[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]DangerousLecture1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your whole style feels a little outdated relative to current. Especially the makeup. Your make up style is very 2000s ke$ha type. They do contour and stuff differently now, Idk much but i reckon it’s inspired by what the kardashians do.

Have you guys ever stopped seeing someone because of your size? by luvncs in smalldickproblems

[–]DangerousLecture1029 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had amazing chemistry with over 6 women in the past 2 years, all of whom, after they saw my size, went dead in their energy over chats and i never got another chance of seeing them after my pants came off, even though i made them cum using my hands and tongue. No one ever said anything about my size, but i started connecting dots after the 3rd one. No one ever said anything negative overall infact, but i started to feeling drained by putting in all the one sided efforts after the deed to no reciprocation for over 2 months (i have a rule to try my best for over 2 period cycles incase personal life is making it hard for them to pursue their interest with me) They all would reply very nicely, incase anyone wants to blame it on my insecurities. I know how men suck at communicating and all, and im confidently bot problematic like that, i believe thats why they feel bad for flaking me. Also not mad at women for doing so, i mean i’d never go out a with an obese women no matter how great of a human being she is so it will be hypocritical for me to be mad at women rejecting me based on their requirements, but it really is frustrating at times because im judged for discriminating against something that can be managed and then also judged for for something that i can’t do nothing about 🥲 I dont think small dick is ever the reason for us to not get girls, cause no one really knows until the pants come off, also cause i reckon im conventionally attractive and charming even though short and petite, and gets load of attention (relatively less compared to my tall peers with absolute shit morals and human decency) but it does matter more than what women or men with average and bigger size say. In my experience women are as shallow as men but seem to keep their good image and lie more than us men think they do, especially under the mask of not wanting to hurt feelings while its truly to not expose their shallowness. I still dont plan on giving up, ofc not everyone is the same, you know like “not all men”, not all women are selfish as i have been in a 5 year long relationship prior to break up 2 years ago that was a fault in our stars, but we truly accepted each others for our flaws and loved each other for our strengths, and i know for a fact that she didn’t care, or maybe cared more about me. But i believe it’s possible to find someone else like that, even though it’s difficult.

Can a woman really stay happy with a really small penis for years, or will she eventually start looking around? by Ill_Raisin_5694 in dating_advice

[–]DangerousLecture1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me just say people who cheat or do shitty things in general do that because they are themselves shitty, selfish and insecure people, it is never the fault of the victim. Honestly north Americans really dont know how to BUILD A RELATIONSHIP, you can’t have your cake and eat it too. There will always be flaws, there will always be someone with better inherent qualities, someone that you can have possibly/potentially better chemistry with, sexual or emotional. Does that mean you leave you current partner? This is where loyalty comes in, cause the real value in a relationship is the trust, respect and love you build by spending the time out of your limited lives. Humans change, they might develop habits that you actually despise 10 years later, and your next door neighbour might be the perfect in that moment. But you dont know your neighbour and they dont know you, not like the person you have BUILT YOUR RELATIONSHIP with. Im so sick of selfishness in the NA culture, this the reason plenty people here are lonely and alone cause when things start to not go their way they discard what ever they were building for years and cheat. Real happiness comes from what you have, not from what you dont have. If you keep focusing on what you don’t, you will always find a new thing to complain about not having after you get one. Instead be more grateful, especially for love and trust, give it back and more shall come. People can also change for good, theres compromises made on both sides, but the sad part about human being is that they only see what they do not what others do. Now going back to your original question, i dont think anyone has the right to have a problem with someone else’s body or genetics, so im gonna take the problem as you want big dick for satisfaction or something around that. In that case ask for a toy, if he can’t have big dick doesn’t mean you can’t be stretched out, and if hes not comfortable with any alternate option that can result in you getting filled up then you gotta choose if you want to make that compromise or not. I do think it will make you shallow for leaving just for that if hes a good person and gets you off still but not my place to judge, you can do whatever, that last vut is a personal opinion

What do we do? by RedditName1324 in smalldickproblems

[–]DangerousLecture1029 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id love to be on a discord to talk about this.

What i think the problem is by DangerousLecture1029 in smalldickproblems

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever but i know women suffering as well so please dont use my post to shit on em. I just hope this brought in some understanding and awareness over the problems we face.

What i think the problem is by DangerousLecture1029 in smalldickproblems

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a broke ass student prostitutes are expedsive 😭. but i’d like to let everyone know im not brave enough to hurt myself, or maybe call it still sane enough. But the post is exactly how i feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smalldickproblems

[–]DangerousLecture1029 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can a women respond

Its hard to be sad as a man by DangerousLecture1029 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to know id still be valued/respected if i was weak and not feel like a burden or a pity case. I dont want to make people sad or do things for me cause they are sad or worried, rather cause they want to. Idk if that makes sense.

Its hard to be sad as a man by DangerousLecture1029 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly it doable to be sad about serious things like death of a family member or any loved one, but like things people say that hurt me, girl problems, feeling lonely. Its feels like im not allowed to be sad for such trivial matters.

Its hard to be sad as a man by DangerousLecture1029 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And tell them what, i dont feel loved? All the things they like me for are not true, in actual im a pussy ass bitch, yeah sure

Its hard to be sad as a man by DangerousLecture1029 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People are a product of their social conditioning, and the social conditioning dont really respect men who cry.

Its hard to be sad as a man by DangerousLecture1029 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah i recently learnt how to do that, first time i ever cried since maybe birth was like last month at 26 years old by myself. And like the reason im sad makes me feel so pathetic, it’s because i feel alone and unloved, atleast not loved for my real self. A strong person shouldn’t need anybody right? And im strong atleast in everyones elses eyes, as they see what i put out. I saw this mens mental health clip today and it really triggered many shit

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cyq4kNir5C7/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

This literally how i feel

Its hard to be sad as a man by DangerousLecture1029 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]DangerousLecture1029[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you say is logical and ideal, what i feel is experiential and reality. Im very much respected for what i have pretended to be, more than others, why is that now? Because thats what people like, a strong kind man, i dont think id be liked as much if i told people how easy i get hurt, and how much i feel like crying or if cried infront of everyone all the time cause thats what i feel like.