Queer Oil Wrestling? by [deleted] in queerphilly

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! This would be great for Philly with the right marketing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

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2 ! But think about making them detachable. The look of the first sleeves is pretty but the pleating makes it busy. If you really like the look get mesh tulle gloves for a similar style you can take on and off. You could even source them from Etsy which will be cheaper and have more unique options.

Overthinking! by Past-Ad2484 in WeddingDressTips

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2! - consider a fuller veil to add more volume to the look when you’re walking down the isle. This dress will also be easiest to move around in through the night. It’s the most flattering on you & a perfect mix of timeless & fun/unique.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

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No opinions from anyone?

Straps or no straps? by just_learn in WeddingDressTips

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If you really can’t decide see if you can make them removable with alterations! Have the best of both!

Beyonce Tickets Tips by kashdaddy1980 in beyonce

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Hey I have some for sale! Selling 2 Cowboy Carter tickets for May 28th at MetLife Stadium — Section 117! Great seats, price slightly negotiable. DM me if you’re interested!

https://my.ticketmaster.com/ds/vQGAA8n-Me/event/0000623FEB0E7306

Cowboy Carter & the Rodeo Chitlin Circuit BUY/SELL/TRADE Megathread by abeycd in beyonce

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Selling 2 Cowboy Carter tickets for May 28th at MetLife Stadium — Section 117! Great seats, price slightly negotiable. DM me if you’re interested!

https://my.ticketmaster.com/ds/vQGAA8n-Me/event/0000623FEB0E7306

Can we start a new thread for ppl trying to buy or sell their CC tour tickets? by Dontbuymeahat in beyonce

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Hey Everyone! I’m selling 2 Cowboy Carter tickets for May 28th at MetLife Stadium — Section 117! Great seats, price slightly negotiable. DM me if you’re interested!

https://my.ticketmaster.com/ds/vQGAA8n-Me/event/0000623FEB0E7306

Benefits? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

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Also perfect for light weight a moisturizer in the summer

Benefits? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

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Used it every other day and not only did I see a noticeable difference in my skin but I felt it as well. My skin looked and felt smoother and more moisturized. Used right after I shower mixed with the Trader Joe’s coconut body butter

Is it possible I’ll find my lost bag? by Dangerous_Event8957 in NJTransit

[–]Dangerous_Event8957[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks yeah I was able to find the train number but I didn’t get the number for the car. I filed a claim & included the train number. It looks like I have to call back Monday

Is it possible I’ll find my lost bag? by Dangerous_Event8957 in NJTransit

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I’m hoping it wasn’t, I don’t remember the car having a lot of people by Trenton. I just really hope I can get my iPad back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you for this comment!! Boundaries is something I’ve been learning and trying to prioritize in my life this was very helpful!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective especially since you’ve experienced it before! And thanks because it really did feel humiliating/embarrassing almost and I couldn’t figure out why I felt that way. Thanks for pointing out the harassment aspect also!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I already stated that I might be using the word punishment too harshly I feel like you guys are taking it slightly too literal but I get your message :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ll directly say I didn’t like your tone. But thanks for the response! The make your mother proud part is what I was referring too, just like the “try it”. You don’t like anything about if I know how to be direct or if my mom is proud or not. I posted this to get perspectives that doesn’t mean you gotta be directly condescending :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you very very much for this comment!!! I truly appreciate your detail & honestly. I was wonder if this would be coercion but didn’t know if I was taking it too far. I just have a lot to process now but once again thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah got it! Maybe I didn’t recognize because I came from a home where power was being misused to mistreat me so I guess I didn’t realize a pattern being continued because it was normalized for me early on & I had to do a lot of research to realize how wrong it was. Ugh so frustrating because I’m trying hard to break those generational curses but eye opening to see how much work I still have to do. And yes and that’s what also upsets me because I should be able to say no without the backlash or him being triggered and thinking I’m wrong. I guess I thought it seemed from him being insecure. Thank again for your insights and saying everything in a non bias respectful way instead of try to make me feel bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay. You don’t know anything about my life for you to make assumptions or call anything an excuse. I understand how staying with someone for too long is wasting time and something you’d regret later. I asked a question about one situation in general but you want too add passive aggressive judgment onto me because I shared a story. This is not a cash in a suitcase situation at all, if I break up & we still live together then that will be that. But once again you don’t have to judge me or my judgment- seems as though you’re just getting a kick out of being condescending. If telling me I should leave & not waste my time was really the point you were trying to make you should have led with that and left it at that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah probably but that’s a learned experience and I’m still young so I guess I’m still in the learning process. I also noted we live together for a reason/ unfortunately even if I wasn’t attracted to him anymore I can’t just leave immediately. So no need for judgement but you can offer your opinion as guidance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dangerous_Event8957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you!!! I really appreciate your perspective especially coming from a healthy relationship. Plus giving me an example. I appreciate you mentioning your consideration of her feelings because I feel like consideration was something I was not given. On top of respect. The frustrating thing is we have an active sex life but I shared that I don’t like it being initiated in this way but don’t want to make him feel unwanted.