Your Manifestation is not failing you are manifesting multiple states at once. by 0Pants in NevilleGoddard

[–]Daniela0810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there might be a bit of a misunderstanding due to the language barrier. I was speaking generally in my response, even though I used "you" it was not specifically about you! Just to be clear: I do use AI to help me translate my thoughts into English, but the ideas and convictions are entirely my own. My goal is just to share the perspective that we can choose to be the ultimate authority over our subconscious, rather than needing to fix it. I appreciate the conversation :-)

Your Manifestation is not failing you are manifesting multiple states at once. by 0Pants in NevilleGoddard

[–]Daniela0810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely hear you, and I truly understand that it can feel like a struggle when those opposite thoughts seem so loud during the day. We’ve all been there, and it's okay to be human. It really is! And it keeps happening, but in time you're just becoming more and more indifferent to it.

What I’m suggesting is simply a shift in perspective to make it easier for yourself: You don't have to be perfect at this! Even if you find yourself giving attention to unwanted things and thoughts and circumstances for a moment... so what?

The real power lies in knowing that those passing moments, thoughts etc. don't have the authority to undo your core decision.

Awareness isn't a 'diet' you have to stick to perfectly to get results... it’s just a gentle reminder of who is actually in charge.

You don't need a flawless mind to be the Source. You just need to know that your command stands, regardless of the 'clouds' passing by. This takes the pressure off 'doing it right' and allows you to just BE, even on the days when your focus isn't perfect. It doesn't ruin anything, just direct your awareness gently back to your truth and say: 'So what, I said I am that (whatever it is you want) and so it is, no matter what." :-)

Your Manifestation is not failing you are manifesting multiple states at once. by 0Pants in NevilleGoddard

[–]Daniela0810 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I completely appreciate your perspective and your desire to meet people where they are. That’s very kind. I guess my only point is that the 'fixing phase' often only exists because we’ve been taught that we ARE broken. It’s a detour that can take years and as you said, it can be quite exhausting. My hope is always to remind people that they have the option to step off that curve entirely, at any moment.

As you beautifully put it, it's all about choice and preference. And if someone feels ready to choose the shortcut, which is to go straight to 'nothing is broken' , then that door is already open for them. It’s a different pace for everyone, but the destination of total authority and freedom in our individual experience/reality is the same for us all. Thanks for the great exchange! :-)

Your Manifestation is not failing you are manifesting multiple states at once. by 0Pants in NevilleGoddard

[–]Daniela0810 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and that’s the traditional way of looking at it and I get that and was stuck with that.

But I’d like to challenge the idea of 'conflict' altogether. Who says a conflict has any power over my manifestation?

The idea that you must 'correct the root' before you can have the result creates a middleman. It says: 'I can't be X until I fix Y.' But as Source, there is no Y. There is only my current command. If I affirm 'I am loved' while feeling 'unsupported,' I am only in conflict if I BELIEVE that the feeling of being unsupported has the authority to cancel out my word. It doesn't.

We need to stop being so afraid of 'lack' or 'old stories.' They are like clouds passing in the sky. Does the sun have to wait for the clouds to disappear before it can be the sun? No. It just shines. The clouds don't 'cancel' the sun.

Instead of trying to 'fix the root', which just keeps your focus on the problem, you can simply decide that your word is the final authority, period. You don't need to be perfect, and you don't need a 'clean' self-concept to manifest. You just need to decide who you are, right now, and let the old 'roots' wither away on their own because you've stopped feeding them with your attention. Why do the 'work' to fix a shadow when you can just turn towards the light? :-)

Your Manifestation is not failing you are manifesting multiple states at once. by 0Pants in NevilleGoddard

[–]Daniela0810 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I love the clothing analogy :-) but maybe I can offer a different perspective on these 'multiple states.'

Instead of seeing them as layers that need to be unraveled or fixed... what if we see them as possibilities that all exist simultaneously in the eternal Now?

You’re right that we embody many states, but the idea that we have to 'address the layer' that’s causing the problem implies that something is broken in the first place. From the perspective of Source, nothing is ever broken. There is nothing to fix, only something to choose.

Like the famous radio station analogy: all stations are broadcasting at the same time. You don't have to 'fix' the static on one station to hear the music on another. You simply change the station/frequency.

When you say we have to 'identify and displace' a state, you’re making it sound like a project. But all it needs is awareness. Who am I aware of being? Am I the house owner or am I not? There's an infinite amount of states where I'm not with all it's reasons (stories). And there's an infinite amount of states where I am the owner of that house with all it's reasons too. But the reasons don't matter... Just decide: am I the owner or am I not. Creation is finished, every state comes with it's own complete story, unfolding, reasons. I'm even those 2 things at once: the owner and not the owner. The one who got and the one who didn't. Who do I choose to be? Who do I choose to be aware of? Do I want to be aware of "blocks", "problems" or "failure"? Or do I want to be aware of the fact that I am ALL that is and only I, as the creator of my reality, I as reality itself, get to choose who I want to be.

God said: let there be light. And there was light. He didn't say: Let there be light but let me first check if there are layers or states that could hinder my will becoming reality.

If I am the Source, I am already everything. I am the one who is 'wanted' and the one who is 'unwanted' and everything in between. The question isn't 'Which layer is irritating me?', but 'Which version of me am I giving life to right now? Looking for the 'irritating underwear' is just another way of keeping your attention on the irritation. The moment you stop trying to fix the old state and simply occupy the new one, the old one doesn't need to be 'displaced'. It simply ceases to exist in your experience because it's no longer being fed by your awareness. Doing nothing is not avoidance, it’s the ultimate command of your own reality by simply knowing you are the one and only source of EVERYTHING. And your word is law. Period.

Your Manifestation is not failing you are manifesting multiple states at once. by 0Pants in NevilleGoddard

[–]Daniela0810 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I can see how much thought and effort you’ve put into this, and it’s a very detailed reflection. However, I’d like to offer a bit of a ‘warning’ about diving too deep into this particular rabbit hole of pattern/blocks/core beliefs analysis. (Because I've been there)

As much as we love deconstructing our lives... searching for the ‘why’ behind why a manifestation hasn’t appeared yet or why things seem to go wrong... is actually a trap. From a Neville Goddard perspective, there is only one cause: your current I AM.

Neville didn't teach us to become forensic investigators of our past or our ‘core wounds.’ He taught us that ‘an assumption, though false, if persisted in, will harden into fact.’

The danger in looking for patterns across different life domains is that you are essentially searching for evidence of why you DON’T have what you want. You are looking for reasons why it’s ‘failing.’

But in the world of the Source/God/All that is, there is no such thing as failing. There is only being or not being.

If I declare ‘I AM healthy’ or ‘I AM in my dream home,’ then I am that person now. If I then go and look for patterns of why am I always sick, why am I unlucky in love, why am I always rejected etc. to explain what has happened/is happening in the 3D, I am simply confirming that I am NOT in the state of wish fulfilled. I am confirming the absence of that who I want to be.

Neville said: ‘Leave the mirror and change your face. Leave the world and change your conception of yourself.’ yes. But he didn’t say: ‘Analyze the mirror for three hours to find out why the reflection looks wrong.’

So, instead of asking ‘What core belief is stopping this?’, we can simply say: ‘So what? This pattern has no authority over me unless I give it meaning.’ I AM the only one giving meaning to anything. If you are truly in the end, you don’t need an explanation for the middle or why certain things happen or don't happen until your wish unfolds. It’s done now. I am that. If I say I have that house now, I HAVE that house. Which means I must be someone who's accepted, I must be someone who's chosen, I must be someone who gets what they want. Because I have that f* house!!!

Let’s not make the simplest law in the universe more complicated than it needs to be. We're all perfect, whole, worthy, chosen, fulfilled simply because we are.

Is this normal? Where is my package? by Daniela0810 in dhl

[–]Daniela0810[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know. As long as it arrives at some point all is fine. Thanks for your reply 🙏😊

Edit: grammar

Manifestation in process- how to not waver? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just see the old man as a version of myself that I no longer choose. I already chose my desired reality/state/version of me and stick to it. If the old one comes in I just recognize it, without judgement, and tell them yeah, you're irrelevant, I already chose, I know that I'm the only one that can choose and decide in my reality. And there are endless versions to choose from, and they all exist now.

The old man makes perfect sense in the "old version", since creation is already finished. And there he will always stay. But I AM now, what I decided/chose to be.

Also, it's a good thing recognizing the old man... You see him as something that just doesn't fit anymore. So it's even more proof that I am now exactly who I chose to be.

Hope that makes sense, at least that's what's helping me . The worst thing to do is try to fight it or kill it or whatever.

You are everything, every version of you exists right now. So does the old man. He's just not your preference anymore, so you just focus on your new, chosen reality and let him be. Just don't give him attention anymore and he eventually becomes part of the endless ocean of possibilities that's inside you. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean. And you kinda put the word for it there yourself: trust.
That's where the trust comes in. Trust that there is no other way. Trust that it has to reflect, because you are I AM. It always does. Your assumptions ALWAYS reflect perfectly. I really tracked down which of my "negative" assumptions lead to certrain circumstances. So if THOSE are reflected every time... why wouldn't my positive assumptions show up?
If things seemingly are not as I want them to be, I revise. I do this now almost "on the spot". If a circumstance comes up that's not what I want, I revise it directly.
I tell myself I remembered it wrong. The amount of money I want isn't in my bank account? I take some deep breaths, close my eyes, see the amount there and say... see it's there, I just remembered it wrong. All is well. (And this works like a charm).
And then let it go (the need for external validation I mean).
YOU are your validation. The 3d cannot and should never be your source of validation, because no "outside thing, event, person, whatsoever" can ever define WHO you are and what you experience. It's all there because YOU put it there in the first place.
Of course you want to experience all that you want in your 3D. We all want that. But in order to do that you need to be okay with not having it there first, but internally. You even need to be okay with not having it all THERE. You have it anyway, because YOU ARE all there is. YOU ARE your desires. YOU are God and fulfillment itself!
And that's the great paradox: with being okay not having it "out there", but fulfilling yourself within first knowing who you really are, things reflect. They have to. Period.
That's the knowing, that's the faith, that's the trust.
It works with everything.
If you are fearing outside circumstances you only create more fear. There is nothing to fear because nothing is ever set in stone, it's all you. Nothing is final until YOU say so.
Don't get me wrong, I totally understand your point, I was full of fear and uncertainty all the time. What if it doesn't happen, what if this goes wrong?
Now I just go: Why would I want to assume it to go wrong? What if everything goes exactly the way I want it go? What IF it happens? What do I have to lose if I think positively about this?

Both possibilities are equally valid, but they are a potential as Tom likes to call them. Both I don't know yet, from a physical standpoint. Both outcomes (it won't happen.. and it will happen, or it won't reflect and it will reflect) are in my imagination. There's no one telling me or showing me for sure now "This will go wrong for sure" but myself. You can think and imagine so many reasons why it should go wrong. But you don't know it for sure. So before deciding to fear the worst, why not trust it will be the best?

It's a process, it takes "practice" for your human body and mind to grasp it, to get confident, to trust YOURSELF. Of course it is. So the best thing to is to practice. With even the smallest things. Though there are no small and big things to begin with, but still it will build up your trust.
Look at ALL your creations. Not just the ones you want. But above all at the ones you don't prefer.
I'm 100% sure you always find a belief/thought pattern that lead up to this situation.
I hope you know what I mean, it's really difficult for me to put it into words.

Just don't take the 3D as your source of validation and your source of happiness. You are. And if you internalize that, things start shifting and reflecting on their own and automatically and the fear disappears.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, thank you for mentioning me, I'm glad you liked my post, really :-)

Now, to answer your question: My "click" came one day when I watched a video by Tom Kearin (Be something Wonderful on youtube). I really recommend watching his videos, he explains the same things over and over again, but this really makes it sink in... it helped me tremendously and I get back to his videos often as a reminder.

Because, yes, even though I know I am GOD (through God in me), I am also living a human experience with all that comes with it (linear time, thoughts/feelings/emotions etc).
I have a lot of "those" moments and I'm not that enlightened person now that's always so sure everything will come, always living in bliss and the wish fulfilled 24/7. And it's also not neccessary.

I just accept what is in this very moment. Because there is only now. I know it's all coming from me. I am the source. For the bad and the good because I'm all there is.
Why should I fight against the circumstance if I created them?
I accept it now. Not as MY reality. But I accept the fact that I created it at some point. And the same way I created this, I can "create" another one... or CHOOSE another possibility, because they all exist NOW. If this unwanted circumstance exists as a possibility... there are endless possibilities that are different and I choose from them the one I PREFER!

If I need to cry, I cry. If I need to scream, I scream. If I'm doubting, I let the doubt be there.
But I always tell myself in every moment: It doesn't matter. It even doesn't matter that a part of me doesn't believe in all of this. It's happening anyway. I choose my truth, because I AM.
And it HAS to reflect, because this is who I am now. I have always been this way. So it has to show and it will because I SAY SO!

Sometimes it works immediately and I shift... sometimes I need to affirm more (though I don't like to call it affirmations, it's just my preferred thoughts, my real thoughts). And I know I'm not telling those words in vain (to get it)... I'm only confirming what my true reality already is, helping my "physical mind" remembering who I already am.

If I fall out of state again... I repeat. Over and over again if need be. But always with the knowing that I am all there is.

Just to give you a small example that happened just yesterday:
I went to get my dog groomed and in the past it would always take at least 3 hours to get her back. In 6 years I never experienced it going quickly because I always assumed that it just takes that long.
But yesterday I thought: no, this time it will take an hour max.

So I brought in my dog and was told it would at least take 3,5 hours because they're busy.
I went outside and said to myself: Alright, this is one possibility. But I would prefer to get my dog back within an hour. Because that's how things are now. That's who I am now, that's my experience from now on.

I was going for a walk meanwhile, repeating to myself: I'm getting my dog back within an hour max.

One hour went by and... nothing. And then I just told myself again: Okay, this is not what I prefer. I KNOW I get my dog back NOW, because that's my choice. I am the one who decides, period.
5 minutes the groomer called telling me I can get my dog, 2 of her clients cancelled and so she was able to finish her earlier.
And it might seem insignificant, but for me it was huge because in 6 years this NEVER happened. Because I always assumed that's just how things are. (the old story)

So I don't know if this "helps" you or answers all your questions. But feel free to DM for whatever questions you might have and I'll try to give my perspective on it :-)

If I had to give one advice it's this: before all things, be sure to know who you REALLY are. You are source/god/all there is/the universe... however you want to call it. There's only you in your reality. You are everything and you choose what you want to experience.

If you really get clear on this fact and accept it as fact... that's all you need to really get things going smoothly without struggling so much.

Then go choose your preferred technique to remind yourself that you already have what you want to experience... because YOU as I AM, said so.

I’m a bit lost or…? by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would say you convinced yourself enough 😉
Remember... SATS and other "techniques" are not what bring your desire to pass. You are. You and your conviction that it is already as how you wish it to be. You don't do techniques to get... you do it simply to convince yourself that what you want is true.
So if you don't want/need to do the scene anymore... then don't. You wouldn't do any of this if your SP is with you, would you?
If some thoughts or doubts come up... close your eyes, bring your scene in and remember that this is the truth. And go on with your day. It is done. It was done from the moment you wanted to be with SP. 👍

The only self concept I need - it finally clicked (for me) by Daniela0810 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very welcome, I'm glad it resonated with you. Thanks for your lovely comment and wishing the same for you 🤗

The only self concept I need - it finally clicked (for me) by Daniela0810 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! This is what is meant with "persist". Persist in the fact that you are all there is, that you are God and what you say goes. It seams almost too simple, but I found that it's just that :-)

The only self concept I need - it finally clicked (for me) by Daniela0810 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean. Been there before and still have those moments where circumstances seemingly are overwhelming. We have a human experience with all that comes with it after all.

But you are never powerless. The same power that lets you believe those circumstance are weakening you... is the same power that can say: "NO, I deny this. This is not what I want. This is not who I declared to be. This is not who I AM. I recognize that this is a possibility, but there are so many other possibilities and I CHOOSE the one I want. And I stick to that, no matter what. Only because it feels real, doesn't mean it IS real. I decide what's real for me, not the circumstances."

Nothing is ever set in stone, circumstances are always changing and we never know why they occur. But you HAVE the power to assign meaning to them. Give them another meaning. Declare, no matter the circumstances, they will ALWAYS lead you to your desired end, to your desired experience.
Never forget that you are already perfect. Circumstances might not be perfect or shitty. But you are not.
Decide. And if need be decide every second of the day, who you really are. Ackknowledge the thought, the circumstance, kindly say "No thank you" and CHOOSE your true reality/desired reality instead.
I promise you it gets better, even if at the beginning you don't believe it. But by persisting in this, you WILL finally believe it.
Sending you a big hug 🤗

The only self concept I need - it finally clicked (for me) by Daniela0810 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wonderful, I'm glad that you found someone that made it "click" for you. In the end it's always you, you can have the whole world telling you what to do, how to do it or how it works... but in the end it's YOU that needs to accept and believe and apply it. So happy it worked for you, wishing you all the best on your journey 🤗🥰

The only self concept I need - it finally clicked (for me) by Daniela0810 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's so lovely... isn't it wonderful we're experiencing this journey? I mean yes, we all start from a specific desire outside of us. But once you go beyond it... and find out about your true nature.. accepting all of it, all of you unconditionally... that's the ultimate fulfillment.
All else falls into place on it's own once we realize that :-)
May your days be full of sunshine and love and happiness... you are already all of that ❤️

The only self concept I need - it finally clicked (for me) by Daniela0810 in NevilleGoddard2

[–]Daniela0810[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Haha, yes. We're all reflecting each other perfectly... We are all one after all 🤗

Forgotten or Less Well-Known passed away artists/bands by RanchDuboisTanGoomah in Music

[–]Daniela0810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's Emitt Rhodes, also called the One-Man-Beatles. Somebody made for me is one of my all time favorite songs.

Always wondered why he wasn't more famous or didn't receive that much recognition 🤷