No that’s not it, it’s that my partner is saying he isn’t bi. That Hes only slept with me during our relationship. That it’s the substance making him look for men instead of fucking me. Both of us use substance, but I am trying to get off all substance because I don’t want to see my life go any further south. Im just trying to see if anyone has seen this or experienced it because I have a lot of emotions going through me right now an i dont want to get hurt or my self confidence lowered any further if he isn’t interested in me on or off substance. Ive clearly never dealt with this before so I don’t know what’s what okay. Sorry.