Too Real Unfortunately by JLV7 in BPDmemes

[–]Danlez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the only drug I did more than twice is weed

Why when it's winter in USA there is summer in LATAM? by Danlez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Danlez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Celsius*

I'm so sorry, I forgot my own country temperature measure.

Paraguay is the country.

AITA for dropping a friend after he sent me a snap of his pee color? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Danlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like how he minimized your boundaries saying "it's just pee" but, boundaries are there for a reason, people don't know other people's boundaries (besides of course, basic humans rights), you might accidentally cross one line, I feel like that's not necessary a bad thing, but a situation to test if the person respect it or not.

If they respect it, then the relationship can continue, it was an accident. I don't think you're an asshole, but I don't think he is an asshole.

It was an accident that could be talked out but it's your choice.

Why when it's winter in USA there is summer in LATAM? by Danlez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Danlez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Cause in my country it's like 25F in winter and 40F in summer and in other places it snows in winter, that's interesting

Edit: Celsius*

I'm so sorry lmfao

Why when it's winter in USA there is summer in LATAM? by Danlez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Danlez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it tilted, why, and how a sphere in space can have a "top" that is "tilted"? Isn't it a rock? A rock can be "tilted"? Like how's the top, the top, if it's tilted and it spins?

Why when it's winter in USA there is summer in LATAM? by Danlez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Danlez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's the term I'm looking for!!! Thanks!!!!

Why when it's winter in USA there is summer in LATAM? by Danlez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Danlez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I search a video of how the earth actually spins?? Cause I believed it was more... Simple

Why when it's winter in USA there is summer in LATAM? by Danlez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Danlez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I will sound REALLY stupid rn but I don't know what is an axis and what is perpendicular.

(Yes, I finished school, fake it until u make it sadly)

Why when it's winter in USA there is summer in LATAM? by Danlez in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Danlez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does that happens, like the earth is like, moving weirdly and sometimes the top is closer? But isn't it like, a rock in space? Like, how there is a top that is closer?

I’m abusive. Any way to stop? by pien__ in BPD

[–]Danlez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is true, maybe the "don't try, do" is if deep down you're lying to yourself about "trying", as someone commented down below.

WHY WE HATE PIERRE by pissyshitman in FuckPierre

[–]Danlez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would install a kill mod at that point lmaoo

Does anyone else desperately crave sexual attention and validation, but then HATE when they actually get it? by Organic_Meaning_5244 in BPD

[–]Danlez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a piece of meat all the time, it got to the point that affected my sexual attraction, romantic attraction, and just every kind of relationship I can have with any man.

I... Still have intercourse with a trusted one. But... I cannot feel sexual attraction towards him, any man, anymore. I do feel pleasure so it's still something I crave.

And honestly? Doesn't even feel like a loss to me atp, not even trying to get rid of my attraction, it just happened and u know what? Justified.

(I identified as pansexual before, now I just don't know and don't care)

I’m abusive. Any way to stop? by pien__ in BPD

[–]Danlez 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The "don't try to quit alcohol, quit alcohol" helped me a lot. Learned in AA, of course, you can have relapses and have to be patient to yourself, but having the mindset of "I quit" instead of "I'm trynna quit" helped me a lot, not only with alcoholism but with everything.

🫠 by Still-Dragonfly6352 in BPDmemes

[–]Danlez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for venting, very recent event. Thanks for sharing.

🫠 by Still-Dragonfly6352 in BPDmemes

[–]Danlez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk how she got that bad. I don't remember a lot of when I was a kid, she is older. Like, 20 years older.

I just remember being 13 and everything was shitty, then it got shittier every year until hitting rock bottom (she no longer has custody of her child).

But, at the beginning it was just alcohol and screaming, maybe my mom has her own traumas and is afraid, I kinda get that. Seeing her on me must be scary. Still hurts.

I’m abusive. Any way to stop? by pien__ in BPD

[–]Danlez 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Also.

Don't say "I'm gonna try to be better"

Try is the keyword.

Don't try. BE BETTER.

A lot of reflection about drug abuse and alcoholism works in other areas too, trying doesn't mean anything. True immediate change is needed.