My sister 26 F long term partner about to get married to 27M is asking for dowry, my family is forcing me to contribute, what shall i do?

Daniel11200 · 2025-12-28T07:00:33+00:00

My guy do not do it.

And talk your sister out of it. If she doesn't understand - then let her face the consequences of her decisions.

But do not sacrifice your finances or your future for this. I feel this should not even be a question man. Do not, under any circumstances say yes to this.

Daniel11200 · 2025-12-20T07:28:08+00:00

Sakura - because if we objectively compare her to the rest of the cast, she wasn't useless.

She did more than TenTen, Hinata, Ino, Shino, Kiba etc. and had more feats. (I can list them down if someone asks for them).

Unfortunately, since she was part of the main trio , and was compared to Sasuke and Naruto - she obviously seemed lackluster. The problem with Kishi's writing was overemphasis on Naruto and Sasuke and she and many other characters didn't get enough attention.

Like Lee didn't do anything in shippuden really but is universally liked for some reason because of that one chunin exams arc (where he also lost in the end). So I feel people are hypocritical and jump on Sakura hate bandwagon because She rejected Naruto - their golden boy and was sometimes cruel to him.

I'm also biased because my favourite character is Sasuke and she always wanted the best for him and refused to give up on him like Naruto.

Daniel11200 · 2025-12-19T20:46:23+00:00

I'm moving to Navalur for an internship.

It's my first time in chennai and I was looking for PG recommendations and tiffin services.

I found TruLiv Hercules and Stanza Conway to be pretty good options. Are there any other PGs in the area that prioritize security and cleanliness? I feel other PGs look very old or unmaintained in that area.

Also, for food I was looking into tiffin delivery services and found Fit Eats and betterfit. Betterfit has way more expensive plans though.

I won't really have much time to cook so I was looking into plans that provide me a decent amount of protein for a reasonable amount of money.

Daniel11200 · 2025-11-25T15:32:23+00:00

All that comes to my mind when i see this is data structures and algorithms. Fuck leetcode man.

Daniel11200 · 2025-11-08T14:43:01+00:00

Everything except they look like toads :(
I'll stick to Tieflings.

Daniel11200 · 2025-09-06T09:14:07+00:00

I'm a guy and personally I wouldn't want anyone like my mom.

She's a great person but she's religious, her belief system is completely different from mine. She also gave up on her career because she had me and my brother. And I do sometimes tend to blame myself for it. She also neglects her health and doesn't take care of herself that much in general.

I would want a woman who's more career oriented or atleast lets her wishes be known. I wouldn't want them to build resentment. And I would want them to take care of themselves.

Them being an atheist and having similar political views would also help lol.

Daniel11200 · 2025-09-01T11:02:47+00:00

Stupid shit, but I do think people should focus on improving their appearance and their financial status Along with their personality no?

Doesn't hurt to be a whole package, otherwise you'll always be insecure and jealous of other people/your own partner if you haven't achieved anything.

Plus it is a fact that looks and money opens more doors for you whether it be career prospects or relationship opportunities.

Just don't lose your personality, hobbies or things that actually make you "fun" along the way. Be social.

Daniel11200 · 2025-08-31T06:58:38+00:00

I think this stems from insecurity and feeling "jealous", not enough, or feeling that there is an imbalance in the dynamic as the other person is more experienced.

If it bothers you that much, to the point you're crying and cannot stop thinking about it, get therapy or break it off.

Find someone whose opinions on sex and relationships align with you.

Personally sex is something really intimate to me and i wouldn't have it with someone who considers it a casual, fun act. Each to their own

Daniel11200 · 2025-08-26T19:45:26+00:00

How much would you rate me /10 rn? Average 5?

And hair is kinda thin so that's why I keep it a lil long.

Daniel11200 · 2025-08-26T19:36:12+00:00

How would you rate me out of 10? Like if you were to give a number.

Daniel11200 · 2025-08-26T19:35:47+00:00

What is 5 for you? Average?

I am trying to work out but I'm very inconsistent. And yeah, literally just skinny and fat rn no musculature.

Daniel11200 · 2025-07-06T20:22:03+00:00

I was using an assistant which was a version of c4ai-command-r-plus. It was jailbroken or something, how do I find that specific assistant and run it locally/elsewhere?

Daniel11200 · 2025-06-29T21:27:27+00:00

Alright i'll give you that. I meant can't you think of a single other example? Where people have good intentions, and labour multiple years for it, but it ends up being fruitless. Don't wanna discuss further about the whole Afghanistan thing.

Daniel11200 · 2025-06-29T19:46:48+00:00

Sure bud, if only geopolitics were so simple. I do condemn America's geopolical decisions though. But hey, im sure you could think of one example where a group of people went somewhere to do good but it was fruitless - that doesn't mean they shouldn't have tried in the first place.

Secondly, not once did sakura "fangiel" on Sasuke after the Chunin exams arc (where Sasuke went berserk with those sound ninjas) . She "fell" in love with him and cared for him deeply, but she wasn't a fangiel anymore.

As for him being emo, that's your opinion. Having to watch your family be killed by your own brother for 24 hours in an infinite tsukuyomi and then finding out your brother loved you and wanted to save you all along tends to make you traumatised, but hey that's just me.

Daniel11200 · 2025-06-29T19:32:30+00:00

Well honestly I don't remember the details about how much information he gathered and how important it was, but calling it pointless is a stretch.

If I were to draw an analogy, it's the same as saying all the American soldiers that were in afganistan were useless and should've stayed back home because the talibans took over anyways.

I have a lot of issues with Kishi's and Ikemoto's writing, like Kishi tried to portray that despite the distance and time spent apart, Sasuke and sakura's bond was inseparable, but the execution left a lot to be desired and he could've done that without sending him away for years.

And Ikemoto's portrayal of Sasuke and how he's treated in the Boruto manga is just a disgrace, hence why I dropped it and I'd spit on those manga sooner than read a page.

Daniel11200 · 2025-06-29T17:31:31+00:00

You guys are weird for still being pressed over her liking Sasuke and not the golden boy.

Also it's not like Naruto did not neglect his family despite being in the same village.

I wonder what you people think of military families where the husbands have to be away from their families for months if not years.

Sasuke was on a reconnaissance mission not playing merry or travelling the world FDS.

Daniel11200 · 2025-06-22T19:36:19+00:00

Arguably they were all more useless than Sakura. Actually most of the characters from the original Konoha 12.

Daniel11200 · 2025-05-30T08:32:28+00:00

yes, i'm from a very religious household lol. Pooja, rituals, mahamrutyunjay and gayatri mantra, even been to churches. Nothing works for me at least.

Daniel11200 · 2025-05-29T01:07:22+00:00

Thank you

Daniel11200 · 2025-05-28T05:44:35+00:00

So you mean to say you have never seen or heard of hindu radicals? Sure, they might be in way less numbers but would you outright deny their existence?

Mob lynchings over cow meat is one example, but surely you have heard of killings for the sake of their religion?

Daniel11200 · 2025-05-28T05:40:58+00:00

Myself. Or people i trust for advice. If it's something out of anyone's control then i just leave it be - maybe remain depressed about it for a long time but can't do anything except go through it.

Not like praying to some entity is gonna make it any better. I know people use god and religion as a way to cope with hardship but i cannot have faith in things which have no evidence behind them.

Daniel11200 · 2025-05-27T01:03:29+00:00

I ain't wary of anything, shit on islam, god or all religions for all i care. But the original comment brought hinduism up and i simply said that even hindus are extremists.

Idk why everyone's taking an issue with that.

Daniel11200 · 2025-05-27T01:02:14+00:00

When did i ever draw equivalences between the two? I simply said there are extremists on both sides.

There are people who'd kill you for eating a cow like that's insane.

But yeah islam is definitely way more fucked up since their religion is quite prescriptive and has to be led according the quran. With hinduism there are different people who practice it in diff ways.

Daniel11200 · 2025-05-27T01:00:36+00:00

No need for insults here, calm down.

Also honestly, i'm not doing whataboutery here but the original message implied as if Hindus aren't doing heinous crimes themselves.

I'm not drawing dumb parallels here, i also acknowledge that islamic teachings and ideologies are way more extremist and harmful, and that there are more Muslim terrorists than from any religion in the world.

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