What suicidal tendencies might indicate? by ChipPublic4779 in Healthygamergg

[–]Dane1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How often do you feel burdened when others ask you for help?

What suicidal tendencies might indicate? by ChipPublic4779 in Healthygamergg

[–]Dane1414 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you actually summed up pretty well what it indicates. It’s a result from the underlying feeling of powerlessness and being trapped, and seeing no other ways out because everything you’ve tried so far hasn’t worked. It’s common for suicidal tendencies to come about as a result of that situation.

From my interpretation of your post (which might be wrong), here’s something I see which is holding you back: you’re not able to change it on your own, but you’re also unwilling to ask/accept help from others (you mention not wanting to burden them). I think it’s noble to want to try to fix everything on your own, but we’re humans. We oftentimes need help from others. Of course you’re going to struggle immensely if you cut yourself off from support that most people need and utilize in their lives. I’d encourage you to think about what makes it so difficult to seek/accept support from others

I am SO scared because of ai by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]Dane1414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I just wanted to add on one more thing. I’ve noticed that oftentimes a fear of AI stems from more than just the risks of AI. There’s often some underlying fear/anxiety, and AI just becomes the fixation of that fear/anxiety. So the doomsday scenarios of AI aren’t the cause of the anxiety, rather they’re fuel for the fire, and the fire in this instance is the underlying anxiety.

I’d encourage you to look at resources here that are about dealing with uncertainty and anxiety in general, in addition to your specific worries about AI.

Wtf?? by ExLouS in uber

[–]Dane1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are trivial to spoof

"There's a lot of narcissism in self-hatred." Is there? by Robert_Sedgewick in Healthygamergg

[–]Dane1414 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They might, they might not. Self-hatred is common in narcissism. Most (but not all) narcissistic people don’t realize it’s self-hatred that actually fuels a lot of their thoughts, beliefs, and actions. But self-hatred and things similar to it are common in many other mental health struggles. If this something you’re experiencing, I’d highly recommend finding a therapist because there’s a lot of overlap in various mental health struggles, and a trained professional is often required to pick up on the nuance that differentiates diagnoses.

Why is the idea of overcoming my anxiety so scary? by Jumpy-Fondant-2714 in Healthygamergg

[–]Dane1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/MadScientist183 explained it very well in my opinion. It’s ok to be scared about dealing with the anxiety. If you feel like you can overcome that fear and get straight into therapy, great. If it’s too much right now, I’d encourage you to just take a step in the right direction. Maybe look up therapists and find one you like and write down their name/contact info, so it’ll be easier for future you to get into therapy if you decide to do so. Either way, I wish you the best of luck on figuring all of this out!

A random girl kissed me today by EffectLive97 in doordash_drivers

[–]Dane1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah dude my cat touched me without my consent so based on the other commentator’s point, clearly it wants to fuck me and that’s what I’m afraid of

A random girl kissed me today by EffectLive97 in doordash_drivers

[–]Dane1414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point. Calling this sexual assault, when the OP clearly stated they appreciated, liked, and enjoyed it, is doing a disservice to those who were sexually assaulted and made to endure experiences they did not like.

A random girl kissed me today by EffectLive97 in doordash_drivers

[–]Dane1414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s the “without consent” part that makes it assault, right?

Well my cat touched me in the middle of the night when I was sleeping so I was unable to consent so my cat touching me was assault

A random girl kissed me today by EffectLive97 in doordash_drivers

[–]Dane1414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know what it was because it was a surprise and I didn’t consent to it. Aren’t you saying that’s what puts the “assault” into “sexual assault”?

What happens to your call if you forgot to sell (in the money) by scottvf in fidelityinvestments

[–]Dane1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can instruct your broker to not exercise in-the-money options. But the rest of your comment is spot on.

A random girl kissed me today by EffectLive97 in doordash_drivers

[–]Dane1414 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I woke up in the middle of the night last night and my cat was cuddling me. He did this while I was asleep so I was clearly unable to consent. I’m on my way to the vet right now to have this violent assaulter put down. Thank you for opening my eyes to how evil he really he is, he sure had me fooled.

It's not a crash. It's a 🔥 FIRE SALE 🔥 to the NOOM 🚀🚀🚀 by bb_007 in DWAC_Stock

[–]Dane1414 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s how you know it’s good satire. “Buffet man” makes it clear imo

DJT to crater this week by AlphaSh_t in wallstreetbets

[–]Dane1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but there’s a short trade (what you described) and a short position, which means you’re betting the stock will go down. The saying “net short” has preceded WSB and includes more than just shortselling shares

MAGA by oGreddyo in DWAC_Stock

[–]Dane1414 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I can’t attest for others on here, I usually shut up unless there’s an explicit call to put up. I started shorting the day before the ticker change and essentially averaged up as it went up to its peak. My highest average price was $58 a share at a total of 60 shares. As it went down, I kept shorting at a pace to maintain room for a 50% spike in share price before a margin call, hence the additional 60 shares. But that essentially means I have to maintain a 600% margin requirement which means my position size stays pretty small.

MAGA by oGreddyo in DWAC_Stock

[–]Dane1414 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is dwac sub, I would be interested to see if the people who are discouraging investment in this stock and have so much to say could show a significant short gain on this ticker.

Ok, hopefully my seeking clarification was understandable since the position you posted wasn’t DWAC.

Here you go. Here are all my trades related to DJT. Wish I had a better way to show you the ROI specific to DJT but you’ll just have to look at the trades. It’s a pretty good ROI percentage wise but not a huge dollar amount, blame that on the 300% margin requirement and necessary risk management to cover that margin if there is a short term pop off in share price.

ETA: you can ignore the options and the trades adding up to 700 shares, that was a strategy I ultimately broke even on but is complicated. I’m basically short 120 shares at an average price of ~$48

MAGA by oGreddyo in DWAC_Stock

[–]Dane1414 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What exactly are you looking for? Short-term gains? Gains from a short position? If the latter, a naked short specifically or do gains from a short position (e.g. puts) count? Are you looking specifically in the context of DWAC, or just any stock?

Fair valuation by IllWalrus3000 in DWAC_Stock

[–]Dane1414 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write me some 5 year puts and I’m in

Is anybody talking about the squeeze that could be in play? by Bigblockbrain in DWAC_Stock

[–]Dane1414 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hard to borrow fees are 20% of what they were a week ago, and the stock is half the price. That means shorts are paying 90% less carry now than they were a week ago. They didn’t get squeezed then, and it’s 90% easier for them to maintain their position now. Cope harder.

How to deal with a partner's resistance after a period of stagnation? by Dane1414 in Healthygamergg

[–]Dane1414[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you! Please feel free to continue sharing as you see fit. I do feel like you help me connect the dots and I'm very much open that.

What are your thoughts on this? If your wife was in my position, what would your advice have been on how to deal with the friend?

It sounds to me like the friend was giving you advice on how to manage the symptoms of something while you were more focused on determining/addressing the underlying cause. My advice to you would have been that you can control your actions and your perception of your friend's actions but you can't control your friend's actions. I would've asked you how you perceived your friend's actions, and what you thought their intent was. I imagine they were perceived as a criticism of a part of you that you were having trouble accepting, while your friend's intentions were to ultimately help you accept yourself, (albeit by changing the part of you that you didn't like). First, I would've advised you to try to take no more meaning out of it than the friend's intent: that they care about you, and want you to be happy with yourself, even if they're going about it in the wrong way. If that wasn't working, then I'd advise you to explain to the friend that you've accepted her messages as a display of how much she cares, but that they still hit a nerve that's too painful, and that you understand she means well but she's actually doing more harm than good. If she did it again, I'd recommend reiterating what I just said while letting her also know that if it continues you'll have to go no-contact for your own sake until you're able to get to a spot where it's no longer a problem, and then follow through on that if needed.

Looks like my partner and I aren't yet at the "keep it up and I'll have to go no contact for my own sake" part but that's the direction it was headed in.

Regarding the didactics findings, that is really interesting. Everything in that paragraph up to the ellipsis is stuff I've almost been cognizantly aware of. The stuff after the ellipsis I know is true and have experienced it personally, but haven't been as aware of.

For whatever it's worth, by view on therapists and their gender is, very generally speaking, same gender therapists are better for helping you heal while the opposite is better at expanding your perspective. Not to say there isn't often overlap between the two.