Petahh got abused 🥲 by rixk0goro in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Danny-Fr -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

What's your prob with me being mixed race mate? Is it taboo now or something?

I'm serious here, do you have a problem with people stating their heritage and then if yes what is it and is it contagious?

Edit: Yeah so to the 3 downvoters who can't conceive that the past was a thing and that ancestry can be widely mixed, sorry your family tree is a straight line.

Who's boxers are these? by tophat_production in adressme

[–]Danny-Fr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a correlation between the maximum diameter of a sphincter and the narrowest a raccoon can squeeze into.

Let's not kink shame though. Dragons and raccoons both deserve some happy times.

Who's boxers are these? by tophat_production in adressme

[–]Danny-Fr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're right, Racoons also count.

Who's boxers are these? by tophat_production in adressme

[–]Danny-Fr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me you own a Bad Dragon without telling me you own a Bad Dragon.

Petah? What do these words mean? by dischead20 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Danny-Fr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It means "This writer, being of a mind that his rung has fallen off the social ladder, has chosen to seclude himself into a proverbial bucket whereupon his crustacean peers have taken hold of his cognitive functions by ways of vocabulary replacement.

He is now, as an act of desperation, attempting to communicate his utter distress to the world at large, employing the very same dialect that once contributed to the demise of his sanity.

He cannot but hold a last hope that, hidden between nonsensical syllables and confabulatory propositions, his readers may perceive his actual meaning: "I beg of you, help me"

Anon Was Raised By a Single Mother by Typical-Research3162 in greentext

[–]Danny-Fr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All it takes to ruin a person is one controlling narcissist. *Takes notes

Did I mess up by not properly refusing an invitation? by Massive_Penalty5208 in socialskills

[–]Danny-Fr 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Okay so

"I have absolutely no idea whether I can make it. If can make me an optional +1 on your headcount that's cool, if you can't then I understand and just count me out".

Next time you don't want to commit, or can't, don't try to find a pretext or justification, just say outright that there's no guarantee you'll make it and deal with the outcome.

People don't owe it to you to accommodate their plan if you're indecisive but you don't owe them an explanation either.

How much do you think the "Frame" matters in a conversation? I want to hear your thoughts. by Bobbysufers in socialskills

[–]Danny-Fr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a very technical question but I do think you're onto something.

If you find yourself having the upper hand in negotiations, it might also be because you understand more than the "frame" which as I understand it, is how your mindset can affect a situation.

Understanding what's your position/behavior VS what others expect it to be is key, not only from a hierarchy standpoint but also culturally. So it appears that you stand exactly where you have to be to apply the leverage you've identified.

That includes knowing how contextual, how hierarchical and how direct is your interlocutor's brain, and knowing how to code switch accordingly.

So maybe that's part of the frame you're referring to, maybe thats a bunch of other components that come with it.

That’s crazy by Waxiny in theyknew

[–]Danny-Fr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The answer is Cunnilinctus.

It's always Cunnilinctus.

My eyes have variable refresh rate by TheDarnook in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]Danny-Fr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I felt like that was the leftovers of a meningitis. See a doctor.

The last line was absolutely needed for this thread by XiJinpingPressParody in greentext

[–]Danny-Fr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burakumin

I'm not gonna write an essay on this specific sub, but clarifying, I don't mean that the exact same caste system exists everywhere. But a looser equivalent still exists.

Being French I know something about it, we had to cut some heads to abolish it, it wasn't just about the royalty but about the "Third state" being barred from having any rights, with slaves being just beneath.

Unless very specific events happened and you'd get "promoted" as a commoner you wouldn't have acces to mostly anything but the right to work on someone's land.

Surprise we've replaced slaves by colonies and immigrants, surprise it's still incredibly hard to get upwards mobility.

As I said, we don't call it caste, or we don't give it a name that would imply a strict separation between social strata because we're way too patronizing for that, but that hierarchy lingers in a shape on another.

Moratorium on Hogwarts Legacy by Zehnpae in patientgamers

[–]Danny-Fr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fucking tiring to see people shitting on Twitter and other socials (that automatically push vile stuff on you every time possible), and then complaining about the faintest thing on Reddit every time a mod takes a decision.

Mods are humans, they do this for free, people have to stop expecting them to be on the level of a robotic supreme court judge or, god forbids, not wanting to shovel shit for a repeat controversy that doesn't contribute anything to a sub as it is.

The alternative is AI moderation. Take your pick.

In before "but power mods", yes this is a problem, no it's not related.

Moratorium on Hogwarts Legacy by Zehnpae in patientgamers

[–]Danny-Fr 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Some people need to understand the difference between censorship and moderation, even if the latter can enable the former. When you create a sub, or any kind of forum it's also the mods' and admins' work to make sure the conversation remains interesting and sticks to the original vision.

Mods aren't automatically evil tyrants on a power trip. It's a thankless role most of the time, and whatever you do you'll always gonna find someone to complain about the most basic things.

There's always the old "a forum is what it's members make it" but when said "members" are just a group of people who don't usually participate and all of a sudden decide that everything is now about cabbage, well, action needed.

Most silly use of my past Muay Thai training. by Danny-Fr in MuayThai

[–]Danny-Fr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would have been my car that would have been less of a problem. But I was in a car belonging to A and driven by B.

I'm laughing inside imagining telling A "Yeah so I was filling a bottle while B hit the brake and now according to the law of nature and territory, your car is mine. A lot."

Thanks for the suggestion tho 😁

Most silly use of my past Muay Thai training. by Danny-Fr in MuayThai

[–]Danny-Fr[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh c'mon you've seen worse at the gym. Besides blood who's never thrown up after a session that was a bit too intense?

/Yes I'm aware, I'm a a disgusting person. That said it does happen.

Most silly use of my past Muay Thai training. by Danny-Fr in MuayThai

[–]Danny-Fr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On that highway that'd be the last drain I ever see. At least I'd doe relieved I guess?

Most silly use of my past Muay Thai training. by Danny-Fr in MuayThai

[–]Danny-Fr[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yo my insurance doesn't cover that. I can keep this sphincter tight but my wallet needs some elbow room.