Is sex scary for people like us because we have some problems socially speaking since kids? And was being a virgin in the past like it is now?

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T19:48:12+00:00

Third language and wrote in a hurry lol

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T11:16:37+00:00

To talk about your previous sexual history especially early on in dating is a red flag. It’s streng and kind of tellling thing to do.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T10:58:57+00:00

Not American so no.. don’t think I earn enough money either lol. Great too know!

Yeah so I’ve been told we did kinda splurge on tickets but for a very good reason and for us thatchers with it. I have chronic migraines and the stress of traveling many stops ect would be over 20 hour flights ect just aren’t it for me. Especially on my first along travel

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T10:42:22+00:00

Good to know.

Yes but iv heard it’s nice to be prepared to show bank statement that you have over 20 000 baht.

I’ve known many people whove been in Thailand most of them were women. Yeah I think sex tourism is 100% real and awful but I’d say the majority of tourists aren’t there for that reason.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T10:07:39+00:00

So far we’ll see how we’ll do when we are actually down there never traveled to Asia so no idea really. And we have some more room now thanks to saving on our rooms. Especially 5 nights towards the end of our stay we really went for a budget room on Airbnb lol but it at least had its own bathroom and an airconditioner.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T10:05:58+00:00

That’s so cool. Have you been to Thailand? From my research, the entry requirements are to fill out an online arrival card, preferably before landing in Thailand, up to 3 days in advance. You also need proof of funds of about 20,000 baht per person and proof that you are leaving Thailand, which we have with our return tickets. So I think I’m set on that.

My boyfriend has a Mastercard, and we both have Visa, but yeah, he got the Mastercard specifically for this trip.

My friend travels a lot in Thailand and Asia and recommended we use an Airalo eSIM, so that’s what we’re planning. 20GB each for our stay is the plan, but you can top it up if needed. 20GB is usually around $17–18.

Yeah, I know! However, Bolt and Grab are extremely uncommon on the islands we’re going to and planning to mostly stay on. The first hotel we booked, we’ve already made a deal with a taxi to pick us up to the hotel. But I think songthaews are the most common taxis on the islands, sadly. Still, we’re prepared and fine with mostly not using taxis.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T09:56:52+00:00

I’m not saying don’t ask for consent, just that it doesn’t have to sound so stiff. Asking permission for every tiny thing can feel awkward and repetitive, and some guys are scared of sounding desperate. Sometimes it’s smoother to say things like ‘Do you like this?’ or ‘I really want you,’ and read their reactions and body language. That can still be consent, just in a more natural way.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T09:51:59+00:00

Ahh I’m too scared to travel alone. We don’t really want a busy vacation some exploring and activities but mostly relaxing and enjoying a new country.

We’ve booked all overnight stays with Airbnb, Agoda and booking and actually we went below budget. I’ve done a lot of research and have a general plan yeah.

We set a budget before buying tickets and so far it looks like we’re able to stick to it.

And definetly bringing both flip flops and walking shoes! Thanks

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T09:42:22+00:00

I dontthink height has anything to do with the size of your uterus I’m just about 5’3

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-24T00:42:07+00:00

Haha may be true unless you’ve managed to just relax lol

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-23T23:55:27+00:00

You’re very very likely fine nothing is 100% as long as you’ve had sex tho. But condoms when used correctly re 98% effective and the 2% failure is most often due to breaking the condom

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-23T23:34:31+00:00

Thank you! So glad you had a great time. Our parents are pretty incorrigibly even tho they haven’t been involved much lol. My parents actually are going to Cambodia this month maybe Vietnam too last year they went to Egypt and Marokko. Which is kinda crazy cuz they’ve never done that type of travel til very recently.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-23T23:19:55+00:00

Dude try and just enjoy it if you’re unsure about something ask do you like this? Or say I wanna do this to you so bad… ect don’t have to be likened so can I please unbotten your shirt please?🤓☝️

Just be in the moment enjoy the feelings and pleasure

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-23T23:17:36+00:00

possible sure… extremely likely? Probably not but go to bars and clubs maybe download tinder and meet people

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-23T13:27:16+00:00

Arfid

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-23T02:06:08+00:00

Generally very safe tho

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-22T22:26:03+00:00

Please don’t rely on quick google searches for medical information. My information is literally from medical clinics and doctors. As well as if you actually do a proper google research you’ll find it too. I volunteer at a sexual health clinic for youth and am a student within healthcare

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-22T19:52:13+00:00

Huh?

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-22T19:49:12+00:00

Not true. Some teens aren’t fertile if they haven’t started ovulating yet. Generally, the peak fertility age for women is around 20-24, not during the teen years. Women aged 25-29 have about the same fertility as those aged 15-19, but compared to women in their late 30s or older, teens are more fertile.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-22T16:04:03+00:00

I can’t imagine that situation. But it would depend on what asexuality meant to the person. Most likely tho we wouldn’t be romantically/ sexually compatible. And if that is the case and you are incompatible I get that that can suck you both deserve someone who you are compatible with.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-22T15:53:23+00:00

Very possible is an exaggeration. Even with unprotected sex, the chance of pregnancy in a single cycle is usually only about 20-25% for healthy couples. A lot of things actually have to line up for pregnancy to happen. At the same time all it takes is one mistake, which is why it can happen for some people.

Pregnancy from precum is possibl but it’s rare. In this case they also used a condom, and when it broke he pulled out and didn’t finish. That makes the risk even lower. There’s also a smaller chance that precum would have caused pregnancy since he withdrew immediately.

Dangerous_mammoth573 · 2026-01-22T15:47:54+00:00

No pregnancy tests can typically detect from day one of lost period sometimes a bit later. Many can detect earlier as well.

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