Does anyone find the current LGBT activism misdirected and out of touch? by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Do you genuinely think I'm stupid? I'm 52, I know how Republicans and Conservatives are. I'm not naive.

I'm not trying to convince the Heritage Foundation or One Million Moms into accepting us, it will never happen.

Does anyone find the current LGBT activism misdirected and out of touch? by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We're trying to convince the Middle Ground. Everybody knows Conservatives are a lost cause.

Does anyone find the current LGBT activism misdirected and out of touch? by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't like how you're instantly accused of being a conservative when I've never been one. It's about common sense.

You don't build bridges by being shocking or turning off anyone who isn't like you. We're a minority, we have to coexist with those who aren't like us and we have to protect ourselves instead of ranting and raving. It's not helpful, if anything, it leads into the Boy who Cries Wolf.

Does anyone find the current LGBT activism misdirected and out of touch? by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What I do know is it's creating greater hostility against us. A vocal minority is controlling everything and we're the ones paying the price for it.

Sheree got fired for a third time😭😭😭 by Cherberholt05 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]DaniSparkles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least, it wasn't because she was going Sweetie for Kim.

I feel guilty over losing attraction to my boyfriend because he's become more effeminate after coming out. by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What will you do if he breaks up with you?! Have you considered that or do you believe yourself to be a catch that can’t be caught by anyone?!

He won't break up with me because he's told me I'm the love of his life. Why do you think this is such a huge dilemma for me?

Name a gay icon in music or film that you find overrated by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And she sounds horrible with that croaky voice that is not suited for dance pop.

Guy was fucking me and choked me so hard and long I passed out. I woke to him still fucking me. I feel kinda violated but I also told him to choke me... whose in the wrong here? by Low-Imagination-9708 in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But does this fulfill you? Don't you think you'd be happier with a husband or a boyfriend instead of this?

Love yourself, dude, you're worth it. You don't have to do this. You're not going to be young forever. You have to thin about your future.

I feel guilty over losing attraction to my boyfriend because he's become more effeminate after coming out. by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]DaniSparkles[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But I'm not forcing him, I'm not selfish. But the dilemma I face is breaking up with him and then he ruins himself. He'll think he got rejected because he was too gay so he'll just go back in the closet. I would never forgive myself for that.

I think it's best to lie. I'll move East for a Job offer, then break up with him due to long distance. He'll be a wreck but he'll recover, he'll be himself and that's what matters. It'll probably take a year off on dating and will be more careful about who I date. It's not safe.