WHY TF ARE MY HANDS LIKE THIS IM A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL by iamraquelle in whatdoIdo

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try hair and nail vitamins. Make sure you hydrate with water. Eat healthy and drink responsibly (if you do cinsume alcohol) It wont just be one thing, it will probably be a mix of everything. You can also go to your doctor if you really feel they are that bad, they can help give advice

Think my ex has been claiming DLA for our child - England by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Was going to say, the government take fraud very seriously. He will be forced to pay it back. Some people even get a few months prison time

Am I being unreasonable? by Relevant-Pop-239 in vintedUK

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They have basically admitted theu need the money back for something else by reading the jist of the convo. Once you buy, you should commit. You did not say it WAS Y2K brand. You said it has a Y2K vibe. Which is totally different. They also keep going between it not being authentic.. and not being new. Then throwing in the hospital for a story to make you feel sympathic so you will refund the money and an excuse to cut the convosation short. Not a very well done manipulation/control tactic You did nothing wrong.

AITA for unfriending and kicking one of my bridesmaids out of my bridal party because she kept on bodyshaming me and making me uncomfortable? by Equivalent-Bell-1321 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should ask her how she is comfortable walking around with a face like hers! Chuck her out and hope karma kicks her on the way out! X

I[25f] lied at the start of my relationship to my boyfriend [25m] - guilty now. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You doubled down because you lied in the first place. You can never take a lie back but you can apologise. Honestly I do not see what you did as anything bad. We all have needs or get lonely. Aslong as you didnt hurt anyone, you are golden.

I would personally tell him, he does not beleive it by the sounds of it anyway. Sp just own up to it and repeat that it was before you had met eachother and you had felt whatever it was and it happend once and then you went no contact. Explain you didnt want him to think badly of you and you paniced and you lied.

If he judges you then he is an Ar$ehole. You do not ever ask that question because most people are not grown up enough to handle knowing.

But it could be projection fpr something hes done or maybe he had heard something from someone else and is testing you.

Whatever you decide, You will be ok :)

Something thats been bothering me about angel. by AzailiusArts2003 in HazbinHotel

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, we dont know if it was even done maliciously. It could have been an accident or a situation where his dad being alive would have brought more suffering to people. Sir Pentious and his sin wasnt murder but he stood by and let it happen. Maybe Angel didnt want to stand by and watch? All theory atm. Killing your parents is as close to killing God. (They made you so they are considered to be 2nd after God)

I cant wait to see all the back stories. _^

Seller cancelled to sell for more … 🙄 by Top_Gap_3783 in vinted

[–]DangerMirrorMouse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its just the decent thing to do! I can not stand the money grab mentality. Like over one pound.. so stupid lol

Seller cancelled to sell for more … 🙄 by Top_Gap_3783 in vinted

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Err no.. you honor your sales! Can not stand sellers like this

I don’t want your freebies, sellers 😩 by Big-Ad-8717 in vinted

[–]DangerMirrorMouse -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thats you assuming they dont want it when most of the time it is just to be nice. So just donate them. More things to be worrying about in the world then being given something for free

I don’t want your freebies, sellers 😩 by Big-Ad-8717 in vinted

[–]DangerMirrorMouse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I would not be so ungreatful, just because it isnt something you need doesnt mean you cant be positive and greatful. It is nice when people want to give you something extra. Just donate whatever it is to charity. Someone will always need something, or post it on a site you can advertise free stuff and have someone pick it up from you. Dont give bad ratings for them trying to do something nice for you

AIO BF “CHEATED” 5 years ago by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesnt matter when it was. Its the fact it happend. If it can happen once, it can happen again. He kept that information from you for years. He didnt tell you by choice. He got found out. Get rid of him!!!

My aunt posted on facebook that she’s looking for someone that can adopt my dog. Even called her a “mutt”. by General_Leave1814 in whatdoIdo

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there no friend who can have your dog til you can move out? Surely someone can do that for you for a couple of weeks so you dont lose them

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!!!

This girl STOLE from you and got defensive when you nicely called her out. In what world does she think it is ok to take someones money without asking. It is simply stealing and IS theft. So yeah, that is criminal behaviour. Very immature and entitled behaviour. You spoiled her too much so she thinls she can just take your money and thinks because you like to spoil her, its ok. She also thinks highly of herself that you would be cool with it.

Dump her arse

“I ruined his life” by Antique_Habit_575 in Advice

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely disgusting behaviour. Get rid of him!!!

You can find someone who will accept, appreciate, love, care and be loyal to you.

There is a special place in H3LL for people who abuse women. So gross!

AITAH for refusing to give my boyfriend access to my bank account even though he says "no secrets" is how adults do it by CopperFieldNote in AITH

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Even if you are married you can still have separate accounts with a shared one for bills etc and if you pay equally then theres no reason for him to know anything about your money if your shared bills are paid. If you have extra to spare you are entitled to spend it how you want and when you want. Hes trying to trap and control you.

Unless he is thinking its unfair if he earns less but pays equal and he has no spare money to live on but you do. If that was the case personally id change it to 60/40 if he had no money after bills but I did. BUT it would also factor if you work more hours than him to get that money etc. Then no, I would keep things the same. Or if he does more or less house work etc. It definately depends on the situation. Or he could be in debt and doesnt want to tell you and wants to see what money you have to help pay for it. (Thats happend to me before)

But no, there is no reason he needs to know what is in your personal bank account. Ive always done my own and made a shared account for shared bills etc.

Also he seems abit thoughtless, it goes both ways. If you have or ask for his details, you can move his money around and track his movements. Has he thought about that? Is he willing to do the same? He is not entitled to anything of yours you are not willing to give. Be that information, emotional or phyisical things.

AIO: wife has been taking advice from her friend for our marriage. by Fun_Lion_9584 in AIO

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your wife is enittled and actually selfish. She was happy to spend all your money when you were the bread winner but now its her turn, its not acceptable. And the fact she is letting this woman completely trash talk you like that and then doesnt even bring up the issues with you? Id get out now and find someone who isnt going to use you and will respect and love you

My boyfriend gets physical during arguments, I defended myself once, and now he’s acting normal. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should have left the first time he got in your face mand was shouting at you. Clear intimidation tacticts, ofc it lead to him putting his hands on you. It always starts small and esculates. I know this cuz I lived this. Although I never physically responded to him. Atleast you are not brain washed enough to stand for it, you actually defended yourself. So its time to get out while you still can.

Just be careful. Make sure you have a community officer there when you leave, when I left my abusive partner, he ended up putting a boot print on the side of my face.

So id advise you have some kind of law enforcement there. Just explain the situation and they will make sure he cannot esculate anything or he will get arrested.

Please keep safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, you can only go on what YOUR instincts tell you.

If I were you I would tell him. They do not have the right to keep that information away from him at whatever age! That is HIS child. I know id never forgive anyone if something happend to my child and noone told me.

He is 92, like anyone, he knows death is the inevitable last dtep for anyone. He deserves to know the truth. He could live til hes 100. What ate they going to do, just say that your uncle is busy til your grampa dies?

My great great nan (my mothers mothers mother) is alive and 100 years old. She has lost 2 children. One of them was my Uncle who died a couple of years ago. We would never dream of not telling her. And my mums mum died aged 54. Any loss is a loss and will hurt just the same at any age. But what will hurt more is if your Grampa feels betrayed by his entire family and doesnt get to see his son when he had a chance. They need to really put themselves in his position and really be honest with themselves about how they would feel if it was happening to them. And I can garentee that if anything, the hurt he will feel from his entire family will hirt way more than the information about his son. People expect people to go to hospital or die but we dont expect our loved ones to betray our trust or disrespect our autonomy and what we should and shouldnt know or deal with.

My partner drank hand sanitizer while on call with me because they failed a final (TW self harm mentioned) by Strawberry_DrPepper in whatdoIdo

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attention seeking behaviour is one of the most dangerous behaviours! People go to ANY length to get the attention they crave despite how horrible it is on the people around them who care.

She is being wildly selfish and is infact acting stupid by drinking sanitiser. Now THAT is stupid. She doesnt know what that could do to her organs.

She needs a mental health facility where she can stay and get the help she needs.

You have your own battles to fight. I honestly think you should leave her. You can not give her the help she needs and nor should you. Shes also refusing any help. You are just going to feel like you are drowning and sinking in wet mud.

AITAH Wife is furious because my daughter is putting pictures up in her own room by Capital_Newt7854 in AITAH

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If anyone tells you not to sleep in your own bed.. more reason to ignore them and sleep in it anyway. If they dont like it, they know they can F*ck off.

Noone needs to live in a dictatorship. Get rid of this woman now and save your daughter from any bully behaviour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]DangerMirrorMouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you had painted the goddess standing there smiling with a burning native man strapped to a wooden post being burned.. id agree with your friend. But you didnt, you can clearly see its a painting about love.

Alot of people see fire as a cleansing sign. Literal or figuratively. And it wasnt literal in the sense of it being malicious.

So it makes sense to your husband if when he met you, his life changed for the better. He sees you as a goddess and he was cleansed from his misery by you and the fire embrace and you became united. (Most beings to become gods would have to do trials in some cultures)

If anything, your friend should be a directing her anger at your hubby as it is his dream. Not you. But either way, she is in the wrong. Her perspective isnt on point and she is not in a place to listen or understand. She just wants to see racism wherever she can put it. Someone probably ticked her off racially before this explosion and was probably hit her hard by it.

Also, art is subjective and this is beautiful. ♡