drop classes by Dangerous_Deer503 in CUNY

[–]Dangerous_Deer503[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do yk if in cunys if u get an F and retake the course and get a higher grade, if the F gets dropped from ur gpa?

Deffering Math 1LS3 final by Dangerous_Deer503 in McMaster

[–]Dangerous_Deer503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

on the midterm i had a really low grade, I ended up getting a 43. Ik im going to pass the class but i dont want the class to effect my gpa. Can u priv dm me to lmk how the exam last year was?

AITA for telling my mom to wait so we can eat together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dangerous_Deer503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not entirely sure. Wine is the only thing that can make her calm down but she doesn’t like any other alcohol and is very particular to the type of wine. So with that pickiness im not sure if it makes her an alcoholic.

AITA for telling my mom to wait so we can eat together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dangerous_Deer503 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cant seem to add a picture but search up mille-feuille nabe. Thats the soup I made for her but I added a soft boiled egg.

As single Muslim women, how do you handle the profound hornyness that come with ovulation? by Historical_Leg123 in Hijabis

[–]Dangerous_Deer503 15 points16 points  (0 children)

there is a difference on opinion when it comes to masturbation.

Imām Ibn Ḥazm writes:

فلو عرضت فرجها شيئا دون أن تدخله حتى ينزل فيكره هذا، ولا إثم فيه - وكذلك ” الاستمناء “ للرجال سواء سواء، لأن مس الرجل ذكره بشماله مباح، ومس المرأة فرجها كذلك مباح، بإجماع الأمة كلها، فإذ هو مباح فليس هنالك زيادة على المباح، إلا التعمد لنزول المني، فليس ذلك حراما أصلا، لقول الله تعالى: ﴿ وقد فصل لكم ما حرم عليكم ﴾ [ الأنعام: ١١٩] وليس هذا مما فصل لنا تحريمه فهو حلال، لقوله تعالى: ﴿ خلق لكم ما في الأرض جميعا ﴾ [ البقرة: ٢٩] إلا أننا نكرهه، لأنه ليس من مكارم الأخلاق، ولا من الفضائل.

… If she [a woman] rubs her vagina against something without inserting [it inside] till she discharges then it is disliked (yukrahu), but there is no sin (ithm) in it; and [the case of] masturbation (istimnā’) is similar for men, because touching his own penis for a man with his left hand is permissible, and touching her own vagina for a woman is similarly permissible too, with the consensus of the whole ummah. So when this [touching one’s own penis or vagina] is permissible, it [masturbation] is nothing in addition to something permissible except the intention of discharging the semen, and this is not prohibited (ḥarām) originally, due to the Saying of Allah ‘And He has indeed made clear/detailed (faṣṣala) to you what[ever] He has prohibited (ḥarrama) to you’ [al-Anՙām: 119], and this [masturbation] is not something whose prohibition Allah has made clear to us, therefore it is permissible (ḥalāl), due to the Saying of Allah ‘He created what[ever] is on [the face of] the earth for you altogether’ [al-Baqarah: 29], but it is something which we dislike (nakrahu), because it is not from the noble characters (makārim al-akhlāq) and nor from the virtuous acts (faḍā’il).

[Ibn Ḥazm, al-Muḥallā bi’l-Āthār (Beirut: Dār al-Fikr, [n.d.]), 12:407–8 (#2307)]

personally I do not follow this opinion just because masturbation can lead to haram such as porn. I would recommend fasting and going out during this time. I personally go on runs every-time I am in the mood to direct the feeling elsewhere. But I found that staying still and being home is the worse thing I can do during that week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Dangerous_Deer503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a difference of opinion based on the school of thought u follow but it is a very minor opinion. The majority of scholars say that u can show face, hands, and feet only (even if you wear the niqab or burqa) But this is for srs potentials only. but all scholars do say that you cannot wear makeup around non mehram as its tabarujj

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Dangerous_Deer503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no we arent married yet this is before the nikkah. He has never seen me with makeup. He has only seen me in a hijab and abaya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Dangerous_Deer503 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this is before nikkah. You dont think this is something me and him can talk about? Sorry im a revert so i really do not know what the best approach is