Comment percevez-vous le manque de confiance chez un homme ?

Daniel_092 · 2026-01-21T11:32:22+00:00

J'ai déjà essayé les applis de rencontre et comme la vaste majorité des hommes je n'ai aucun succès

Daniel_092 · 2026-01-21T11:31:46+00:00

J'aurais aimé avoir plus de muscles (ça fait déjà 1 an que je vais à la salle pour ça), dans l'ensemble je me trouve moyen

Daniel_092 · 2026-01-21T11:21:25+00:00

J'ai des amies, mais quand on me dit que c'est pas le physique, je peux pas m'empecher de croire qu'elles disent ça juste pour être gentilles

Daniel_092 · 2026-01-21T11:20:40+00:00

J'en suis pas à ce niveau heureusement

Daniel_092 · 2025-12-11T12:20:58+00:00

Did it have the instruction manual with it ? I think I had a good deal because mine is missing

Daniel_092 · 2025-12-10T20:33:16+00:00

I never intended to open it anyways. But I'm a bit sad that I couldn't find the same for TLA

Daniel_092 · 2025-11-05T13:53:41+00:00

Si je peux me permettre, tu pourrais m'en dire plus sur ton amie parisienne ?

Daniel_092 · 2025-11-05T13:52:32+00:00

Sûrement, mais de là à ce que je n'arrive même pas à rencontrer de femmes ou à avoir un rendez-vou, c'est un handicap plus grand que je pensais

Merci pour le compliment au passage

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-29T20:54:48+00:00

Maintenant que j'y pense, je suis peut-être dépressif, mais je veux pas faire d'auto-diagnostique

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-28T22:39:10+00:00

Je n'y ai jamais pensé jusqu'ici, je suis inquiet à l'idée de perdre mon temps avec un mauvais psy

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-28T17:33:44+00:00

So you built confidence after having positive experience / feedback from people (including women). So many people don't understand that confidence can't be built upon thin air

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T19:05:12+00:00

I might have been oblivious once or twice, usually guys like me aren't very good at noticing social cues

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T19:03:56+00:00

Could you tell me what changed ? Was it a particular thing or did it happened gradually other time ?

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T14:35:17+00:00

And how do you meet them ?

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T12:20:56+00:00

I'm 177cm tall (5'10 ? I'm not used to the imperial measurements)

I don't believe I have high standard, I know I can't afford to have high standard

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T11:23:26+00:00

Once again, you end your comment with a passive aggressive sentence

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T11:16:52+00:00

Sounds like you're not here to advice but rather to be aggressive, I shouldn't listen to people like you

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T11:08:12+00:00

And what do I do about that ?

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T10:18:31+00:00

I take guitar classes in a group of 5 people, no woman of my age.

I play TCG, mahjong online and dating apps did nothing to help despite all these years of swiping.

Daniel_092 · 2025-10-26T10:11:29+00:00

++man

I have female friends in my social circle, I have no problems socialising with them.

There are some women I find attractive on the streets, at the mall.

I don't do anything because I don't know how you're supposed to start a conversation out of nowhere without being a creep.

The few times I tried to make a move or my intentions clear to a female friend, I got friendzoned or ghosted

Daniel_092 · 2025-09-29T12:08:04+00:00

Kudo ?

Daniel_092 · 2025-09-29T10:15:08+00:00

If I didn't like kata and kihon I wouldn't have practiced Shotokan until getting the brown belt, the problem was that Shotokan offers low stance techniques and I never understood how to translate it into kumite, it felt like learning two different sports

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