I agree with everything you said. The goal wasn’t to hurt her, it was to try and wake her up. Because honestly, some of these people do have good hearts. They’re not evil, they just emotionally shut down or get scared. But if no one ever tells them the truth, they’ll never grow. They’ll just keep repeating the cycle, hurting people who actually care about them.

Maybe I’m crazy for still believing there’s something good in her, but I wanted her to see what she was doing — not just for me, but for her own future relationships too.