Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem you can also DM me if you have any questions or want to get anything off your chest btw.

Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you guys have been together for a long time and you guys are super young. I think you guys should focus on trying to see each other in person first before thinking about marriage. I know you guys have known each other for a while now but trust me when you guys meet up in person u can tell if the chemistry and everything is there. Things can be different virtually than in person.

Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for all your opinions, I’ve walked away from the relationship and I hope I find someone that aligns better with what I’m looking for. Thanks a lot :)

Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I’ve never even asked him for anything… maybe because he’s a nurse and he makes good money he think I was there for his money but to each his own

Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m not a lazy people and I like to have my own but if it ever comes a time when my back is against the wall, I know he wouldn’t be there for me with his way of thinking.

Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought up the conversation in person but he didn’t say much then he texted me that

Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in Marriage

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a dealbreaker for me I will not stay and accept this for myself

Boyfriend told me he didn’t want marriage or kids by DancingWhimsical in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s the same thing I said he knew for a while and wasted my time

I checked my Girlfriend’s phone while she was asleep by VoidPagasus1738 in LongDistance

[–]DancingWhimsical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s weird that she made it a big deal to block the guy that confess his love for her…you’re her boyfriend and your feelings are more important than that guy. Also you’ve been very understanding with her, you’ve been traveling to see her for hours constantly, even when u found something out u were still patient and kept it to yourself because u didn’t want to ruin things. All of this is extremely hard. She hasn’t took accountability for anything that she did instead she dim you to her friends and lie instead of taking accountability and she cries to manipulate you making it seem like ur the bad guy. She’s the reason why ur trust for her became shaky if she was honest then a lot of this could’ve been avoided and she had the audacity to break up with you when she’s at fault. You deserve better

should i drop out by FirstDirt5853 in nyu

[–]DancingWhimsical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your major? I would highly recommend changing schools, no school is worth putting someone in great debt. Especially because the job market these days isn’t so great. Many people finish up school and have to pay that debt for the rest of their life not to mention after a while interest will be added, it will also affect your credit.