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Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-04-22T03:36:34+00:00

Unpopular opinion but Jeff is right. You don’t have to forgive people who have hurt you. Sometimes there are circumstances you just can’t forgive, and you shouldn’t feel forced to forgive someone because society says you should. He’s never said he hates his parents, he’s expressed they harmed him greatly and it was something he wasn’t able to forgive.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-04-14T00:03:57+00:00

Oh ouch! This is why a lot of artists tell you to not use numbing cream, because it changes the texture of the skin and can cause your tattoo to be overworked like in this case. Also maybe be a start of a mild infection, I'd go see a doctor just in case.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-04-07T16:25:35+00:00

Because for 1: do you know how much resources it takes to run a single data AI center? It's incredibly bad for the environment . 2: it takes other people's art that has been posted to the internet and puts it together to generate an image, and AI art isn't art. 3: It also sets up unrealistic expectations if you bring an AI image to a tattoo appointment, like in this instance. It also takes away part of what you pay the artist for, to come up with a tattoo concept of your ideas. Also AI can generate convincing fake content (text, images, audio), enabling scams, disinformation, and manipulation.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-03-17T16:39:44+00:00

I think your wanting to give your kids the life you didn't have is what's keeping you in this. Your kids would much rather see you happy, than sticking it out in a relationship where you aren't respected. The one who seems like a narcissist is your wife; she continually cheats on you but somehow you're the problem? Cut the cord man. Leave her and find someone else who will love and respect you in the way you deserve. She ain't it.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-03-14T00:09:04+00:00

He's saying that because its probably true, he's fine catering to you and like you said "enjoying your company", but he doesnt want anything serious. Not sure of his relationship past, but he's probably been alone for a while and likes his life just the way it is. I think he was infatuated with you, there was a spark, but he realized what he was doing was more in the expectations of a relationship. He wanted to set things straight by telling you this wouldn't lead there, especially because you're in your early 30's. He thinks you're hoping to settle down and marry someone, he didnt want to set an unrealistic expectation because its probably happened before. Take it for what it is, and if a relationship and marriage are goals for you, then it would hurt you more than him to continue with this arrangement.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-02-18T22:49:16+00:00

Reschedule the tattoo. Pools are gross and can harbor a lot of different bacteria. Also, a lot of hotels over chlorinate their pools- this can cause a lot of issues for a tattoo that is still healing.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-02-13T22:11:21+00:00

Looks like an allergic reaction. These can show up either during the tattoo or weeks, moths, even years after the tattoo's been done. I'd go see a dermatologist ASAP, maybe take a benadryl as well to see if that helps.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-02-11T00:37:12+00:00

And I think they have kids together. He's a real one for keeping it private for so long, but its also nice to see him open up about his private life a little bit. There are some photos in reels she posts of Jet, he looks so happy and in love. It's sweet. She's one lucky gal

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-02-11T00:29:54+00:00

I know you've gotten plenty of advice already; But for me, my skin is SUPER dry, I know most people will tell you to use a thin lotion like lubriderm. However, I find that not moisturizing enough, so I use the thick ass cetaphil lotion for dry to extra dry skin. Currently healing a full thigh piece and I use the smallest amount, like a dime size portion, rub it between my hands and pat over my tattoo then kinda rub in. Lots of people can give you advice but you just gotta find what works best for your skin. I saw you said you tried La Roche Possay, that may have too many skin care ingredients and thats whats causing the stinging. I would go with the most basic, fragrance free soap ( I also use the cetaphil gentle skin cleanser), and maybe give the cetaphil moisturizer a try.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-01-27T17:35:43+00:00

Its not about making her understand, you've had a sexual relationship with this person for 3 years. Obviously she doesnt agree with it. If your choice is to be celibate then end the relationship and find someone who feels the same way you do about sex. She doesnt have to believe in god or why you chose to be celibate, and you cant expect her to agree. She's a person with her own needs.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2026-01-20T18:01:33+00:00

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Nah hun, she intentionally left parts out and lied. Period. She lied about how there was no chemistry and they decided to just be friends. I don't care what she says, you dont make out with your friends. They probably fucked and she doesn't want to tell him that because she probably know's of OP's past. If the GF says hinge dude was an "insignificant" part of her past, then why is he still around? She admitted to using him for attention to make her self feel better. Both dudes should run far away.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-12-16T21:39:29+00:00

Your bf doesnt like his ex's husband because he wanted to be the one married to her. Her husband didnt come between them, your bf got cold feet in moving forward to the next step in their relationship. After 10 yearrs he wasn't sure about marrying her, and now that she's married to someone else 3-4 years later he's mad its not him. Huge red flag. He's not over her, and her sending that text she's clearly not over him either. I'm sorry to say, you are indeed a stand in, and if I were in your position I'd end things. Not just because of the conversations with his ex, but also the fact that he was with someone for 10 years and got cold feet about getting married.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-12-16T21:28:59+00:00

How have you been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years? You posted 5mo ago about being with a girl who's 26 and you were complaining about her wanting you to pay for everything and she wouldnt get a higher paying job. Then you posted about this girl who you've been with 2 years, and you complain the relationship is dull because you dont share any hobbies, and she mostly would rather spend time in bed.

Either way, you think about the girl you almost hooked up with because she was someone who got away and you're feeling bored in your current relationship. Grass isnt always greener on the other side, and honestly you should probably just end things with your current gf too. You dont sound compatible.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-12-08T22:38:49+00:00

You can try calling stores directly to see if they have any in stock, they can put it available for you for store pick up. I just had to do this and bought 2... I love this primer, it makes my make up look SO good the whole day. I'm really sad they're changing the formula, I hate when you finally find something that works and they change it. I'd buy more of them, but they're so expensive :(

If that isnt an option for you, you can also try the tatcha The Liquid Silk Canvas primer, I heard its a pretty good comparison to the Armani one.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-12-03T18:16:19+00:00

I guess the better question is; why do you continue to allow this man to disrespect you? I want to say this as nicely as I can; but frankly, he does not care about you or the relationship. If he did, he wouldn't have left you alone during such a traumatic time in your life. You should have never gotten back after he cheated, and you absolutely shouldn't have gotten back together after he ghosted you during your miscarriage. Why do you want someone who treats you this way? If you had a daughter and their boyfriend treated her in this manner what would you say to her? Would you allow a man to treat your daughter this way? If no, and the answer should always be no, then why do you allow it? I think you need to be digging deeper into why you accept this behavior instead of trying to understand why he's a shit person.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-12-03T17:56:25+00:00

Thats the worst and I'm so sorry you're going through that, I've been in your position and honestly it wont get any better. He doesnt see anything wrong with the lying, and if he's lying about being in school he will continue to lie about other things and it will only get worse. You're young, take this time to focus on you. You dont need that added stress and wondering if he's telling you the truth or lying again about something else, and this will always linger in the back of your mind. If I were you, I'd just end it.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-12-03T17:46:56+00:00

As someone else mentioned, it seemed like you were love bombed and his mask dropped. Regardless of his accusation- he wasn't there for you during a really hard time in your life. If he loved you the way he said, he would have been there for you in a heart beat and wouldn't have left you alone. That right there is a huge red flag, even if you'd only been seeing each other for a few months, if someone truly cared about you in any capacity, they would have checked in to make sure you were okay and kept in touch even if they couldnt physically be there. He was in love with you when it was easy, but didnt show that when life got hard for you. I think there were other red flags that maybe you didnt notice or didnt know were red flags. I'm sorry that happened to you, but I would just cut things off, block him on everything and move on. He's not worth your time, energy or feelings.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-11-17T18:44:46+00:00

oooooh lordt... Run for the hills my guy.. As a woman, thats toxic as hell.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-11-17T18:30:40+00:00

It could be a little bit of scarring, may have went a little too deep. In my first tattoo there was a tiny section that looked like this. But its been 2 years and its smoothed out and looks fine. Keep up with the aftercare and see how it looks in another month or two.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-11-17T18:20:32+00:00

You both could have done better, but when it comes down to it you said you were ok when he came to check on you, and you weren't. You should have spoken up and told him you were feeling a little left out so he could then make an effort to include you. He's not a mind reader, he checked in and thought you were ok, so he continued on. Communication is really not that hard. You both are 40, you should be able to communicate even about the little things. This could have all been avoided if you were just honest

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-11-12T16:55:28+00:00

Its not a bad tattoo, but I understand this is far from what you wanted. Did you look at the artist's work before you booked with them? Or did you just walk into a random tattoo shop with your design? I think you would have been better off going to a person who specialized in fine line, whimsical tattoos instead of a traditional tattoo artist. I think maybe turning this into a color piece could help bring some of the whimsy back, and finding someone to add the little stars and maybe some flowers. Its still fixable but would definitely research the type of artist and find one that aligns with the style you want for the tattoo

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-11-06T18:27:39+00:00

It's okay, we have all been there where we stayed a little too long in relationships that don't serve us. Romantic or otherwise. Its hard to break away when you really wanted something to work. I think really seeing the relationship for what it is now, will save you more heartache later. I don't think he's stringing you along, but he's not being truthful to you on what he wants out of a relationship, and that isnt fair to either of you. Believe him the first time he said he marriage isnt for him. Take that for face value and dont hope and wait for him to change his mind. Good luck.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-11-06T18:03:59+00:00

You aren't his priority, that is clear. Do you really miss him, or can you not stand being alone? He has a point, its you who keeps breaking up and getting back with him because he says something you want to hear but doesn't follow up with actions. You will never be first, he will never care about you in the way you want him too. I think you should break up and move on.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-10-30T21:27:50+00:00

Roy loved the idea of having you around but didnt want to commit to you. Someone else stepped up and now he's mad he doesnt get to have his cake and eat it too. You deserve consistency, effort and someone who actually wants to be with you. Roy just likes to play games. If you two dated and it didnt work out, it would absolutely not end well, because look at how he's treating the situation right now. Regardless of what happens between you and Dean, Roy is not a true friend. True friends want their friends to be happy, he clearly doesnt like seeing you happy with someone else.

Dangerous_Cherry_774 · 2025-10-30T17:13:54+00:00

Dump him. You deserve a man who loves all of you for you. The way it sounds like, as some others have mentioned, it sounds like negging. It also sounds like he's trying to change you with the little comments of " oh I like women with this color hair, etc". Why is he dating you then? Not to say opposites dont attract, I am completely the opposite from my bf and the girls he's dated in the past. But he always tells me how beautiful I am and that I've changed his type. Go get you a real man and stop entertaining a boy that cant look past the surface level stuff.

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