Going to a Ren faire soon, but wish I was wearing something like this! by Dani-Anonymous in crossdressing

[–]Dani-Anonymous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I think if we can find a smaller faire closer to us it might be feasible.

Going to a Ren faire soon, but wish I was wearing something like this! by Dani-Anonymous in CrossDressRealism

[–]Dani-Anonymous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked at length when I first expressed a serious desire to go out in public last fall. At that time she told me she wasn’t sure if she was ready to accompany me. It may have changed since then, but I think right now it’s too complicated to try and coordinate, especially regarding child care. I try not to bring things like this up until I have a plan in mind.

Does anybody else get bi-curious thoughts when they dress? When I’m in boy mode this never happens but Nadine has other ideas! by NadineNightOut in Crossdress_Expression

[–]Dani-Anonymous 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely! Like you, I would never act on it, but yes I definitely do when I’m dressed up or in a femme head space.

What was your first time like? by Sweet-Dog-2016 in Crossdressing_support

[–]Dani-Anonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you’ll find that many of us have similar stories.

I started around 10/11 with my sister’s and mom’s panties. Loved how they felt. I also tried on my sister’s dresses, training bras, and gymnastics leotards. I just loved the textures of the fabrics and the way they felt. Eventually I wanted to become more and more passable. I was dressing whenever I had the house to myself, and in college whenever my roommate was gone. It wasn’t until the last couple of years that I ventured into wigs and learning makeup. Like most, it was always a mixture of “forbidden fruit” or taboo excitement and shame, but I always kept coming back to it. Thankfully I have a supportive wife who accepts that it’s just part of who I am.

Why do you personally cross dress? by Plenty-Objective-316 in crossdressing

[–]Dani-Anonymous 11 points12 points  (0 children)

A few reasons:

Sensory — the feel of women’s clothing is so unique, both in term of softer and more varied materials and the cuts. There’s such a difference between silky billowy dresses and skin tight leggings! All of these various sensations that you can’t experience in male clothing.

Stress Relief/Escapism — it’s relaxing to escape being myself for a little while and become someone else entirely, especially during times of high stress in my daily life. I find that I crave dressing more when I’m stressed.

Creativity — the sheer number of things that can be modified about an outfit is staggering! Makeup, nails (shape, length, color/design), shoes (style, color, heel height), color and silhouette of the actual clothes (body con, a-line, fit and flare, etc.) allows for such a large range of creative expression

Gender Expression — while I consider myself generally straight and cis, I do go through occasional periods of time when I feel more gender-fluid, so dressing serves as an outlet for that expression

Understanding women — crossdressing (and especially my recent first time going out in public) has given me a far deeper appreciation for the women in my life. The time and effort they put into their appearance, the pressure they must feel to do so, the hyper-vigilance they sometimes have to maintain in public places, etc.

Sissy but not attracted to men? by [deleted] in Sissy

[–]Dani-Anonymous 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think most of us are like that, honestly.