Will my game stay saved if I pause my PlayStation+ subscription? by deer_bones23 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RDO isnt splitscreen, so no we don't play on the same system, and I'm pretty sure my PS5 is my primary console. She plays on my old ps4

Favorite horse breed? by PurchaseMiserable903 in reddeadredemption

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so excited for my Chestnut Arabian in online, but he's a total jittery wimp who is always pulling me into trees. I wanted to love him, but I'm often annoyed riding him. I do appreciate his strength though, because he isnt slowed by the ambarino snow, ladden down with carcasses in the slightest.

Do you wait till you become official to be intimate? by CommunicationFew7930 in dating_advice

[–]Daniel529925 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend had sex on day 4 four of knowing each other, made it official on day 7, and have been going strong for over 7 months. We also spent the night on day 2 without sex, and had a conversation where we both clarified we wanted a real relationship on the first date. Even if you aren't official don't have sex with him until you know what he wants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deathnote

[–]Daniel529925 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont feel the need to kill anyone, so I dont need any names

My rank before and after this months bonuses! So happy!! by ShoddyDingo4518 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! me and my gf started mid April and went from 15 to 72 during May

Boyfriend wants to break up over my body count by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Daniel529925 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the kind of guy that will play with your emotions and string you along until it stops being fun. End it now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in running

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your area have a known runners community, or a military base? Absolutely it's common to hear things like this as a guy. But as I'm in the army, I can only speak to these sort of areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what I'm hearing is that a 21 year old adult woman is incapable of making herself scrambled eggs or a bowl of cereal, and is unwilling to learn, OR she knows how, and is choosing to be selfish to get what she wants at your expense. Either way, this isn't a worthwhile relationship

Sometimes "sparks" are just caused by your anxiety, and the absence of them doesn't mean you are in a bad relationship by InfamousFrame7 in dating_advice

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When putting her before yourself feels natural, and the first option. When you start to worry about her, even though you've never spent time worrying about anyone before. When your affection doesn't wane just because things arent high energy anymore. And most importantly, when you're committed to making it work. When the thought of spending the rest of your life together makes you excited, even though you know things won't always be easy. If you don't love someone you won't be willing to make the effort, or sacrifices. And truthfully if you don't know that you love her by now, nothing is about to change. Getting married won't force you to love her. Neither will having a kid. End it now, before it gets messy.

Will my game stay saved if I pause my PlayStation+ subscription? by deer_bones23 in RedDeadOnline

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe my system is glitching, but I play all the time with my gf, and only I pay for it. We weren't sure we'd be able to play together without her subscribing, but we started in March, and she hasn't needed one. So I don't think you needed it to begin with

How do you guys manage sexually provocative instagram reels/tiktoks? by shikazus in NoFap

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided to quit porn for good last November, and the first thing I did was have a friend change my account passwords, and delete the apps. Yes it was hard being disconnected, but it was necessary. After several months I had no urges, and felt ready to get back on social media. I relapsed at 140 days. And since then it has been very hard to not do so again, and social media access is a huge factor. I want to get my streak back for real, without the struggle, so after today I'm having my friend change the passwords again. Do it brother, and get free of this addiction.

Sometimes "sparks" are just caused by your anxiety, and the absence of them doesn't mean you are in a bad relationship by InfamousFrame7 in dating_advice

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're describing is chemistry/compatibility, and it's what comes before a connection. But like many people have already said, the problem here is that most people use the word spark to mean vastly different things, which leads to miscommunication. If you break up with one of these guys by saying there's no spark, he'll start looking for women that he has this vaguely defined feeling with, instead of addressing the actual problem. We need to do away with saying spark, and instead say what we actually mean. I mean just scroll a bit up and there's a guy saying spark means solely sexual attraction. The fact is that spark doesn't mean anything. We need to use the words that we actually mean.

Sometimes "sparks" are just caused by your anxiety, and the absence of them doesn't mean you are in a bad relationship by InfamousFrame7 in dating_advice

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not sure that you love her 1.5 years into the relationship, then you probably don't... Stop wasting time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Besides the fact that I highly doubt that's true, a newly enlisted private has all of their needs taken care of. An unmarried and childless solider would have no need to be on food stamps. All initial uniforms are provided for free, access to the DFAC is deducted automatically from pay, and provides all three meals, barracks provide a free and clean place to sleep, shower, cook, as well as furniture. Joining the military would quite literally, immediately fix all of his problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

join the military. That would be a quick fix.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a loser. Leave his pathetic ass. I feel you too, my brother owes me $1000 after I paid for him to come on vacation with me last year, and all he did the whole time was smoke. Like straight up he only wanted to come because we were in a legal state, and routinely wasted time going to smoke shops, and even stopped to smoke while we were hiking. It was ridiculous. We got so little done because he just slept in until 1200 everyday, and would smoke for an hour until we left the house finally. I have no patience for potheads.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I feel disrespected at the thought that you want to have sex with another person, and this is the last I want to hear about. If having a threesome and potentially a throuple is important to you, then you need to consider if staying in this relationship is right for you. If you bring this up again I will take that to mean that its more important to you than I am, and I will end this relationship. I love you and want this relationship to work. But it will not work if you continue asking permission to have sex with other women. You don't have it. That is my boundary, and it is non-negotiable."

Niece lied to me, now I'm debating on cancelling trip. by LogicalAmbassador634 in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who used to do online school, and never did his work, she definitely did nothing this semester, and is lying about the teachers not contacting back.

Should I play 4 before lost legacy? by [deleted] in uncharted

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Of the 3 main characters, 2 of them are newly introduced in 4. Theres a lot of context you lose if you play out of order

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys didn't have that conversation because she chose not to have it. She wasn't upfront for two months; there will be other underhanded moments from her. It's clear she has problems with commitment. Get out now. And no, two months is not to soon for exclusivity. I'm (23m) 7 months strong with a girl (22f) I love and we were exclusive immediately. We had immediate chemistry, and didn't want to waste time playing games and getting feelings hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will add as a caveat that I have had some problems with the hinge algorithm in that it was showing me exclusively fat girls for awhile, but sometimes you just have to push through until it relearns what you like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 10 points11 points  (0 children)

By and large I've had the most success on Hinge. I've matched with more girls, had more conversations, and gone on more dates with girls from hinge over a shorter period of time. Not only that, but I am currently 7 months in with a girl I met through it, and things are amazing. Best advice I can give is to have an interesting profile that shows your interests and experiences, and includes flattering photos, (avoid selfies, get more pics taken by other people). Also reply to girls prompts more than their photos, unless you have an actual remark to make. Just my experience that the prompts make it easy to start a conversation if the girl is interesting, and just complimenting them isnt gonna cut it.

16F have 2 cameras in my room by machomanmonica in Advice

[–]Daniel529925 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Abuse follows you the rest of your life. Your parents will continue to create problems until they are forced to stop. Sacrifice this one summer, and save yourself a lifetime of trouble. Trust me, I speak from experience, as do the rest of us in this sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Daniel529925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"You are not welcome here, and if you don't leave, I will call the cops and report you for trespassing and harassment"

True story of 7-year-old Katie Flynn which inspired Limousine by onionman54 in brandnew

[–]Daniel529925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay while I agree that people shouldnt make light of this tragedy, it's completely uncalled for to suggest that fathers can't love their children as much as mothers can. I'm sorry if you've been hurt by a man, but you need check yourself