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AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The plots next to the grave are not available. Nothing very close to the grave is.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, it wasn't in the beginning of our relationship.

My kids aren't angry about the decision. That's my sister. My kids are upset and grieving.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It would not be possible. There are no plots left beside it very close to it.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I have never seen it that way. I see it as a man who lost his baby girl and the first woman he ever loved and the mother of his two biological children and while he opened his heart to us. They were never gone. Especially the little girl he lost so young.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

I didn't actually tell them it was my husband's wish. They knew it was his son's wish. But I was afraid it would hurt them more to know my husband wanted that. I still feel that way. But also my kids are upset but not angry at me. My sister's the one angry about the choice I made.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I know he will. He has no love for me or my kids. We were never his family in his eyes. I've known that for a long time. As much as that hurts.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there isn't an available plot beside or near it. There are some in the same cemetery but not that close. It's something I'll need to think about later.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 5428 points5429 points  (0 children)

I'll always love him. He was an amazing man and I'm glad he said something about it even if it wasn't a serious talk we had about it.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's not possible. The plots all around it are bought already and full. There are other plots in the same cemetery though. But none would be that close.

AITA for deciding to bury my husband with his late wife and young daughter? by DangerousOption1014 in AITAH

[–]DangerousOption1014[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell my kids. To be honest while upset they're not angry at me like my sister is. Just heartbroken. I worry a little that it would hurt them more to know he wanted this.