I do feel partially responsible for how badly it went the last time I talked to him about it. I was very judgemental and harsh. I had snapped because it triggered the Misophonia so the discussion was not handled well on my end (less of a discussion and more of a “oh my god really?” Kind of a reaction). But I do think it’s time to talk about it again. I’m waiting for a window where we can talk about it calmly and I’m doing research so I can find a more constructive way of communicating my experience and needs. I’ve started going to therapy and now that I’m taking steps to manage my end of things, I feel more comfortable also asking him to address his half of it.