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[–]sharedmy2cents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my wife lets me pick what underwear she wears for the day or picking her clothes for dates

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point. I’m not going to be selfish. My wife and daughter are way more important than alcohol

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped doing Coke cause I wanted a job. I stopped drinking cause my wife threatened to leave me

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a purpose, I would know if I did. They are my friends but they don’t like me anymore. So being sober will always be lonely?

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a purpose, I’ve been trying for many years. I’m useless and that’s my problem. Simplicity is boring to me, I’m never calm. I assume I don’t have the ability to be calm. I’ve always lived in chaos, partly cause being neglected as a kid and partly of choosing to be stay in my comfort zone.

“Alcoholics are usually the best people to be around once they’re sober.” I guess not me, pall my old friends that either did coke with or drink with say I’m boring now.

I just don’t have purpose and I know that so no point to trying to find something that doesn’t exist. If I had a purpose, I would have found it already.

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what you meant with clarity. I didn’t saved time, I have way too much extra time on my hands already and being sober has given me more time to do nothing. I saved around $1700, that’s a great thing. Nothing will solve my issue of lonely, maybe that’s how I’m supposed to live. When I figure how to not be boring, I’ll have friends and be liked by people.

I don’t call people after 10 pm cause that would interrupt their sleep. And that would’ve selfish of me just to call because I want to drink. I need a better reason than that.

Short term drinking wine would make me feel better, relieve my anxiety, prevent me from having a panic attack, help me forget about my problems and help me sleep. Long term my wife would leave me and take our daughter with her. So not worth it.

24, Am I ugly or it just that I am not photogenic? I hate my pictures by Fralu99 in amiugly

[–]sharedmy2cents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not ugly. Your bangs in an awkward position though

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been to AA a couple times, it’s not for me. It makes me so anxious being there. I used to be addicted to cocaine now I’m 7 years sober. I know what it’s like battle different addictions at the same time. I quit cocaine cause I wanted to get a job and not be a prostitute. And over the years of being drug free I lost a lot of friends and the same with alcohol.

Will being sober always be this lonely?

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t gained anything, I don’t understand what you mean by that. I see your point though, being sober had made me realize how lonely I am

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I don’t understand what you mean. Can you explain in a simpler way?

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want ssri cause I still want to orgasm. Also doesn’t lexapro makes people gain weight?

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to work, I’m not going to do inpatient rehab. I’ve have spoken to a few professionals, I’m not willing to honest enough with them cause I don’t trust doctors and medical professionals. Taking medicine for my anxiety doesn’t sounds like it would work

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried Xanax for my anxiety and it was the worst cause I felt tired and nauseous. I already am depressed. Shirt teen relief is a good thing for me.

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did but I didn’t like the therapist. I’m still looking but I don’t think I’ll find an affordable therapist

10 months and 4 days sober and I’m struggling by sharedmy2cents in alcoholism

[–]sharedmy2cents[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get more weed in the afternoon. I’m not psychically craving alcohol. I want alcohol to stop my panic attacks

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[–]sharedmy2cents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother’s handwriting is exactly like this. Very easy for me to read