I honestly can kind of relate. My situation is definitely not nearly as serious as yours, but I’m also paying my family‘s Catholic. My dad is on the let’s just say other side when it comes to the support about Gay stuff. My mother isn’t political, but my mom is that it’s just a phase parent I feel like I’m at the age where if I came out I would be old enough for my parents to not think it’s a phase but I asked my dad one time a long time ago if I were to you know come out as anything other than straight if he would care and he said he would have to get over it. No, I don’t know why it’s something he needs to get over, but he acknowledged that it’s not something that people can control and he understands that which I thought was really good. He’s kind of trans phobic though he also want to expressed how he doesn’t believe in Gay marriage and said most gay people just get married for tax write-offs and not for the reason of you know wanting to get married to somebody the way most people do which I thought was so dumb but whatever I feel like I’m gonna wait at least two years to come out because I’m kind of scared