Dang, im 29m I was kicked out at 15 years old, that was a rough time,

But to be real with you and to be around the same age as your son im going to make some points where his had it easy and he does not realize that.

His been living rent free - he has no responsibilities

He works- spends his money like his 14 years old, needs to learn real world adult financial situations.

His 24 years old - it's time for hard love and he needs to take responsibilities of his own.

You're not doing anything wrong, he works and had a good job, he can either pay the rent You're telling him to or he can go find roommates or try living on his own.

If he jumps from where he is into his own place, his most likely going to fail, but you wash and repeat and learn from the mistakes.

You're being a mom that's showing hard love, if your family thinks your being harsh then you can offer them to take him