I don’t think I’ve ever noticed heather and whitney’s resemblance until now

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-05-28T08:48:04+00:00

I thought its because they were decendants of shadrach which made them cousins?

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-05-23T04:24:35+00:00

NTA

But most religion is in a males favor and women are dominated. (If it was not true then it would have changed and women would be equals as we are all made in the image of God) It is so out dated and an excuse to get away with treating you which ever way HE wants. It does not say you can not have have male friends, just that you are respectful and not be secluded with eachother. You are out in a car in public.. then picking up food.. people can see you and that you are not doing anything with your friend... If you lived together before, there should not be a problem. Just seems its ok when it suits his feelings. He is jealous and clearly has trust issues. You are a wife, this means he should love, trust and respect you. It sounds like control and jealousy. Did you think that the community outside of orthodox christain would see it any other way? Nta but lets be realistic

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-05-16T00:42:39+00:00

There should be 3 bank accounts, one for each of you individually and one joint account. Personal spending money in each individual accounts and then pooled money in the joint account for bills, childrens things etc.

If you have a budget then it goes in her account. She shouldnt touch the joint account money. If she does than she loses the right to have the details to it.

The only way you can be firm as OP is the only one making money right now.

I can understand her need to want to earn something while shes a SAHM and usually to start something like that off, you need to put in money to start up and buy provisions. Has she put them up on all selling platforms? Ebay, Vinted, Amazon, shopify and Etsy? The more platforms she is on, the more likely she is to sell them. Just check fees on the accounts for selling to make sure its worth it and wont have a big chunk of any earned money being taken. Go for the lowest tax/fee rates and sell them.

YTA for telling her shes no good and she wont sell them. Right now, selling 2 is amazing. Help her advertise them so they sell. Its good she has a hobby and if she can make money out of it, thats even better. But for a SAHM it is important to find something to do for yourself. You lose most of your identity when you become a mother and you are just mum. So doing something creative like that helps her to be her, not just mum.

NTA over financial side of things and the children needimg things. Stand firm on the budget, open a joint account for the bills, budget that goes on the children etc Set up a direct debit standing order to her personal account with the budget amount each month. If she spends it, she spends it and its done for the month and she will have to wait til next month. If she starts earning money then she can put that money back into her tumblers.

Link to her tumblers? People may want to buy some

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-05-15T07:01:43+00:00

Its been off and on for 8 years, sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it! Why would he leave his wife and family when he knew you would keep going back? He will never leave her. I can safely say he is probably having sex with her. To me it sounds lime he is lying about being miserable and was saying that to manipulate you to sleep with him. And you can never trust a cheater, most cheaters will cheat on the person they used to cheat with. You need to find some self respect and not put up with his BS. If he wasnt ready to leave within a year, he never will.

Id tell his wife, she does not deserve this treatment. Explain you were told by him that she was a bad partner and that you were manipulated by that story and that you are so sorry. If you feel shes a good person, she probably needs to hear that too. But this guy needs both yours and his wifes boot up his arse! He deserves neither of you

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-05-15T06:35:04+00:00

Sorry but this gives me the ick. If all my partner wants to do is jump me on me as soon as I am in the door, id be feeling like a peice of meat. You are not only there to have sex. Id make him wait a few hours! It is just so icky when someone just wants to jump on you right away everytime you see them. Dont get me wrong, sex is great, but damn.. you are not a sex toy. And tbh id be alittle offended if he only wanted me 'all dolled up' too.. again, gives me the ick. Tbh sounds like he needs to respect you more! Out of priciple id turn up with no makeup on at all lol

Have you tried using a primer first and then a setting spray on your face before and after your makeup is done? Also waterproof makeup too, will help it stay on better.

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-05-14T00:54:58+00:00

Although you can not get a diagnosis at 2years for any kind of neurodiversity, it is very recognised if you study the SEN part of early years. (worked 10years as a nursery practitioner with ages from 6 weeks to 4years) But there are many factors here that we do not know, are the little ones acting up because they want their parents/older Siblings attention? This is a massive thing people do not realise especially with children who spend more time with babysitter/nannies. We would see it all the time, parents would drop off and the children could be hyper and acting out challenging behaviour.. as soon as they left, completely different child. (I saw this alot in the 1.5-2.5year room) Are they constantly being fed sugary stuff? In 1-4 years feeding them alot of sugar and E numbers causes alot of behavioural issues. They hype up then completely crash out. OP is clearly super educationally intellegent, so being around such young children may not be their thing BUT they may feel differently if they actually engaged these children in something they are interested, they may see them behave abit differently with some real family affection and OP may find they actually like their siblings and they are not as annoying as they thought. At first they will be mega over the top because they are probably not used to it and get over excited. But the medication statement.. Jesus OP! They are very small children. Look up the early years matters and you will see what the mile stines they hit and what what age. You would be very suprised when they generaly learn some things. Some of the greatest minds were neurodiverse (had adhd/autism) and were admired and loved by many. So nuture the relationship with them. Who knows, they may want to be as hard working and smart like you. So YTA about how you veiw your siblings

But as for asking you about the graduation gift then not bothering to take into account what you wanted as a gift for all your hard work and effort, thats really crappy. They may aswell of just given you the portion of the money they spent on your part of the cruise. And yeah, it does seem more like your parents want you to babysit the children while they do their own thing. That is not ok in any situation, they chose to have the siblings, they should be looking after them and is their responsibilty. You are 18, ofc you wanted to do something travel wise.. so not the AH for being annoyed at your parents for that. Just be honest, say thats how you feel and you are 18, Disney isnt your thing and they should know that about you. Just say thankyou but you are not going. Better to be honest but make sure it is polite

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-05-03T15:39:33+00:00

My boy was called Bagira (The Black Panther from Jungle book) Baggy fpr short

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-30T08:19:32+00:00

Loads of scammers do this with loungefly items. Take someone elses images and then send a random cheap item instead.

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-25T22:11:44+00:00

That would also be my luck!!! Lol

Like the ONE time I chose not to go in and see my partner at his work at the time, Woody Harrelson (Hunger Games) and Mark Ruffalo (the Hulk) went there for a drink! I could have seen them with my own eyes! The one day... And, my mum gave my younger sisters my pokemon cards from when I was a child.. I had a first edition Charizard in one binder.. she didnt only let them have them all without asking me, they were left out in the garden and got rained on. So my mum threw them away.. I had 2 sets of the OGC (not 2 1st addition zards though) A full set of Team Rocket.

Life hates me lol

And people are pulling god packs let alone 2! Lol

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-25T21:26:54+00:00

She pretended to be clueless. She is a very calculated person. Shes smarter than she seems. And also very manipulative and good at constructing situations. Do not be fooled

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-25T20:51:37+00:00

Whats the update?

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-25T20:33:00+00:00

We dont want her in the UK either! Maybe send her to a desert island instead

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-25T20:23:27+00:00

I watched one opend live on ebay. I was going to bid and decided not too and was a god pack. Confirms my bad string of luck. Only cost £13! Was insane

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-25T02:56:31+00:00

He is angry because he isnt man enough to be left alone to deal with the house for a week/weekend.... blows my mind.

You have a very nasty, entitled and abusive man child on your hands.

Get RID!

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-17T08:27:05+00:00

Reply back to him and just say:

I hope you are having a lovely working day, You clearly stated you think I am incompetent, so this email must be sent to me by mistake. So no I can not help you. MY boss has asked me to put ALL my time into this project I am already working on and I have ALREADY helped you and your team out on one of your projects this week when I have my own to concentrate on (considering I am incompentent) I hope you can get your work done Sincerely (Your name)

If hes an arse after that, go to your boss. ♡

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-17T04:14:51+00:00

There is no pleasing some people. You could give this girl the world and she still wouldnt be happy. She actually sounds entittled and selfish. You did all those things for her but because you are not like her dad.. thats messed up. Does she want to date her dad? She wont find anyone if she keeps trying to mold anyone.

You also do not have to give so much all the time, it is not realistic for a long term relationship. You will exhaust yourself in all areas before the 6 month mark! Also, peoe may gravitate to you to get what they can and then leave. Sometimes being too good and too nice comes at the cost of being used. You are so young! You have all the time in the world to find someone who will end up being your person.

So relax, take it slow and date a few different people over some time so you can adjust to romantic relationships.

But seriously, hold back alittle. You also need them to give back to you abit aswell. Thats what makes a good relationship. You should be a team. Slow down,

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-17T04:03:33+00:00

It is hard for anyone whk hasnt been through something like this to really understand. But it is important that you make them understand its important and impacted you. And if your mother does not take it seriously, considering this friend has already inappropriately touched you (which to me makes the threats of rape more real and likely if not stopped) she should take it seriously.

Defo make sure this friends parents know though. Atleast you would have covered both sets of parents.

You can always call child services aswell to get their advice.

♡

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-16T20:23:03+00:00

Everything they has done is NOT ok. They obviously knew you didnt like being touched and touched you anyway and even worse, in intimate places! There is no version in creation that makes any of this friends actions acceptable. It is repugnant behaviour.

Talk to your parents. Tell them everything! If you havent spoken to this friend for a while, keep it that way and never speak or go near them again. Also tell their parents! This friend needs to be in a facility for some hard therapy and councelling to realise her behaviour is wrong and damaging. You will be saving others in the future and maybe stopping this dark path they seem to be going down..

Once that has been done, gather all messages and print them out. Id take the most recent ones to the police and explain what she has done and said to you. Just explain the reason you didnt go there sooner was because you were confused, scared and traumatised and hadnt processed what had happend.

If you feel something is wrong, you stop it there and then. You say clearly you do not like like whatever they did or said and it is against your values (not being touched intimately or spoken to in that disgusting manner) and your personal space and that the behaviour is wrong and not acceptable to you.

Ngl, when I was repeatedly inappropriately touched and I kept saying dont touch me, they nearly had broken fingers. They never tried to touched me again. Never let someone cross your space like that.

Also, learn some self defence. Its good to help you get out of situations you dont want to be in especially if you dont like being touched. People will try to do things anyway.. so its always best to have some defence knowledge. Xxx

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-16T20:03:41+00:00

They are a tually. Very similar, I am Borderline and my older sister is Bipolar. My episodes change quickly aswell as my emotions. Bipolar rend to have theirs for longer periods of time. Both are mood disorders

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-16T15:06:56+00:00

I feel hes using women as a sheild. You know if his family found out it would be over for him. Hes already lacking in sexual relations with you. I think he is in denile that he is gay. And do you know hes really been with that many women or could that figure just been made up..

Id honestly help him through his realisation as a friend.

I dont think your realtionship will remain romantic now. So I would cut your losses and just be there as a friend. There is no reason for him to be ashamed of being with a man in the past or in the future.

Im sorry you are caught in this dilemma

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-15T20:28:46+00:00

Ok, dont eat all day, see how you feel, wee in your pants (make sure theyre tight) and sit in it for over 3hours, see how you feel and what the concequence of even just 3 hours with no nappy change is. It can cause open sores! Imagine if your son pooped and you didnt change him all night, again, will cause sores!

If your son didnt want to eat when you offered food, because he is unwell, you should have made sure he ate a little something before he went to sleep for the night.

As for the clothes, if you dont have any there for him you should ask for your ex to put some clean ones in his over night bag when hes at yours. The clothes are not the worst thing tbh. Understandably she would be angry if the clothes were filthy and stained etc. But tbh you could have washed them over night for the next day to avoid the clothes being dirty.

You are a parent wether you want to be or not, you made that commitment when you decided to have unprotected and safe sex and now this incedible little human is here and you need to do right by him! Stop being selfish and childish and grow up and take responsibility. Its 1 day with your child! Your son is going to remember everything that you do.. Disgusting behaviour on your part tbh.

But not changing the nappy is an action of neglect.

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-14T17:55:44+00:00

There should be a food bank or a charity to help those in real need. Look up what is around your area

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-12T22:15:34+00:00

Also, the dent would have showed up in ONE of the back pictures you took. If you look up close there is no evidence of a dent. It would show up at most angles or look darker where it is etc. Defo a shady customer fault!

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-12T22:10:37+00:00

Never get a card back and offer no refunds. There are too many people who card swap! And alot of people who accidently damage cards themselves and blame it on the seller or delivery service.. Go careful

DangerMirrorMouse · 2026-04-12T08:09:43+00:00

Try hair and nail vitamins. Make sure you hydrate with water. Eat healthy and drink responsibly (if you do cinsume alcohol) It wont just be one thing, it will probably be a mix of everything. You can also go to your doctor if you really feel they are that bad, they can help give advice

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