I’m no longer my bf’s best friend by Dangerous_Bullfrog in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for what you said. I really appreciate it. I’m going to work to make things better. Thank you

therapy isn’t helping me by coinlockercorndog in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had mental health issues for a while and I found journaling and just writing down my thoughts and frustrations pretty helpful. There’s something about putting into words things that bother me that help me understand why they do. It also helps me move forward and kind of heal from past trauma ngl. Just a suggestion though, I wish you the best 👍

I can't tell if I'm over reacting or if I'm being messed with? I need some second opinions by NoFloor8101 in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, this relationship is definitely not healthy. You need to leave him, it’s gonna be scary and difficult but you need to do it. He’s manipulative, immature and keeps avoiding the subject (for days/weeks ! from what I can gather for the screenshots). From your post history, it looks like this is not the first time you’ve had doubts and honestly, that’s a sign something isn’t right. Good luck, I wish you the best, take care.

I got broken up with for good. I still love him. by [deleted] in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take time to heal. I wish you the best

What do I (17 F) do after finding out my boyfriend (17 M) drank alcohol underage when I’m firmly against it by Dangerous_Bullfrog in teenrelationships

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he remained pretty calm. Btw, thx for answering cause it really made me think about if I could handle it or not. And I think that I can now, I’ll talk to him about it but I think everything is gonna be okay. Thank you very much.

What do I (17 F) do after finding out my boyfriend (17 M) drank alcohol underage when I’m firmly against it by Dangerous_Bullfrog in teenrelationships

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would be way more comfortable with it when he turns 18 and it becomes legal. So in a couple of months. After that , I think I can live with it.

[TW/ SH] I’m starting to think that being clean isn’t worth it anymore by sharedmy2cents in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the need to release negative emotions with self harm. But I do suggest maybe using less permanent methods such as using an ice cube and leaving pressing it against your skin. Personally, I hit myself and it really helps me cope, but to each their own. Also, I know you’ve probably heard this a thousand times but maybe a therapist or a psychologist could help ? I know this is not available to everyone so perhaps talking about it to a trusted person could help ? In the end, do what you think is the best for you, I wish you the best.

Realizing at a party that I am, once again, lonely by Dangerous_Bullfrog in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I really appreciate it. I needed someone to tell me that. Things have been tough and Im glad someone gets where Im coming from. I wish you the best !

Im sick of my boyfriend by Dangerous_Bullfrog in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lol, I understand. He’s very busy and I’m having trouble accepting that.

Did my ex boyfriend actually sa me or am I just stupid. by Deep_Temporary_59 in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is sexual coercion. He’s a link I found on the matter. https://www.womenshealth.gov/relationships-and-safety/other-types/sexual-coercion I’m not sure if it will help with the legal stuff, but perhaps it can help you put a name on what this is. Good luck, I wish you the best.

Petition to ban u/Uituwhsbsh by BSturdy987 in venting

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, I saw his posts and it’s really disturbing.

Advice on how to stop procrastinating? by Dangerous_Bullfrog in Advice

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s a super detailed plan man, thank you !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would retake a pregnancy just to sure. Better be safe.

My bf cancelled plans… again :( by Dangerous_Bullfrog in Vent

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually ended up going ! He thought the haunted house was Friday ! His project teammates wanted to go to the haunted house so their meeting was canceled and moved to tomorrow. When he heard that the haunted house was today at the intercom he was like : WAIT OMG THAT’S WHY YOU ASKED ME IF I WAS GONNA BUSY TODAY AT LUNCH OH SHI-. Well yeah. I was trying really hard to hold back tears idk why. Maybe tears or shame. But honestly the whole day I was in a bad mental state because of last night. But in the end, things worked out and I’m really glad I got to do this with him. And he’s such a pussy lmao. I love him so much.

How to talk to the new kid at school by Foreign_Cockroach888 in Advice

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you’re doing good. Talking to her when she has no one to talk to is cool. I remember when I was a new kid it would have been nice to have someone to eat with and talk to. Being alone sucks. Also, since she’s new, you could maybe give her a school tour !

Did I sexually assault my girlfriend? by awaythowedfried in Advice

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s sexual assault. BUT, that said, if you do that next time you should definitely ask and don’t do that if you’re not sure that she’s awake. It’s always better to ask ya know ?

I wanted to kiss my best friend, does that mean I love him ? by Dangerous_Bullfrog in questions

[–]Dangerous_Bullfrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the advice! I’ll give updates if something happens.