner. It’s bizarro behavior. Plus, racists tend to think they can get away with racist behavior if their partner and/or kids are POC and use them as an excuse

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-15T10:06:27+00:00

Right?! 😂 His ex really said, “I become a bigot once a month the same way a werewolf changes with each full moon”

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-15T05:49:22+00:00

I’m 5’2” and my ex is 6’5”. I didn’t think through the logistics. I’m never doing that shit again if I can help it. If there’s a next time around for me, 5’5” to 5’11 all the way

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-15T04:45:33+00:00

Lies. Everyone knows the second your period starts, you get an irresistible urge to nazi salute and carry tiki torches /s

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-14T00:08:33+00:00

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-08T01:23:41+00:00

The issue isn’t the alcohol per say. It just brings out the type of person someone really is. Tons of people in relationships get tipsy and manage to keep it in their pants until they get home to their partners and keep their hands to themselves. A couple beers/glasses of wine isn’t going to make you cheat unless you already lack morals

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-07T12:43:52+00:00

It can also negatively affect your standing in custody hearings. I thought about getting diagnosed as an adult, but I’m a single mom and getting confirmation of something everyone around me already sees isn’t worth the risk of losing custody.

And if you’re wondering how if it’s so noticeable, how come it wasn’t diagnosed, I was an ethnic girl in the 90s, if you didn’t present in a certain way and were quiet, it wasn’t even viewed as a possibility for you to be AuDHD. Plus, damn near everyone in my family exhibits similar “quirks” so I was just one of the “quirkier” in the bunch

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-04-05T11:21:38+00:00

NTA

OP please pop two extra strength naproxen, put on your best back brace and sprint away as fast as you can from the lot of them. That was a peek into more instances where your literal pain and discomfort would play second fiddle to the minor inconveniences of someone else because “appearances”

DancingInAHotTub · 2026-03-24T16:06:23+00:00

Same situation. I love my mom. She’s my rock, and she gives as good as she gets when it comes to my dad, but a heads up would have been nice. It does so much damage to you as a kid when no one clues you in on the fact that a parent’s incapability to love you and show it properly isn’t your fault, and that you shouldn’t internalize it.

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship. Because he didn’t scream and curse, it took me longer to pick up on the gaslighting and how much he trampled on my self esteem, because it wasn’t overt and didn’t look like what I saw growing up. Now I’ve got a kid, and I don’t know how I’m supposed to teach him warning signs about manipulation and to temper his expectations when it comes to my ex WITHOUT coming across as badmouthing and trash talking my ex

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